...most providers are not good SBs because they are focused on the $/hr and a SD/SB relationship is about more than that. That relationship is different but many providers think its the same. Its not.
That's it folks.
Peace
Originally Posted by MidwestRocket
+1.
I think it all boils down to the age old divide: How much money can I get for this one pussy vs. how much pussy can I get for my money.
Originally Posted by golard
Even as the daddy, the focus should not, and for the health of the SUGAR relationship,
cannot, focus on the financial aspect of the relationship. That obviously cannot translate to blowing the budget - a responsible SD wouldn't. Any short term excess may mean a LTR becomes impossible to maintain.
If daddy's needs are being met by the arrangements made with baby, it is dutiful for the daddy to continue to meet reasonable needs she has. It can, however, be difficult sometimes to say no to baby. Will she have as difficult a time saying no later should her needs go unmet?
Sadly, and on occasion, this scenario may end with a power play & resort back to a value proposition of sorts.
...Girls come to me with financial needs, we discuss, I offer advice and experience, they offer charm, beauty and affection.
If chemistry develops, negotiations and arrangement ensue.
Originally Posted by LoveWomen
Well said, LW.
I personally don't grasp the arrangement. If I am providing a woman with food, clothing, & shelter, as well as taking her out, providing some of life's luxuries, then we are in a relationship? My thought at least. If she sees other guys, has sex with them, uses my gifts for their benefit, then she's betraying the relationship...
Originally Posted by Cleo
The SD/SB
is a relationship, but for the most part viewed as less chemistry- or romance-based, and developed more upon an understanding of mutual gratification - communicating needs, then going about satisfying them. Of course, neither party should proceed under false pretense of chemistry/attraction.
As far as monogamy, it may end up as that. From what I've read, more than likely it'll be an open relationship, like dating but not exclusively seeing one another. Or perhaps more of a 'don't ask, don't tell' since a good many of SD's play with providers.
Originally Posted by Olivia Belle
My new SB moved out because she couldn't take living with my EX SB anymore ( as I said she likes drama ) . the ex dosent know that I am seeing her former roomate so all I can say is that Ive traded up in experience and down in years