OK I have had it with Racism in hobbying
Keep this thread open at least a couple mo' hours. I have a point I need to make, but I'm still at work and can't say what I wanna say like I wanna say it. I know the countdown to closing clock has already been started. Just pause it until it midnight or some'n.
Hell yeah, Lisa I'm back. Out on bail, fresh outta jail......(and horny as HELL!!!!). I know you miss me.
Please keep this open. I'm sure we are all very excited to hear the latest from Rambo! I won't be able to relax all afternoon just wondering what racist words will fill the air waves.
They really don't want it to go away. [/U]
They incorporate in-your-face tactics that are used to keep the pot stirred and keep the issues on the fore front. I think that if we all just let it go, that's exactly what would happen, it would go away.
Originally Posted by BigPurdy;1125147
I think the biggest issue with all of this is that a large part of the American population just won't let it go away. [U
Why the hell should blacks (or whites, for that matter) let the issue of deep and pervasive racism "go away". Why not keep the "pot stirred" since most of us (I think) agree that racism and discrimination is wrong (although threads like this make me wonder). And shockingly, why the hell shouldn't the issue of deep and pervasive racism be "on the fore front [sic]?" I can't think of a better place for it. Other than deep and pervasive poverty, and the government driven upward redistribution of wealth in our society, I can't think of any other issue that deserves to be on the forefront with racism. Can you?
The fact that the racist faction of the white population, and perhaps a faction of racist apologists and insensitive idiots, is in denial about the problem of racism illustrates just why it should be on the front burner.
The white man contuines to put the black man down! Will it never end? How bad can it get! Please keep stirring the pot, keep it going don't let it just slip away into the night.
- jarod
- 03-18-2011, 03:38 PM
choice, it works both ways.
Originally Posted by TexRich
That's pretty funny coming from a Mexican.
i think most of us agree that racism is a bad thing, and all would also agree that, although things are much better today than in the past, it is still prevalent and will continue to be so for a long time.
and this is directed to TTH ... i have read a lot of your posts and respect your opinions and think you have contributed many intelligent well thought out posts over the years. but i have also read many of your posts on this subject and have to disagree to a point.
so let me ask you a question... if, by some miracle, our government got it's collective head out of its ass and legalized prostitution, among consenting adults...would you support legislation that required girls to see anybody that requested an appointment?
i understand that a burger joint should serve anybody that walks through the door that has cash money, but their employees don't have to take their clothes off, get on their knees and put a customer's dick in their mouth do they? they don't have to let the customer hump away on them for a while, all the while pretending they are enjoying their precious time together. their customers rarely get asked if they do cim, greek, msog. it's easy for a liberal person like yourself (i'm very liberal myself btw) to decry racism/discrimination and all. but come on...this is an entirely different business. i feel for those that get turned down and all, but i think there are many reasons for girls to not see some guys. and, as much as i hate the racist element in our society, i just don't get those that think providers should see someone they don't want to see, for whatever reason. hell...i'm a white guy and i DO NOT see white girls. because i choose not to. maybe someday...but i doubt it.
i'm also not saying 'get over it', but i dare anyone to show me how all these threads over the years have swayed any provider to change her mind/business practices.
JPdM
I've never really understood the whole racism thing. I am Welsh/Irish (with a few born on "the wrong side of the blanket" in my lineage), one of my main squeezes in HS was African-American, another Korean, the first woman I ever proposed to was Germanic (parents from the *other* side of the Berlin Wall, if any of you whippersnappers remember that), and my (as of just a few ago, ex-) fiancée, Colombian.
What matters *should* be the person, not their skin (we are all the same race -- human) but if an individual makes that choice, I won't judge. Okay, maybe I will point and laugh. Who here can honestly say that if Halle Barry or (for the young ladies) Isaiah Mustafa threw themselves at you -- Lucy Liu or Jet Li -- Salma Hayek or Esai Morales -- Megan Fox or Ryan Reynolds (anyone want to chime in with another pair?), you would duck?
That being said, it is a *choice* made by all directly involved, and the reasons behind that choice are no one's business but those making making that choice.
