Whales, Spinners & Mucho Dollars City

Hell!!! I started a thread about a flakey hooktard and it turned into a discussion about Best Practices for taxi drivers....btw....what's an "OP?"

Can you please read the question before speaking? PLEASE!!!!!

btw....what's an "OP?" Originally Posted by teenieweenie

OP = Original Poster (ivan, in this case)

Seems like a lot need to read the rules again. I think it is awful men are allowed to refer to "providers" members on this board as "Whales" !!!. If you don't agree with the Hate..then fill ST. C pm box up.

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Dual meaning based on context. Most commonly "original poster", but also "original post" if you want to piss off Interwebs purists...which I do...

Thanks guys!

Sensual Specialist,

I sometimes wonder if the rules were only meant for the women and not the men. You really have to wonder. Especially when the rules and guidelines of the board are ignored in just this type of thread.

Fancy, there is this same group (handful of men) hobbyists whose lives are so miserable with little to nothing to do in life but post on an escort board and be negative, condescending, and just ugly toward the women in our line of work. Doesn't matter if a new board pops up and people migrate over, truth is so will these type men. These men are bitter, bitter because somewhere in their life they loved a woman and she hurt them, so they take it out on women in this field and they let it eat them up inside.

I think the best thing to do is not give them the satisfaction of getting to you and just ignoring them. I know, I know, easier said than done. Some of this is still hurtful and ugly just the same. If you met anyone of these guys in person I guarantee you they are meek in person, shy, and most likely a typical misfit type who wouldn't have the balls to talk to a real woman like that in person. The only way they can really get off is if they are with their buddies in a social setting or on an escort board, but that's because it gives them a false sense of power and control which they obviously do not have in real life. I actually feel sorry for Ivan, that he stooped so low to start his thread off with such an insult, it just tells me he is a lonely person looking for attention on an escort board. Sad sad...indeed.

There are women of all types, looks, and sizes in this industry, and every man has his own individual tastes. Some men love BBW's and seek them out.

Ivan to your question, I do believe the economy the way that it is, is causing women to get into the hobby out of desperation. I truly believe that.. so your seeing women of all ages, sizes, and backgrounds getting into this life. Some of the younger women generally don't take this seriously and end up burning themselves out.. some women dabble in it for a short time and when their life and economic battles get better they go back to being a regular woman in a civilian setting. Some of us stay in this biz for as long as we can get paid for what we do, while taking short hiatuses here and there.

teenie I think that you have the wrong thread lol

It's because he's gay. Of course there's nothing wrong with that, just saying. Originally Posted by Sweet Discretion

Eh eh

Sensual specialist use the RTM button, its there to get our attention.

But chicks call themselves stallions every day and that's a male horse.

You girls should stop feeding into threads like this when you know it is posted just to piss you off.

What I see happening to Houston is a bunch of Mexican spas and agency things popping up. Everything else will remain about the same. Originally Posted by trey

+1

The rules really need to have photos in order to keep out attention ... look a butterfly ...

what does the future looks like for Houston? Originally Posted by ivan

If you're representative of the top of the food chain, I'm losing my appetite.

50/50 odds Fancy goes lesbian by the end of the thread.
Originally Posted by Fancyinheels

+1

I still want to know what chick calls herself a stallion? Cat, kitty, cougar, pussy, beaver, filly, etc., yes, but stallion?

That would be interesting, predicting what new sexual nicknames people will come up with in the future as intimate technology evolves. If we ever develop chrome-plated sexbots, would give new meaning to the phrase, "Keep your trap shut."

A few things...... First, it is a discussion board, and many of the rules have a great deal of ambiguity....... Second, you (Non Staff) do not see what goes on behind the scenes in regards to infractions and rules violations. To comment otherwise is simply baseless..... Third, it seems to me most of the perpetuation of these name callings is from the ones who deplore it the most. Stop feeding the fire and it will burn out..... The rules apply to EVERYONE. I do not care what type of internet message board you may encounter..... ANY board with this amount of interaction and traffic will encounter a certain amount of drama/conflict and keyboard tough guys/gals...... Iron fisted sites detract from posting and new posters more than looser ones......

So my question is this...... Which is worse? The Original potentially offensive post, or the equally potentially offensive rebuttle posts and further perpetuation of the one negative portion of the post?

Lets keep it civil and on topic please folks......

JaD

The topic wasn't civil to begin with! I might be joining you on the lesbo side Fancy. Just as a provider who is older, or weighs a few extra pounds, or might not had been a cheerleader in school. You do what you have to do! I was working 3 jobs in the healthcare field and making around 60k a year, and worked ALOT. Now it comes easier. I believe once they get started they get addicted to it and can't stop! So get use to alot of big girls coming, and you know we love compliments and attention. And here we get alot of it. From other gentlemen of course! So getting rid of big girls might not be so easy!