Sex: Is it Necessary?

After reading this entire thread, it is apparent that NOBODY has more of a "convincing opinion" than another... except to themselves!

The question I come away with, is how many here have a lack of want , desire or even an appreciation for sex?* I find even the existence of that question odd, given the general forum of discussion this website deals with!

Wikipedia says :
>>" A need is something that is necessary for organisms to live a healthy life. Needs are distinguished from wants because a deficiency would cause a clear negative outcome, such as dysfunction or death. Needs can be objective and physical, such as food, or they can be subjective and psychological, such as the need for self-esteem. On a social level, needs are sometimes controversial.... To most psychologists, need is a psychological feature that arouses an organism to action toward a goal, giving purpose and direction to behavior."<<

Many would argue that sex is indeed necessary to live a healthy life... as they define it!*Many would argue that lack of a healthy sex-life would lead to social dysfunction!* Differences of opinion can often become controversial.* Quite obviously... not everyone has the same needs.* It is also quite obvious that not everyone has the same wants!* So be it!

One more thing that is fairly obvious.... apparently, none of us need to hear each other's opinions to think the way we're going to think anyway!

Well said! I don't think anyone can argue the want, desire, or lust for sex...that was never the issue. There are many things I need to survive without dying a week from now..sex is not one of them. Water, food, and air are. I am not the one who can't read a definition...it's pretty simple. SUBJECTIVE means how one perceives something and that you can't prove it, and sex is listed under what...a subjective need.

As I said, the mind of an individual can convince them of just about anything.



Wants are often distinguished from needs. A need is something that is necessary for survival (such as food and shelter), whereas a want is simply something that a person would like to have.[1

I will also assume he meant "rode hard" vs. "road" lol. Originally Posted by London Rayne

No, I think he meant road.

I wouldn't go that far Originally Posted by burkalini

nor I

But I would think LR is proof you do not need intercourse to live. But giving good head one can make a living.

As some would say oral is not sex. And others will say it is. But if guys think its a need. Let them think that and take the money. And all will be happy.

Bravo my man! Bravo!

Or in some cases "she" has to give good head in order to eat and survive. Lacking other skills to obtain gainfull employment would starve that girl. No real life sex, no true relationship, and dependent on the lust of men in order to eat and exist. Some should be thankful for us lustfull adulterous pigs who feed them daily. For some sex is necessary for survival in order to make a living. Without being a hooker and living off of sucking and fucking some would not have anything.

You really should not talk about your wife that way lol. Tragic you can't see how stupid you just sounded. Women who "live" off of pigs like you tend to do it for dirt cheap and with just anyone because they don't have another income...check mate. On the flip side, women who DON'T need your money tend to say whatever they want, price you right out of seeing them, and only have to sk and fk as you so eloquently put it, a few days a month lol.


Some of us don't believe in cheating on our mates, so we don't have a BF while turning tricks...imagine that. I don't believe in casual sex like you hon...only do it for money. The REAL relationships we have are with family and friends whom we don't have to fk...try it sometime.

Funny how you have only 10 posts since 2010 and at least 3 of them are directed at me..hmm, hit a nerve did I? The others are pimp posts trying to ward off the gfe girls from La. LMAO. Sad. Go cry somewhere else please. This is an ADULT board.

In this entire thread, YOU are the only one who has to resort to such childish bs because you have nothing of substance to add? Says a lot about you. It's always the same insults with you wounded ego guys lol. "She's fat, she's old, her kitty stinks, she can't do anything but this, wah, wah wah." Come up with better or at least original material, that can't be disputed by over 100 guys who might actually know us lol.

I have to admit you blew me good. You earned it and I know I fed you for a week. Your a trooper.

You wish haha....where's my review then? Yah. I don't blow guys who can't freaking spell and you could not even pay my light bill lol. You might want to just ask someone where I entertain, so you can feel even more stupid.

Here is some more of your drivel..sure everyone will find it quite interesting how you bash the other providers here. I will just pretend it's not more than obvious who you are, and who you run with lol. One of the girls you claim is so classy can't even keep a job as a freaking Hair Dresser lol. Priceless! You wanna really get into who is too stupid to leave this biz? You don't see me retiring and coming back every few months because my boy dumped me from being too stupid to take down my ads, or my so called business failed ha ha.

Funny how you specifically say, "You are so tired of the low quality, high volume providers coming to your town," yet your ATF works from sunrise to sunset 7 days a week, EVERY WEEK. She has had 3 and 4 reviews in a DAY on here...wtf. Brain fart?


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I have to admit you blew me good. You earned it and I know I fed you for a week. Your a trooper. Originally Posted by cumpletedick

Talk about somebody that chose an appropriate handle.

Nah...lack of D*ck would have been better, but then again, I am not like his ATF who can take about 10 inches without flinching ha ha. Let him go on...got one banned already this week for this same crap. WTF is up lately? Grown men? Yea right!

For some older men there is a need for at least something like sex. My uroligist told me that I was having repeated prostate infections because I did not ejaculate often enough..... Originally Posted by 1Curiousguy

Any chance I can get the name of your doctor so he can prescribe more ejaculations for me??

Umm Ed...you don't really have that problem dude. 5 times in 2 hours is pretty odd for a man of any age.

Umm Ed...you don't really have that problem dude. 5 times in 2 hours is pretty odd for a man of any age. Originally Posted by London Rayne

I'm sure you meant to say "good" vs. "odd" but you're probably right. It never hurts to have a permission slip or doctors note. Besides, I need/want to make sure I am following doctors orders if/when my wife wants/needs to know whether I want/need to have more sex.

No I meant odd lol. Not many guys I have met in the hobby at any age can do that, much less someone over 40. You're stuff is working just as it should.

Ha,ha. I read all these posts so far. I find it a bit entertaining the way many are trying to rationalize whether sex is a need or a want. Sex is a need, but only to sustain the species. In the animal kingdom the sexual response is triggered by scent in the form of Phermones. But for us, sexual responses are triggered by chemicals in our brain. Those chemical responses are triggered because of outside stimuli. Which in turn would give rise to a sexual response. These sexual responses in and of themselves have no bearing on sustaining our lives. Although the primary function of sexual responses in all animals is for reproduction. In humans it is not. The reason being is because humans have no season or time period in which reproduction could take place. Unlike most lower mammals humans relate to eachother, through feelings of affection, love and admiration. These would be positive emotional responses. These responses further set off responses in the brain which give rise to feelings of sexual arousal. Thus sexual behavior is favorable to take place. Sexual behavior could take place in the presence of negative emotions as well, such as Lust, aggression and valor. so by and large sex would really fall into the catagory of a "Want" rather than a "Need". Actually Humans need affection, in the form of touching, encouraging dialogue, kind gestures. All this without ever leading to sexual behavior.