Relationships Beyond The Hobby

If you read my blog you will see that from my experience it simply can't work. Once a man sees you as a prostitute he will always see you that way..... and that truth will eventually rear it's ugly head...no pun intended. Originally Posted by Alex Lieberman

There are no solid rules about people, we're all too different for anything like that to hold true. For some that will be a problem, for others it will not. Too narrow a view of human character for me.

I think that is a statement that says you have a poor opinion of men, rather then one that captures a truth regarding the human condition.

me too! i completely agree!!! Originally Posted by ninasastri

I demand no royalties from its use.

It can happen. For example, Josephine “Josie” Sarah Marcus [Earp] was probably a prostitute, and she became Wyatt Earp's common-law wife. It seems it wasn’t an entirely smooth relationship, but they appear to have made it work for 46 years until when Wyatt died in 1929. This picture, entitled “Koloma,” is thought by many to be her.

There are no solid rules about people, we're all too different for anything like that to hold true. For some that will be a problem, for others it will not. Too narrow a view of human character for me.

I think that is a statement that says you have a poor opinion of men, rather then one that captures a truth regarding the human condition. Originally Posted by Lauren Summerhill

I think we (me included) forget though that Alex is a "reluctant escort."
When you do something with reluctance, unless you learn to cultivate an open mind about it at some point your viewpoint is always going to be more cynical....

C x

There are no solid rules about people, we're all too different for anything like that to hold true. For some that will be a problem, for others it will not. Too narrow a view of human character for me.
Originally Posted by Lauren Summerhill

I agree. I myself had such and such experiences. And i have witnessed such and such experiences too.

I think we (me included) forget though that Alex is a "reluctant escort."
When you do something with reluctance, unless you learn to cultivate an open mind about it at some point your viewpoint is always going to be more cynical....

C x Originally Posted by Camille

Yes i agree. And especially we cant underestimate if a woman is not a authentic escort (which means she lies about it and is not in the open) then she will most likely not attract an authentic man either.

Are you shooting me in the head Nina
Where did that icon come from lol

C xxxxx

Oh wait...it was in MY post first????
Where the he'll did that come from lol???

Are you shooting me in the head Nina
Where did that icon come from lol

C xxxxx

Oh wait...it was in MY post first????
Where the he'll did that come from lol??? Originally Posted by Camille

No?? wasn`t shooting you in the head ......not at all :-))) ......did i say something wrong?

I'm sorry, I'm confusing you! If you look up to your last post where you quoted me, there is an emoticons of one smiley shooting the other in the head lol....which is why I asked. What I didn't realize is that I had somehow picked that emoticons up from somewhere and posted it in my reply first....you had just quoted me which picked it up
I have NO IDEA where I picked that icon up as it's not showing on my list to the right

C xxxx

It can happen. For example, Josephine “Josie” Sarah Marcus [Earp] was probably a prostitute, and she became Wyatt Earp's common-law wife. It seems it wasn’t an entirely smooth relationship, but they appear to have made it work for 46 years until when Wyatt died in 1929. This picture, entitled “Koloma,” is thought by many to be her.

Originally Posted by I B Hankering

I guess LE has morphed since the days of Wyatt Earp and Matt Dillon.

I am new to Eccie and new to discussions but was interested by this one. I live in the KC area and love recommending and showing people things in my city from the Harley plant to quiet dinners over wine, good music, theatre, and companionship. A close friend in the business grinned and said that I would be a natural spreading laughter, giving KC private tours, enjoying excitement and help augment my income at the same time. I really enjoy traveling both in and out of the US and a partner always adds special intrigue to new experiences. It appears that you have to have experience to get a "date" but need "date" references to get experience. In the past this was casual and developed into a relationship of sorts but as I see here many of you have found the best of both worlds.

I guess LE has morphed since the days of Wyatt Earp and Matt Dillon. Originally Posted by charlestudor2005

Rest assured, somewhere in this great nation, there are still some “commerce deals” made between today’s fine, upstanding LE officers and the "Ladies of the Red Lamp."

regardless of who actually said it.

No. I don't believe in starting a relationship on a meeting in which I pay a person to stay away. It's a recipe for disaster. Originally Posted by charlestudor2005

I don't think you're paying her to leave or stay away at all. You're paying her to show up, and to give you what you think you want or need in the way that you think you want or need it. A wife or gf will be out to get what she wants or needs while (maybe) making you happy. The very point of an escort is to make you happy.

As for relationships outside the hobby...I'm not clear on whether we're talking about starting a relationship with someone you met in the hobby, or if you meant having a relationship while participating in the hobby as well. I've tried both, and neither have worked out well. I don't lie well, so I am pretty open about what I do. Regardless of whether the man says he can handle it, it always becomes an issue later.

I am new to Eccie and new to discussions but was interested by this one. I live in the KC area Originally Posted by Bri.Woods74

Welcome Bri. You have come to a great place. There is a lot to learn and read here. If you have any questions don't hesitate to search through past threads or start a thread. Lots of nice people here to help you out.

Welcome Bri. You have come to a great place. There is a lot to learn and read here. If you have any questions don't hesitate to search through past threads or start a thread. Lots of nice people here to help you out. Originally Posted by Ansley

Thank you Ansley, I appreciate the welcome.

I have spent time looking through threads for the deal maker and deal breaker issues. I think only the militiary has more abbreviations to learn than the hobby. I see a lot of nice people on here.