Would you date an escort or client ?

Been there...
Done that....
(TWICE)

Would I do it again?

Sure why not. If we click and have a connection beyond this "hobby", I don't see a problem.

But COMMUNICATION is the key. Always be upfront and honest about how you feel.

My 2 cents, whatever it's worth...

Genesis Nicole

Hmmmmm....

Same thing I was thinkin.....

No, I have no interest in dating them in the tratitional sense anymore than I would want to convert a Star WR to a RB. I have known some who were in relationships (even married) who did escort work (keeping him under control or in the dark) and really good at providing. The really savvy ones know how to keep the BF or husband in the dark that way getting money from him and a friend (or friends) "with benefits." They will not let a "relationship" block them from working. The benefit is her being readily available, good price, her not being fucked out from doing a ton of customers, etc. That pussy and her good looks are a money making asset that wont always be in demand or online so she is gonna retire in her peak providing income years? Dream on! Avoid the ones who are on drugs and in relationship with guy who knows. He won't admit it to her he resents her working (he is getting free pussy and prob some money) but he is not going to be comfortable as a cuckhold indefinetely. I know of one who had kid with hubby and still worked (clients used condoms). He never knew what going on.

Date them in the traditional sense? What a laugher. Your never gonna own that pussy and there will be some guy behind the scenes doing her. Many of these women go on to complete school and go into law, business, medicine, etc. No one would ever know........

Sure! Save for the fact that she's out of my league, why not?

Jealousy being a natural human emotion i think it would cause major problems if a client continued to hobby or provider continued to provide..IMHO
Im sure there are rare exceptons though and more power to them.

Jealousy being a natural human emotion i think it would cause major problems if a client continued to hobby or provider continued to provide..IMHO
Im sure there are rare exceptons though and more power to them. Originally Posted by Sweet N Little

Jealousy is a secondary emotion and typically refers to the negative thoughts and feelings of insecurity, fear, and anxiety over an anticipated loss of something that the person values, particularly in reference to a human connection. (Wikipedia interpretation, but easily researched by many other sources)

I'd hate to think that having self esteem, being secure and a lack of fear or anxiety when it comes to relationships is rare, hon. Maybe it is.

Jealousy is a secondary emotion and typically refers to the negative thoughts and feelings of insecurity, fear, and anxiety over an anticipated loss of something that the person values, particularly in reference to a human connection. (Wikipedia interpretation, but easily researched by many other sources)

I'd hate to think that having self esteem, being secure and a lack of fear or anxiety when it comes to relationships is rare, hon. Maybe it is. Originally Posted by M A X

I agree Max, im just saying that a lot could not deal with it due to jealously since thats what causes so many problems in relationships these days ...and like i said for the ones that can handle it Awesome & Rock on!
(personally i think it would be hot lol)

I personally would relish an open relationship with a woman. To know that another man is enjoying what I'm regularly enjoying is rather hot, IMHO...

Do you how many times I have heard that from my BFE's....If I would to get in a LTR than I would have to stop doing this I would feel like I was cheating....so I would have to say no....I have had alot of guys want to date me know what I do and it never ends well...so I learned the hard way...way to much drama....besides I have the best of both worlds now so why change that?

I personally would relish an open relationship with a woman. To know that another man is enjoying what I'm regularly enjoying is rather hot, IMHO... Originally Posted by IDMT

...so I learned the hard way...way to much drama....besides I have the best of both worlds now so why change that? Originally Posted by Irish Vixen

You said it Lady!

ha i did this once, and would've quit for him, but it didn't work out...i do think it was somewhat easier then dating someone that wasn't in the hobby, atleast he understood...

If you could ,would you date (as in off the clock ) someone you met in this business?
if you did start a relationship would you quit or want the other to? Originally Posted by Sweet N Little

sure why not? if our standards of relationship expectations meet? I dated two clients wiht longer term relationships. For the first i quit that business because he took care of me. I personally would not expect anyone to quit doing what he does, except he /she wants it herself.
What is important for me is a level of trust and intimacy and keeping Safe Sex arramgements. Other than that, i am polyamorous and non-monogamous and can understand when people have the desire to have sex/relationships with more than just me :-).

Yes, I'd date a provider. I've met some wonderful ladies. If our dating turned into a relationship, her or I quitting the hobby would depend on many factors. The depth of our relationship, the trust and honesty between us, whether she wanted to quit or not. If she wanted me to quit, I could do that if our relationship was developing that way.

Every relationship has its own dynamics that make it work.

Some ladies I am attracted to, if we were to become involved in a relationship, we'd be very happy together and she'd continue to provide. We could separate actions from emotions and have a committed happy wonderful relationship.

There are other ladies, I know they ultimately want a monogamous relationship. Whether dating or more, I could certainly do that and be perfectly happy.

... Other than that, i am polyamorous and non-monogamous and can understand when people have the desire to have sex/relationships with more than just me :-). Originally Posted by ninasastri

Nina dear, you and I need to start an exclusive, polyamorous, non-monogamous relationship right now!!! Oh, wait a minute, we already have that - and it's working just fine.....don't mind me....carry on.......