Your pics work?? I use Malwoodys and it aint done shit for me!! Originally Posted by BigDealYou best rethink your strategy, buddy...
Honestly, never heard of Bumble before (I know, I’m sheltered...) Do they have Timex girls there?!?
Are they making the first contact or are you emailing every girl that look half way decent? Dude, i'm too tense to even breathe. Originally Posted by new2thesceneYour never gonna get to all of them and not all are gonna get to you.
n2ts, if you're getting so few hits on these dating apps, then you probably need to revise your pics and profile content. Maybe get both female and male friends to review and offer suggestions for improvements. Originally Posted by RocketSurgeonExactly,
You'd probably be better off not making assumptions about why an individual is on this site. FWIW, I got plenty of hits on both pof and bumble, but just not what I'm looking for. I'm picky, have limited time, and have very particular interests for ladies. In general, I'm only interested in about 1-2% of the profiles I see on SA, pof, Bumble, and most other dating sites. I can afford to be selective, so I am.
On SA, the ratio is about 6 to 1 of SB to SD in the KC area. There are currently about 8,000 SBs w/in a 100 mi radius of KC and about 1,300 SDs. Most of the female profiles are real, but you're dealing with problem women ... bad habits, serious money mgmt issues (or shopaholics, or got rinsed by their last husband or BF) felons, con artists, scammers, women trying to market their pics/vids/webcam crap instead of being an SB, ultra high maintenance and materialistic, single mothers with little time, etc.
Some SDs are willing to put up with some of those things, but I don't put up with much of that. By the time I weed out the ones with bad habits, the felons, the con artists, scammers, camgirls, single moms w/ no free time, and the ones I'm not attracted to, I'm left with about 0.5% to 1% of the women within 100 mi of KC, or about 40-80 women. Out of those 40-80 that remain, some are not into me, some wind up having hidden deal breaker problems, some aren't looking for the same type or arrangement that I am, etc.
I currently have unread messages from almost 1,000 women for one of my research accounts on SA that has been active for a couple of years. Some of those women are out of the area or even country though.
In general, some will make contact with you, and others you'll need to contact. Whether they contact you first depends in large part on whether you have pictures in your profile, what your profile says, and how aggressive, desperate, or interested the woman is. Originally Posted by RocketSurgeon
Yup Nyce Guy, I dont need any more complication in my life either. Originally Posted by @rlo726Pretty much where I was, too, when I decided to cut my SA ties...
I seem to be very popular on SA with women in Venezuela, Ukraine, and the Philippines ������ Originally Posted by GuyFromKCCongrats, Guy! Keep that passport close by! Road trip!!