Cowtown Punk parsed it much better than I. The problem I was trying to focus on isn't racism or Rambo Creed's or JB's problems. The point is that I've noticed this getting worse; worse because it seems to be more acceptable to hold the attitude. But I'm nothing if not a free-market guy. The provider has a choice, and should insist on preserving that choice, but what JB went through is becoming more and more acceptable. It's lamentable, yes, but we cannot ask providers to risk their safety even if we think the perception of risk is groundless. JPdM is right; there hasn't yet been a solution, and there won't be.
If prostitution were to be legal, I would not have a problem with the government letting individual prostitutes decide who the see. Nor would I have a problem with those who base their selection criteria only on race being branded as racist, and treated by polite society as such, complete with the ostracism that should come with such a label.
There's no sexually disfunctioning reason to NOT see one particular race. None. Dick of any race will fit in pussy of any race, individual size and tightness not withstanding. Like I've said before, you can refuse to see someone because of other attributes that you do not agree with. Too fat, too skinny, ears too big, breath too funky, his jokes are too bad, whatever. None of these above reasons has ANYTHING to do with race. None. You could put 10 females of whatever race in a dark room with 10 males of whatever race without any way to determine ethnicity and no one would know the difference. All you'd know is that you were with someone of the opposite gender. At the core of this business and life in general, that's all that should matter, aside from other things we prefer in the opposite sex (like height, weight, boob and dick size, etc). For someone's skin color be the SOLE (or leading) factor why you won't see them?....come on!!!
Scumbags come in all races. We know this. WE KNOW THIS! WE FREAKIN KNOW THIS!! Come on! Then we come in here and say, well stereotypes and patterns and trauma with men of certain races....or, Oh, I was raped a black guy....or a black guy got rough with me. If that's your mindset, then you're just letting others influence and conrol you. Men of every race has done something wrong to someone. Come on with this shit. If that's your best excuse to not see someone (being 'wronged' by that race)....that's crap. Hell, white girls have cashed and dashed me before. A sista girl has never done that to me. Ever. EVER! Shit, the worse thing a black girl has done to me was give me a cbj. A Latina has never done it to me. I think maybe one NS'd me. Oh damn, woe is me! My life is doomed. No more Latinas or AAs. Lemme stick with the cash and dash white girls. Whatever. All this racially blamed crap and stereotypes is just BS, man.
So, they mean to tell us that a black man isn't worthy to see them to PAY them, but they're cool enough to be their pimp?? Talk about irony. They'll let a black man TAKE their money, but won't let one PAY them money.
This post wasn't the highly anticipated point I was going to make (thanks for caring, btw, Bloodhound). This was just me ranting a bit.
What about this thing called screening? What about the black guys on this site? Why is it that we never read about, fuck it, I'll use my own name, Rambro Creed raping somebody? How come you never read about Rambro Creed shortchanging anybody? Who have I roughed up or gotten violent with (yeah, I might put the wood to them a lil strong at times, but it's nothing that's excessive or violent)? Who has DickemDown shortchanged? Huh? Tell me that. Who has been raped by Ibechill, or HtownHammer? Who? I know there are more black guys here. Can't think of all the handles right now. Just going off the dome. The point is, how come we never read about the, for a lack of a better way to put it, the 'main cast of black characters' being spoken about in the negative, stereotypical 'black man stuff' on this board? Just saying. How about screening better, ladies? How about not just going off how 'charming' his voice sounds? Predators will use what they think will get them through whatever obstacle you've imposed on them. The 'main cast' of black guys (again, I know it's more than what I named) on Eccie play within the rules. We go about with a reasonably high level of moral fiber in relation to treating providers. Hell, many are surprised about me when they meet in person compard to this board. You can search all you want. You can search every typed letter and number on this board. You WILL NOT find a word talking about Rambro Creed raping, shortchanging, haggling or any other trait of the 'stereotypical black man behavior' on this board. I've been late a couple times, but that's about it. Oh, but I'm the bad guy, the villain, etc. Even been accused of being NBA myself.
Right. Whatever.
Sorry for rambling like this. Just saying. This subject's gotten old. Yes, it's a beaten horse [cue a freakin' beaten horse graphic any second now]. But to 'give it a pulse' by showing even the slightest tolerance for it is just as bad, IMO.
