Sexy Princess...JUSTCAUSE and HGRITSTOO are correct. You say the hobby has given you some self esteem already so you have had some good experiences. Build on those experiences and continuing gaining swag as a sexy woman. Worry not about those who are into spinners...its just a preference.
As for those that insist on throwing out insults based on what they think is appealing, they also have low self esteem and want to bring you down to their level OR are playing a game to see if you can be psychologically bullied to lower your rates. YOU offer specials when you are ready and willing to do so on YOUR terms. You take care of things within your control...in call location clean, you are fresh...yada, yada...and the rest will take care of itself.