Eccie Provider Hustling/Scam Artist???

Oh no, providers don't respect me OR like me? Find me a hobbyist who gives a damn darlin.. I can live with that.. What I can't live with is somebody ripping me off. Clearly that's everybody's concern on this thread, and bringing it to light was the right thing to do.

Theres always two sides to every story. Originally Posted by ChloeCox

And we've heard one side of that story. Now it's your turn Chloe.

With that said, if suddenly the OP, along with the 4-5 others who've shared similar stories don't think this is an issue any longer, then neither do I.

Providers who show a pattern of getting over on their clients, potential clients, etc. don't get to advertise on this site. Let's hope you have a very legitimate explanation and this doesn't apply to you.

Thanks

Considering that she has always been argumentative on the board, her lack of response is very telling. If there was really a legitimate other side of the story, it would have already been posted.

I got hit with a guy in Houston robbed me and im trying to get to Dallas trick...then the Waco BS. Guess I am and idiot for trying to help someone....

For anyone interested, you may read about my experience on my blog, including the full text exchange.
Originally Posted by Gwendolyn Cain

I just wanted to let you know I love you Gwendolyn ....

You talk just like a NBA pimped hoe and no doubt you are exactly that.

But even better than that, insulting all the men who pay your bills and help you out ... wow ... how classy. If you could talk down to your pimp, the way you talk down to these fine gents here, maybe you wouldn't have to steal and con so daddy can get larger rims and a fresh paint job

Get over yourselves. This is not real life. It's the hoe buisness. We are dealing with lying and cheating people. How is a married man going to call a provider out as if he's living his life right. And Gwen, stop acting like you enjoy this biz. We've had too many talks involving this industry and I have yet to hear you say anything nice about a client. Aren't you retiring anyway? For the third time. Everyone is a fake when it comes to trickin. Check yourselves.

Appreciate the huge recognition though. My phone never stops ringing now. Some of the same guys who are posting negatively are calling me and booking. Such nonsense. That's why I find it all humorous. Because not one person on this board is half ass right in the head. Originally Posted by ChloeCox

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Ur a trick. Providers don't respect u. They don't even like u. All they see is dollar signs. The whole provider end is fake. It is a fantasy. Youre just stupid enough to believe otherwise. Originally Posted by ChloeCox

Guys, you should memorize this. Read every word of it. Let it slip your mind during the session, but never, ever when you're doing the business side of the hobby.

While there are exceptions to the rule, to the vast majority of providers, all you are is a source of money. You're not her friend. She won't hang out with you unless you're paying for her time. She doesn't respect you.

(I hear some of you thinking "But I'm really her friend. I'm a special snowflake! She told me so!" There's an easy test to whether or not you're really her friend: How much time have you spent with her off the clock? If the answer is none, you're deluding yourself. And you say she calls you? When does she call and not need/want something? When's the last time she did a favor for you? Friends give as well as take.)

So explain to me why on earth you'd give a provider money in advance? Why you'd do her a favor?

If she needs money, and you want to help her, schedule a session immediately. If she's busy, she doesn't need your money - she's getting it elsewhere. If she's not working, she's not very serious about her need. If it's a real need, she'll schedule with you, do the session, and your fee will help her out of her jam. She may offer an excuse about why she can't spend an hour with you right now - ignore it. She's either willing to work for the help, or she's not.

If you do anything else, you're being played for a sucker. Read this again:

Ur a trick. Providers don't respect u. They don't even like u. All they see is dollar signs. The whole provider end is fake. It is a fantasy. Youre just stupid enough to believe otherwise. Originally Posted by ChloeCox

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Lol, you got that right. East Texas is getting live!

blowpop....Amen!!! Your post should be required reading and the Prologue for the "Hobbyist's Guide to Intelligent Tarting" LOL

Good job and words to live by!
MM

Originally Posted by ChloeCox
Ur a trick. Providers don't respect u. They don't even like u. All they see is dollar signs. The whole provider end is fake. It is a fantasy. Youre just stupid enough to believe otherwise.

Thanks, Chloe. You couldn't have warned hobbyists away any faster if you tried. I think you've soured damn near everyone in CenTex/East Texas by now.

The subject of this thread has lost her Verified Provider status here. The staff has determined that she can earn that status back if she demonstrates that she is no longer ripping her clients off and/or makes some effort to make amends with those she has cheated. I consider this matter dealt with, so lets keep additional posts on this thread limited to her future conduct.

Personally I don't give my money away for nothing back. If she couldnt provide at the time of need then she would have waited. If you fall for these kinds of games then maybe she is right. You are a trick.

Right on blowpop!!! BFR1 (Big Fucking Rule No. 1) - NEVER loan money to whores or thieves, no matter how sad the story. Wait for my upcoming review on a certain provider if she does not soon pay me back the $1400 she "borrowed" from me. Only give a provider money if AT THE SAME TIME you get some services in return. That provider, (different than the one you mention here) begged me for money to pay court costs for failing to show for 3 traffic tickets... and I was stupid enough to give it to her. I made the mistake of thinking she was a friend

I used to believe that a relationship with a provider was possible. Til I loaned her $3000 and she decided it was time to move. Lesson learned.