Mary Beth, I have a somewhat opposite dilemma, mine are too perky for the size of my breasts , and it comes off as fake. Even my friends think they're man made ... Anti-bra, I don't see any comfort in them so only at church do I wear them, but that's like once a year LOL. Originally Posted by Eva DamitaLol I LOVE my push ups. I can't wear normal t-shirt bras else my boobs flop around in them too much. I need ultimate support. That'll all be fixed in due time