Oh goodness, it appears a lot has transpired over the past 48 hours. I could stay up all night reading but then Monday would be a goner.
Well you have received a number of well thought out...
Originally Posted by SinsOfTheFlesh
Sins, read your response and I like your perspective and the way you presented it. Thank you for your input. You are correct that I was waiting for men to speak up and confirm if they would take advantage of such an offer and pay less. I wasn't necessarily looking for anything detailing whether or not the business model would work.
No offense, but never thought I would see the day a provider rate would get turned into rocket science. PleasantSurprise, you are way over thinking this...
Originally Posted by JS42
JS42, you know, I didn't really put much thought into anything, it was a concept that just entered my mind one day and I thought hey what the hell, eccie's a board, here we go. I appreciate you for providing your reasons for why the concept wouldn't work.
So if we don't click and I tried I'm not going to give you any money back
Originally Posted by b@ileythepistol
Would this be if the client stayed the entire time? Or if you don't click and he leaves halfway through the appointment? At what point do you decide whether or not to give any money back?
To return to your original premise: The short answer to your question is 'no'.
Originally Posted by The Sixth Beatle
Is this "no" you wouldn't see her at all?
I wouldn't. The chances for conflict is too great. Just put a price on the time offered and the client can either pay or pass.
Originally Posted by Starry69
Do you mean you would not see her at all because she's flexible in what she accepts? There is always the choice to still see her, and just pay the full rate if it is within what you're willing to pay.
Its a two way street with the trust in the business. A girl should generally know within a minute if she has to worry about 1 taking care of her or not.
Originally Posted by Chrome 1
+1
I think the provider in your hypothetical would end up with a sore pussy and and empty pocket book.
Originally Posted by dirty dog
You may be right. Does that mean you'd see her?
i once asked on aspd "do you consider hobbying to be a bus ride [pay at the beginning] or taxi ride [pay at the end]?".
a wise man answered [paraphrased after 10+ yrs of memory loss]...
"it's a limo ride - the fee is arranged in advanced and paid at the end of the ride"
Originally Posted by pmdelites
I almost always pay after. It just seems to flow better.
Originally Posted by merz5
My experience have also been the best when I just drop it at the end. It does flow better.
Originally Posted by Chrome 1
I like the way you think pmdelites, merz5, and chrome.
In the end, the power is with me/johns, we dont need to see you, we can see someone/no one else.
Originally Posted by blade78
Agreed.
Well I'm aware that the sliding scale donation practice is very common with tantra providers.
I think it's a fantastic idea. You get to work with more of a variety of people from all classes, not just the 'rich' upper class. And the guys who adore you are gonna lean toward the higher range, haha also perhaps to show off because they can.
Originally Posted by Zabrina Sarafina
Finally, someone like myself who doesn't think it's a horrible idea! All because it is acceptable to pay a lower rate, doesn't mean the client has to cross that line and actually pay less. Paying the full rate is still allowed!
But, a deposit is always required before you get that ride.
Originally Posted by MsElena
MsElena great point!