men do you think

Fawndra, anybody who knows you is attracted to your personality and who you are deep inside. I honestly don't even think of you as a Provider, but my fun loving drinking buddy. Obviously your new guy has who you really are figured out and couldn't care less about your vocation. If the guy in question has any experience with our little subculture, that should make it that much easier for him to deal with.

Yet, you pose a good question. Personally I'm not sure how I would feel. You have a "real" job but I wonder how I would feel about dating someone who had no other ambitions past being a professional escort. Would I be okay with that? I'm not judging, just trying to be honest. I'm sure it would totally depend on the person, but I can't really say for sure. However, you can't really control when love happens, and maybe you just need to roll with it when it does no matter the circumstances.

Fawn, i know it's been ages since i've seen you....but it looks to me like several people have nailed this down pretty well.

The fact is, that you are a beautiful, warm and loving woman that happens to be a provider. If you stop being a provider, you'll just be a beautiful warm and loving woman....I can't imagine any man needing more.

I think that it could definitely work if she was set on leaving the hobby and I felt she was sincere about it. I think it would be the same as if you could get over someone being a hobbyist. It may always be in the back of your mind but history also plays a part in the trust. If she were a provider behind her previous boyfriends(or husbands) back there would be much less trust. Just like I'm sure there would be less trust if you were with a former hobbyist who had always hobbied regardless of relationships. If she were single or always up front with SOs in the past about her providing then I would trust her and have no problem with it.