Spice, yep, you miss understood my point about being happy when I net $100k/yr. My point is that I make what I need to make to cover the basic needs I have and live a comfortable life. In my life that comes out to about what I make to cover my basics. Am I happy with that? Well, yes and no...I wanted more, realistic or not, so that's why I find my self here. Call me greedy or call me an highly motivated overachiever. It is what it is. But my point is that if a girl can make the money she needs by charging $100/hr, why do other providers call her low class and trashy?
UCarp, I agree...that's why I said "when all is said and done" I'm glad when I make $50/hr. Businss related expenses are a bitch. But I can't imagine that a provider who is a competent business woman can't figure out a way to limit her expenses to under 50% of her gross earnings. Originally Posted by LilMynx69
Lol Mynx, I think you're in good company, I think most of the top 10% of earners would characterize themselves as highly motivated overachieversI totally agree...I always encourage people to Work Smarter, Not Harder. Though HARDER is never a bad thing around here!
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I don't judge but I think that with better information she'd make a smarter choice.
Originally Posted by SpiceItUp
UCarp, I agree...that's why I said "when all is said and done" I'm glad when I make $50/hr. Businss related expenses are a bitch. But I can't imagine that a provider who is a competent business woman can't figure out a way to limit her expenses to under 50% of her gross earnings. Originally Posted by LilMynx69Exactly, but sometimes business folks make a decision to use a business model that fulfills multiple goals, which they value, resulting in a lower current percentage of profit. And, as there are only so many hours in a day, a finite limit on hours available in the first place, which also impacts goals. This mostly from real life, but 600 level courses as well.
I haven't advertised on BP. Primarily, because I don't want to attract any "blow and go" type clientele. Secondly, since Orlando is a major sex trafficking hub, LE targets BP routinely and aggressively. Hence, I only advertise on sites that are geared toward "professional" hobbyists and providers. I venture to say that the savvy hobbyist knows that a deal is rarely a steal. Literal "low balling" rates hasn't effected my business and I doubt many others either. Originally Posted by KarynKummingBlow and go's seem to be the new HH...and is growing rampant even here on the board. Backpage jerks ask for 5-10 minutes.
Blow and go's seem to be the new HH...and is growing rampant even here on the board. Backpage jerks ask for 5-10 minutes.I like BP not because of the 50 $ blow and girls. But there are a lot of diamonds in the rough out there,and many experienced hobbyist like Quest of finding such girls.The thrill of the hunt can be very intoxicating lol.
Thankful for my good Lovers I've acquired. Originally Posted by Eva Damita
I like BP not because of the 50 $ blow and girls. But there are a lot of diamonds in the rough out there,and many experienced hobbyist like Quest of finding such girls.The thrill of the hunt can be very intoxicating lol. Originally Posted by flyinghillbillyI'm sure the fact that it's $40 or $50 helps too. I'd be happy too if a chick completed the job for a dinner at Chili's. Some guys like a $200+ encounter for the experience and not just a wet mouth or lubed up vagina - which doesn't take much skill at all. Why go through multiple sex partners for a SW rate to find that one "diamond" when you can find one girl for even $30 more that gets it right? Now, not all is perfect here on ECCIE, but it's less of a needle in the haystack situation, it's more of an eenie, meenie, miny mo thing in eccieland.
Maybe they are trying to feed their kids. Don't Judge. Originally Posted by Naughty DestinyMiss Destiny, I certainly wasn't "judging"... we're all selling ass.
Miss Destiny, I certainly wasn't "judging"... we're all selling ass.I'm not sure she directed that judging comment to you. I read it as a response to the OP.
He told me why he likes $40-50 rates, I Simply stated why some guys choose not to go through bunches of ladies because for them, it's a hassle to have sexual contact with a bunch to seek a diamond in the rough. No rate bashing was done, nor judgement where I proclaim clearly HDH are better than SW. It's called preference. The fact you took my observation as "judgemental" is a bit alarming.
And there are plenty women with kids who don't escort as there are countless escorts without children...ijs Originally Posted by Eva Damita