London, I agree with everything you write. Having said that, no matter what our own behavior is, none of us knows for sure that the ONE significant other in our lives that we love isn't unloading with random high risk strangers day after day when we aren't there. There is no better evidence of that than this hobby and this board. Maybe yes, maybe no... but the best strategy is to assume that we all need to take care of ourselves and make our own decisions accordingly.
Cheers,
L4L
Originally Posted by Lust4xxxLife
Granted, but I can bet you any BF or Husband I would have certainly would not be banging as many as we do in the hobby...both guys and girls. You're reaching with that one hon. I don't date serial hobbyists, but guys who work 50 hours a week. It's a bit hard to be doing that much cheating, and most don't want to get caught either.
I don't have a BF...have not had bbfs in over 3 years, but I would not be here if I did either. I just think we take enough risks with bbbj and cim to not add more to the pot is all.
Why should we as providers have to stop offering what you guys love so much (bbbj) for the sake of a few azz hats who want to put everyone at risk? You do realize that's what you're suggesting by only worrying about yourself and not others? I have seen more and more women willing to take less and be more protected as of late, and I doubt it's the taste lol. Just be careful what you ask for.