I don't know Ruby, Rebecka Monroe, or Kia and their complaints might very well be valid. But whenever someone gets too "defensive" it makes you wonder. Then when the bickering starts (as in this thread) the worse the lady appears. As the person said in the Dallas section: "No hobbyist likes drama". Its really a lose-lose situation.
One review should neither make or break a provider. Whenever I read reviews I also read the other posters comments on it. If a guy with no posts gives you a positive review, how is that going to hurt your business? Especially in the long term. Anyone who does the minimal research will conclude this review isn't the first nor will be the last on Ruby. So they will also deduce that it would be unlikely a self review.
As for Kia, again anyone reading the ROS and the subsequent comments in the reviews will understand what happened w/o Rebecka placing multiple rebuttals.
I'm not saying the ladies shouldn't "defend" themselves. But it looks a lot better when the WKs and other reasonable posters respond in the actual review thread. Instead of the provider makes herself look like an "attention whore" especially when she (Rebecka) posts the same shit in multiple sections of ECCIE.
These guys are right about this not ending well because its NOT going to help the providers by causing drama that most of us do not like. See also the Jemma threads.
So if a provider has to post a rebuttal, she should say her peace and be done with it. The more she tries to explain herself, the deeper the foot goes into the mouth.
Originally Posted by Yowzer
Definitely agree here. It makes the provider look worse when she keeps trying to defend herself. Some men expect too much from a provider, in my opinion. The fantasy is built up, and then if she (provider) doesn't live up to the fantasy, they often get negative reviews. I read one post where a provider started her monthly cycle during a session. She wasn't planning on it, but the client, instead of being a gentleman about it, gave her a negative review. Just because the girl started her period.
A lot of men come to this board with issues of their own. A good provider realizes this and never takes any negative comment or review seriously. Chemistry is, in my opinion, about 80 percent of a mindblowing session. Unfortunately, it is something that cannot be controlled by the client or provider. It's intangible.