First Contact - Separates Men from Boys

If there's something in the ad that's not clear to me, for instance, if the provider offers both incall and outcall because it wasn't specified, then I'm going to attempt to discern that confusion before doing anything else.


So if you get a text from me saying "Hi Torre. I noticed on your ECCIE ad that you will be visiting my city. Do you offer appointments after 8 PM, or are you only available during daylight hours?" I expect the courtesy of a reply to even be able to determine if we can see each other at all theoretically, before I start doing things like handing out references or putting any effort into an appointment that might never take place.


It's no different if a prospective customer is in his '80s but your ad does not specify whether or not you are senior friendly. Why would he waste his time providing you his linkedin profile and selecting a date and time to see each other only to find out you don't see guys over 60?


If the only response you know to a simple question to get some basic information is "Send me a selfie with your holding your ID" then I damn sure don't want to see you, and you just did me a favor.

This industry has changed so dramatically in the last 5 years ....
anyone who is a long time hobbyist know they have to up their game to "get what they want".

Screening is so up and down ... the resources ... dividing the "liars" from the "truth tellers".
Noticing the red flags ...
Tolerating the new kids on the block and their horrible Hobby Etiquette.
Learning how to stay sane while keeping your boundaries and such ...

So ... there is something to say about first contact.
Many dudes get weeded out immediately because of one liners .... or, acting like they already know you (calling you babe or sweetheart) ....
or asking about the menu ... etc., etc.

I guess we all have our preferences, but I can usually tell by first contact if this is someone I would be interested to see.

A nice greeting .... like, "Hello Torre ... I hope you are having a good day. I noticed your profile and was very impressed.
Please let me know what you need for screening as I would like to book an appointment with you in the near future."

NOT ....

• Hey babe ... you available today?
• Hello ...
• You're hot! Lets get together ..
• I wanna **** you .... interested?
• I'm on Eccie and have references .... are you available today?

Yeah ... that's just a few.
Cool your jets man! Just because your horny at the moment you gonna act a fool like that?
NOW ... note that I make exceptions for my regulars, ATFs and such.
After we hit it off ... and get to know each other, then the rule is out the window.
But first contact .... is a real reflection of your character and personality.

Again, some gals are less particular and that's all good
I'm just saying that most experienced and quality providers hit the "delete" button many many times.

Just something to think about before you send that text or email.

What are your thoughts on this ...
Does this come across as too persnickety or just careful of my time and intuitions?

I can only imagine the responses on this so I will just nip that in the butt.
**We just want to get a nut off and you should be thankful for the $$ (HA)!
**I don't have time to send a love letter ... so no thanks (Great! Not a match)!
**Looks like you're offering just what I need ... so I thought I would see if you would respond (Sorry .... Not enough read into that).

Someone had to say it. I gladly take it on.

Cheers!
Torre Originally Posted by Torre Tames

What a comical response.
Keep making an ass out of yourself.

We are all looking for some entertainment these days.
Might as well watch the class clown ....

What a comical response.
Keep making an ass out of yourself.

We are all looking for some entertainment these days.
Might as well watch the class clown .... Originally Posted by Torre Tames

Look in the mirror and you'll see a granny STILL turning tricks, nothing more comical than that! I'm embarrassed that you still need to do that at your age TT.

You escaping from the senior center again? You've been around since before the internet. That's right, A new luxury Mercedes LMAO 🤣 Delusional to the max!

You're so worked up that you missed a good question from a potential client above your response. Poor guy dodged a disappointment

Lucky Guy. FTFY

Lucky Guy. FTFY Originally Posted by pittlicker

Poor guy for now knowing any better, but you're correct about being lucky.

Torre Tames
What a comical response.
Keep making an ass out of yourself.

We are all looking for some entertainment these days.
Might as well watch the class clown ....

MY APOLOGIES PANGOLIER - APPARENTLY YOU WERE POSTING THE SAME TIME AS I. DIDN'T SEE YOUR POST TILL AFTER I HIT THE SUBMIT BUTTON.
THAT COMMENT WAS MEANT FOR THE IMMATURE GUY THAT'S FULL OF HIMSELF WHO POSTED DIRECTLY BEFORE YOU.
I will send you a PM as well.
As far as your post .... I agree wholeheartedly all that you said. I understand the courtesy needs to come from both parties
In the end .... if both parties are picky and cautious yet pleasant and friendly, well, there is a certain respect that is developed.

BLM
Poor guy for now knowing any better, but you're correct about being lucky.

[COLOR="Blue"]Ok...Mr.BowelL Movement69
I am very satisfied, happy and self confident in myself.
Sticks and Stones buddy .... Sticks and Stones.

I wish you'd find peace within yourself so you don't have the need to lash out like you do.
There are many that pity you on this board.
Instead of taking a hard look at yourself, you immediately get defensive and beat your chest.

