I was warned after I posted I would commit to helping BLT because she for months in chat seemed so sweet and with Kitty I felt it was "the boy who cried wolf" and am a man of my word. Call me a sucker but I did what I felt was the right thing to do.
We can guess what happened and still don't know why she was having the altercation with Kitty - based on BLT's explanation I could see trying to shut her up - don't know and don't care at this point. For the time BLT entertained me in chat I feel she earned the $200.
I wish nothing but the best for both of them - sincerely. If either of them were wronged that's a shame but the whole thing has taught me to not volunteer money lol. In the end don't know that anyone that's not Kitty or BLT will ever know the whole story.