Visiting Provider Rates Too High?

Let's keep the discussion on the opinion of rates and not on the individuals making comments, please.

Depends on the lady and how deep your wallet is? I could imagine paying that much because at least she will not show up in sweatpants and actually dress as advertised....hopefully.

Plenty of people will happily pay it. Just because the frequent posters don't like to doesn't mean there isn't a thriving market in that bracket.

This board is not an accurate reflection of the entire hobby scene in KC. My most spendy clients either have accounts and don't post or don't have accounts at all. Originally Posted by Lovely_Lilianna

AMEN!!!! I absolutely agree that the majority of my clients do not look at this board or have even heard of it. SURPRISE... I have to laugh at myself at times especially when the donation discussion occurs.

If you don't like what she charges, don't pay it.. WOW, what a simple concept! LOL

As for half hours.. Good Lord REALLY????? If a provider does not state that she even offers a hh donation either in her ad OR her website, then why ask? I am not some quickie chick, more of an experience... I find it rude when someone asks for a hh.

At the end of the day, research. If you don't like the rates, don't see them. Or go to their city and see them there. Perhaps after spending $$ for airfare, hotels, meals and the such ya might understand why..

xoxo
Jazz

After reading all the posts I just have to laugh, guys are we really even debating this issue? We all hobby for various reasons, but we should honestly be thanking these lovely ladies for allowing us to "pay to get laid" providers are not commodities and the stick exchange or comparing Walmart to Nordstrom. They are human beings just like the rest of us and deserve the respect that they have earned.. I can only imagine what it's like to set a date with a total stranger, act like its ur HS sweetheart, and do the deed. Ask urself, could u do it for a living? And really, is $300-$400 that much to ask for, when it usually takes in the dating scene that and more to get what we all want? No bs, no drama, like a full blown relationship ? Come on, I think it's inexpensive . Hey who am I to give my opinion, I pretty new to all this , and still get nervous making the call for a meeting, but like I said, we should be thanking them for providing a service, instead of bitching about the rates... Beggars can't be choosers!

What a crook of shit. No one is forcing the ladies to take our money for the most part. Fllip burgers if itt is so demeaning!!!

we should honestly be thanking these lovely ladies for allowing us to "pay to get laid" providers are not commodities and the stick exchange or comparing Walmart to Nordstrom. They are human beings just like the rest of us and deserve the respect that they have earned. Originally Posted by Mikeyr23

Agree 100%.

Without question, the ladies deserve to be treated with respect, and of course we in turn should also rec'd respect

The ladies have the right to determine whatever their fee and screening techniques they want

We, then, determine which ladies to reach out to, based on things like our budget and likes,etc

But "thanking ladies for allowing us to pay to get laid".....come on, let's not get carry away.

It is a business transation....and when done right, it can be a friendly and mutually rewarding business transation for both parties

Neither side needs to kiss ass (at least figuratively) when meetings occur

I'm going to get shit for this, but jeez guys, wake up and smell the frigin coffee! We're not talking about a balanced business transaction here. What's the risk to me? I go to jail, get fined, wife finds out? What's the risk to her? Remember she's opening the door to a total stranger that may be twice her size... c'mon. I think some ass kissing is in order and the guys should be doing the kissing.

emosissy....I see the points you are making, so please don't take this as a flame

There are inherent risks on both sides of the equation....without question

That's why each lady determines her specifics in meeting the guy, just like we do, in return. Hell, we could very much walk into that same room and find a stranger twice our side.

That's why screening and research on both sides is critical

But it is a balance business transation...no one forces either party to engage, and thus take the risk that things go wrong.

As I have said b4, and I mean no disrespect to the ladies...and those that I have met will vouch that.....

Our journey here, is to seek pussy, not act like pussies

OH VK!!!! you're hilarious and you should know I'll always kiss your ass when I see ya!!!

AGREE with your above statement....

xo
J

OH VK!!!! you're hilarious and you should know I'll always kiss your ass when I see ya!!!

AGREE with your above statement....

xo
J Originally Posted by SpanishJewel

That post alone makes, what already has been a fun day, even better..... looking forward to seeing ya, ass kissing is optional,

... My most spendy clients either have accounts and don't post or don't have accounts at all... Originally Posted by Lovely_Lilianna

...the majority of my clients do not look at this board or have even heard of it. SURPRISE...

...At the end of the day, research... Originally Posted by SpanishJewel

You Ladies seem to be sending conflicting messages with the above posts.

Abraham Lincoln supposedly said about the Providers of his day;

"You can fool some of the people all of the time,
and all of the people some of the time,
but you can not fool all of the people all of the time."

My Dear SJ,
When you select clients that do not have access to this or other Hobby sites, you are taking advantage of Information Asymmetry.

Although this is to your significant advantage in the short term, taking that advantage will cause significant problems in the long term...

Best Wishes. LW

LW...where is the conflicting messages???

I read both posts, as the ladies are saying the majority of their clients either are not active posters on this site or don't even belong to this site.

My understanding is that Eccie represents merely a small percentage of active hobbists...that is not a flame by either one, just a fact.

As far as them taking advantage or having significant problems...these two ladies are perfect examples of providers "who get it", and need no advice from us, as to how to run their business

VK, The conflicting advice is:

A) Suggesting that clients do research,
but then,
B) selecting clients who Do Not research
i.e. don't belong to eccie, or other, and thus Don't research.

This thread has about run out of steam...

It's run out of women.