Rambo, you are correct, you did make a bad analogy. A drowning person can not be compared to just being black. I will say it as others have then im outta here. I am so fuckin tired of these race threads, they make me sick. I am not racist, but you on your own, will probably make people racist that arent. Try to get this in your mind, you are black, some women dont want to see you. Get the fuck over it. You aint ever gonna change it.
Ummm, no. Won't get over it. Sorry for the inconvenience.
How come you don't have any reviews, Ranchhand?
You have a slight point
Please stop.
Or I will post a "Why African American men
refuse to see African American women.
Oddly I believe you will have pages full of reasons why.
There's no sexually disfunctioning reason to NOT see one particular race. None. Dick of any race will fit in pussy of any race, individual size and tightness not withstanding. Like I've said before, you can refuse to see someone because of other attributes that you do not agree with. Too fat, too skinny, ears too big, breath too funky, his jokes are too bad, whatever. None of these above reasons has ANYTHING to do with race. None. You could put 10 females of whatever race in a dark room with 10 males of whatever race without any way to determine ethnicity and no one would know the difference. All you'd know is that you were with someone of the opposite gender. At the core of this business and life in general, that's all that should matter, aside from other things we prefer in the opposite sex (like height, weight, boob and dick size, etc). For someone's skin color be the SOLE (or leading) factor why you won't see them?....come on!!!
Scumbags come in all races. We know this. WE KNOW THIS! WE FREAKIN KNOW THIS!! Come on! Then we come in here and say, well stereotypes and patterns and trauma with men of certain races....or, Oh, I was raped a black guy....or a black guy got rough with me. If that's your mindset, then you're just letting others influence and conrol you. Men of every race has done something wrong to someone. Come on with this shit. If that's your best excuse to not see someone (being 'wronged' by that race)....that's crap. Hell, white girls have cashed and dashed me before. A sista girl has never done that to me. Ever. EVER! Shit, the worse thing a black girl has done to me was give me a cbj. A Latina has never done it to me. I think maybe one NS'd me. Oh damn, woe is me! My life is doomed. No more Latinas or AAs. Lemme stick with the cash and dash white girls. Whatever. All this racially blamed crap and stereotypes is just BS, man.
So, they mean to tell us that a black man isn't worthy to see them to PAY them, but they're cool enough to be their pimp?? Talk about irony. They'll let a black man TAKE their money, but won't let one PAY them money.
This post wasn't the highly anticipated point I was going to make (thanks for caring, btw, Bloodhound). This was just me ranting a bit.
What about this thing called screening? What about the black guys on this site? Why is it that we never read about, fuck it, I'll use my own name, Rambro Creed raping somebody? How come you never read about Rambro Creed shortchanging anybody? Who have I roughed up or gotten violent with (yeah, I might put the wood to them a lil strong at times, but it's nothing that's excessive or violent)? Who has DickemDown shortchanged? Huh? Tell me that. Who has been raped by Ibechill, or HtownHammer? Who? I know there are more black guys here. Can't think of all the handles right now. Just going off the dome. The point is, how come we never read about the, for a lack of a better way to put it, the 'main cast of black characters' being spoken about in the negative, stereotypical 'black man stuff' on this board? Just saying. How about screening better, ladies? How about not just going off how 'charming' his voice sounds? Predators will use what they think will get them through whatever obstacle you've imposed on them. The 'main cast' of black guys (again, I know it's more than what I named) on Eccie play within the rules. We go about with a reasonably high level of moral fiber in relation to treating providers. Hell, many are surprised about me when they meet in person compard to this board. You can search all you want. You can search every typed letter and number on this board. You WILL NOT find a word talking about Rambro Creed raping, shortchanging, haggling or any other trait of the 'stereotypical black man behavior' on this board. I've been late a couple times, but that's about it. Oh, but I'm the bad guy, the villain, etc. Even been accused of being NBA myself.
Right. Whatever.
Sorry for rambling like this. Just saying. This subject's gotten old. Yes, it's a beaten horse [cue a freakin' beaten horse graphic any second now]. But to 'give it a pulse' by showing even the slightest tolerance for it is just as bad, IMO.
Originally Posted by Rambro Creed
Hey, you graphic experts, do any of you have a
Pot calling KETTLE black pic I could borrow??