We can only do so much and trying to be nice doesn't seem to work with you.
I'm sorry you have to live in the gutter that's in your head.
Perhaps I won't give up that someday you will actually respond to one of my posts in a positive and complimentary way.

I'm not WORKED UP as you said.
I come from a somewhat rough background, so from time to time that side of me flares up. It's my shield of protection.

Funny, this thread is about being considerate ... but look what we've turned it in to.
It's a shame.

Hugs,
Torre

p.s. And below is the comment I was referring to.

BLM
Talk about delusional, We all know when TT is running low on $, she starts posting her nonsense threAds

The granny experience is a thing, I might go in when you start giving the gummy experience, You've been turning tricks how long now? 40 years.....

So, just for kicks ... I say ... this is my 14th year in the business.
Of course there has many hiatuses and a lot of vacation and travel.
Oh.... and I do have all my teeth ... thank you very much.

The trailer park misses you TT, you can take the girl out the trailer park......how does the rest go? I'm gonna go pitty my cock in some young dumb whore half your age. Isn't tonight gray hairs cover up night? I don't know why the age thing bothers you. It's cute though, grandmas are all cute

And there you go again.
Sad ... so Sad.

(yawn)

And there you go again.
Sad ... so Sad.

(yawn) Originally Posted by Torre Tames

You forgot who runs the show old timer 😆 I have you right where I want you, Grace gave you some solid hooker advice but your ego took over, stop embarrassing yourself granny. I'll check up on you later after your gray hair servicing

BLM
You forgot who runs the show old timer ��
I have you right where I want you, Grace gave you some solid hooker advice but your ego took over, stop embarrassing yourself granny.
I'll check up on you later after your gray hair servicing

Ok ... BowelLMovement
Go ahead and keep venting. Do you need to get laid or sumthen?
Blue Balls are a bitch to you .... huh ...

No need to check up on me. You damn well don't run my show so stop fantasizing.
I have nothing against Grace ... in fact I enjoy reading her posts. Doesn't mean we have to always agree on everything.
If anybody needs advice ... it's you. How NOT to be a NUT JOB and find some self dignity.

Oh ... one more thing. I'm not embarrassed.
And I'm the one who's GOT YOU.
Apparently you keep falling into the trap. Sometimes it takes a while for IGMOS to catch on.

BLM
You forgot who runs the show old timer ��
I have you right where I want you, Grace gave you some solid hooker advice but your ego took over, stop embarrassing yourself granny.
I'll check up on you later after your gray hair servicing

Ok ... BowelLMovement
Go ahead and keep venting. Do you need to get laid or sumthen?
Blue Balls are a bitch to you .... huh ...

No need to check up on me. You damn well don't run my show so stop fantasizing.
I have nothing against Grace ... in fact I enjoy reading her posts. Doesn't mean we have to always agree on everything.
If anybody needs advice ... it's you. How NOT to be a NUT JOB and find some self dignity.

Oh ... one more thing. I'm not embarrassed.
And I'm the one who's GOT YOU.
Apparently you keep falling into the trap. Sometimes it takes a while for IGMOS to catch on. Originally Posted by Torre Tames

I do fall for the granny trap 🙂, these jokes just keep on giving and giving.....when you're the actual granny hooker you miss the humor, you think it's normal, because you're living it. I wasn't kidding when I said I felt sorry for you.

Well, whatever.
I'm tired of putting you in time out .... and then you (like a bratty toddler) throw a fit.
I've won this battle already. Many folks have informed me of that.

I think I will just settle into my lovely mobile home .... and work in the garden tomorrow.
I don't have time to put up with some sassy mouth disrespectful kid.

Have to pick up my new dentures in the morning...so I gotta get to bed.

I'm outta here....
Cheers!
TT

Well, whatever.
I'm tired of putting you in time out .... and then you (like a bratty toddler) throw a fit.
I've won this battle already. Many folks have informed me of that.

I think I will just settle into my lovely mobile home .... and work in the garden tomorrow.
I don't have time to put up with some sassy mouth disrespectful kid.

Have to pick up my new dentures in the morning...so I gotta get to bed.

I'm outta here....
Cheers!
TT Originally Posted by Torre Tames

There's no battle old lady lol, this isn't a war, what you fail to understand is that I don't work here, but you do! You keep them insults coming and I'll continue to embarrass you with the obvious. The granny hooker.....

There's no battle old lady lol, this isn't a war, what you fail to understand is that I don't work here, but you do! You keep them insults coming and I'll continue to embarrass you with the obvious. The granny hooker..... Originally Posted by BLM69

Well maybe there was no battle but there was certainly a war of words and I hate to inform you BLM but you lost that one very badly. Constantly throwing insults at a very good and very much respected provider does not put you in a good light. It is very childish and no one is impressed by your comments.

Just another trolling blm shit show. Bashing another woman he couldn't see even IF he could afford her. That's his claim to fame...getting his ass owned by ladies on here