I would say I'm a switch but have yet to find a woman who can take control and yet have me comfortable enough to be totally relaxed and enjoy submitting.
Great topic. I entered hobby world and thought I would be a switch- nope- turned out to be dom. But as stated earlier the true battle is in the mind and the best thing for me is to start a relationship with a fellow dominant provider( may not be known as a Dom) and then allow her to be submissive. The only problem is you can never talk about it but that is a victory in itself. There is some great fun out there in this world. And LacyLynn I need to get to Dallas to see you. Subs are fun too.
i am very much submissive. i do get a few requests asking me to be dominant, but i have to decline as it just isn't in my nature. fortunately i've got a couple of dommes that i can refer them to. i think the closest i could ever come to being dominant would be to enjoy having my nylon feet and legs worshipped.
Switch here, but I tend to gravitate towards being a sub.
Problem is, it's really hard to meet a switch woman IRL. Most I bump into are sub, for whatever reason. Don't know if it's the environment or the city...or me...
I am a very sensual sexual Mistress, It is all about the Mind Fuck with me. I love controlling the pleasure....What better way to allow a man to total relax and have his fantasies fulfilled then to allow me to control his pleasure......cum to Ma'am and you will leave a happy man...
Is there actually something called a dominant lady? I have been trying to find one for long but no luck. providers always remain in providing mode and hence its not possible to find some.
I have always been a sub fantacizing abt a strong female who will thrust herself upon me,humiliate, treat as door mat.. She cant be a provider who comes in tries to show domination and leaves after an hour... It developes over time. She need to know me first talk to me as a girlfriend and then treat me as a lover who doesnt know how to satify her when she wants it... after that it needs to be an ongoing relation atleast for sometime.. money comes for sure..
But all providers want is money first else they wont even talk!!
I am yet to see someone who would like to invest some time and then take it from there.. may be i expect too much.
As a dom ever make a sub girl that's a real girly girl take on the dom role.
Now were talking interesting. The sweetheart apprehension and personality
conflict is too sexy. Or vise versa. One of the hottest times I had was
making a normally dom girl be my little slave girl for the afternoon and become
a total sub.