Calling all veteran providers and clients-help me figure this one out!

I am amazed that when everyone is talking in generalities, Txirishman pops up and says he knows who people are talking about. I think this guy has a fixation with someone that he needs to get over.

One thing I will say.. If I start to feel like we are friends..I will no longer accept money from you. Which means we also can't f*uck anymore. And as friends we have to do dumb shit like shopping for antiques and going to see chick flicks... (The longer, the better!!)
And you also have to help me move...and I have some really really heavy shit. And I move a ton!
Friend stuff Originally Posted by Maggie_May

Oh I completely understand the going out and doing dumb shit together part, but when the chick flick is over or the moving is done then I get to fuck you anyway I want all night long for weeks and that's OK with me. And you'd loved it.

I am amazed that when everyone is talking in generalities, Txirishman pops up and says he knows who people are talking about. I think this guy has a fixation with someone that he needs to get over. Originally Posted by blaeese

My sentiments EXACTLY! Good grief. Some gents just can't seem to help themselves! SMH

Zip.....you have reached out to her AND started this thread. As a provider myself, I wouldn't want a friend of mine starting anything like this on the open boards. If she isn't responding, there is a reason. She does not have to stay in constant communication with you and is free to simply "move on" if she so chooses, just as you can. I know you feel slighted, but this isn't RW. It's hobby. You pay for IOP. I am not saying you two didn't connect, but there seem to be boundaries that you are ignoring. Try to put things back in proper perspective. It's tough at times, but definitely necessary. You aren't the only person who has been in this situation and you won't be the last. "Feelings" tend to sneak up on us when we least expect them to. :/

I just want to say thanks to all again for the advice....most of which I respect and agree with. In no way by starting this thread did I wish any harm or negativity toward this provider. She is a great person and I still wish her all the best. I do care for her and am concerned about her well being. I don't believe that makes me a bad person or hobbyist. If she chooses to contact me, that's great. If not, I'll move on and still wish her all the best!

I have other providers that I'm close to as well and would feel the same towards them if this were to happen with one of them. I've always had a tendency to wear my heart on my sleeve and am slowly learning thru this lifestyle, that I can't do that.

I've had several pms from other guys stating the same has happened to them and they have learned valuable lessons from it and have moved on not letting emotions come into the equation. I appreciate knowing that there are others who have and are going thru the same thing.

For the providers who have posted on this thread....thank you! You're the ones I really wanted to hear from, my reason for posting it here and not the ML. I value your opinions and appreciate your honesty and points of view. Some of which were hard to swallow, but after thinking about them and letting them digest, I still appreciate the words of wisdom that came with each of them.

I'll continue to hobby and enjoy my time with some of Dallas' finest! However, I have made it a priority to keep my heart and emotions in check! Thanks again!! Happy hobbying!

You didn't shit on her carpet, did you?

You didn't shit on her carpet, did you? Originally Posted by johnclark

no shit in the incall ...it's like rule #1. I'm left trying to figure out two things .,.. since zipster is so swell and brings gifties ... how do I break into his rotation.

#2 .. how do I develop a relationship with maggie_may which is just friendly enough to still fuck, get a deep discount, go antiquing, but don't have to help her move. baby steps through the minefield ... baby steps, baby steps .... KA BOOOM .... ah shit

Give the op a break, Hopefully he understands that this is a business, pay to play and nothing else.

I'll continue to hobby and enjoy my time with some of Dallas' finest! However, I have made it a priority to keep my heart and emotions in check! Thanks again!! Happy hobbying! Originally Posted by zipster

This is the wisest thing I've read on this thread. You knew the answer all along. :-*

Yeah you wouldn't want to get branded as a TTW time waster or worse the "s" word Stalker, just lay back and see if she calls or call on her in a few weeks for an appt

no shit in the incall ...it's like rule #1. I'm left trying to figure out two things .,.. since zipster is so swell and brings gifties ... how do I break into his rotation.

#2 .. how do I develop a relationship with maggie_may which is just friendly enough to still fuck, get a deep discount, go antiquing, but don't have to help her move. baby steps through the minefield ... baby steps, baby steps .... KA BOOOM .... ah shit Originally Posted by dodger

No shit on her carpet...I'm not into that!!! Lol!!

Dude, I'm trying to break into your rotation!!! Summer is on my list. Seeing her soon! Hoping to see my good friend Maggie soon as well! No discount, no antiquing, but she is a true sweet heart!!

This is the wisest thing I've read on this thread. You knew the answer all along. :-* Originally Posted by Laura Lynn

Thanks doll! I appreciate it!! This hobby adventure has definitely been a slow learning curve!! I blame it on my east Texas education!!!! Lol!

Dude, I'm trying to break into your rotation!!! Summer is on my list. Originally Posted by zipster

well ... that's generous .. my rotation doesn't 'stack up' to yours. but .. wrt summer ... might have fucked up on that one. like i said in the review .. not on eccie but showed up on P411 in Lewisville.

but that might be an example of 'hoist with his own petard'. that review got a lot of views ... and now ... i can't get close to the kitchen. have to take a number and have a seat. still .. she's a very nice lady, so if this is doing her good ... that's just fine. 'search' is my friend.

I don't know what her reasons are for not responding, hopefully all is well. But I don't get how being in the hobby somehow excuses us from common courtesies. I have off-the-clock friendships. I return calls/emails at my earliest convenience. If I don't want that type of relationship with someone, I won't open the door to it. If I no longer want it, I'll end it. But I won't leave them hanging.

I don't know what her reasons are for not responding, hopefully all is well. But I don't get how being in the hobby somehow excuses us from common courtesies. I have off-the-clock friendships. I return calls/emails at my earliest convenience. If I don't want that type of relationship with someone, I won't open the door to it. If I no longer want it, I'll end it. But I won't leave them hanging. Originally Posted by Vivienne Rey

I would be fine with her telling me she just doesn't want to see me anymore. At least I would know how she feels. Not knowing anything still leaves me scratching my head, but I know she has her reasons and I accept that now. I still wish her all the best and will wait and see if she decides to contact me.

Yes, I know. Pussy rules the world.

: Originally Posted by Reese Foster

Im not sure pussy rules the world. However, it certainly rules my world Ms Foster