Providers not providing references for other providers?

blondie7, Stephanie1, Kandie, MindiDDlicious & Sandra Dee are 5 ladies that I have reached out too in the past couple of weeks that refuse to respond. Karma is a bitch....ijs Originally Posted by Kendall4U

Wow! Shots fired. Thanks for the heads up, btw, I was going to see blondie7 next wednesday. I could see you instead, I suppose? And sexy platinum the following Wednesday.

I hear Tara Evans is reference friendly... Originally Posted by TheEccie214

Who the ruddy hell is Tara?

Who the ruddy hell is Tara? Originally Posted by Severus

Who the ruddy hell is Tara? Originally Posted by Severus

Originally Posted by Tapper69

Was disappointed my first comment didn't get more attention.

As of today, unless *reputable references are given, I AM NOT contacting references. Period. Point. Blank. I'll spare myself the fury....

Having enjoyed the hobby for a while now I have found a few common issues when it comes to references. Some providers will give them while others will not. Passing on the good vibes is key as it also gets the client coming back to you later. If you think about it this way, then you will see that while we review the ladies, they also keep tabs on us.

Was he a gentleman?
Was he clean?
Was he generous?
Did he have a big penis or a little one?
Did he have any warning signs of being LE?

Those are the big 5 that any provider I have met have said they look out for. Being clean and a gentleman are usually 2nd and 3rd on the list while having no signs of LE is a priority in this line of work. Generosity will take you a long way and if you also note it in your reviews you will find that the ladies respond quicker. If you think about it this way, when you go to a restaurant you can be a stingy tipper and when you come back the ladies all know if you are avoided, and on the other hand a big tipper gets the welcome mat rolled out.

Its also how you word your reviews. Are you passionate or crude? Are you rough or gentle? Are you dom or sub? For me I have my moods and yet I keep most of my reviews in the same general mood. Ladies who I have seen though know that I can hold an intelligent conversation and desire that as much as the actual sex. Conversation also makes you memorable which is another key point in references.

Was the guy memorable?
What was memorable about him?

For me its my personality just as much as my looks. With the ladies for me though if there is that chemistry and GFE kissing then I return and my mood during a review is higher as I am looking back at the experience as a what to do next time rather than an avoid her because she kissed like a fish. Ladies remember you, even the high volume ones and btw, listing a high volume lady as a reference is a bad idea as those ladies scare the low volume ladies with safety concerns.


Blah blah blah

Make yourself memorable

I only have about 4 woman who will respond! I have to do my own searching and learning. You learn real fast who not to see and who to see if you look around eccie. When I am ask about a man I don't give a ton of details, unless needed for safety, but I do say if they were good guys.This is a sales job, marketing. You are competing for the same goal with thousands of other woman in a job that the better picture, ad, or even sale can loose you a customer. So no they won't give you references because they know they are not treating the man the best he can be treated, and are scared you will.

Was he a gentleman?
Was he clean? Originally Posted by txlonghornfan811

I thinck these are the only two things they care about. As for the memorable thing, just have a handle they will NEVER forget. It makes up for being less than impressive in person. Just ask any of the ladies I've seen. Their disappointment would speak volumes, but they know who I am! Winning!!!

I like to ask the ladies for a way they would rememebr the gent.....like maybe a unique tattoo or something yall chatted about,etc.

My body is too pretty for tattoos.

Ladies will just have to remember me in a different way, like how handsome my dick is and how good it made them feel when they got to play with it.

My body is too pretty for tattoos.

Ladies will just have to remember me in a different way, like how handsome my dick is and how good it made them feel when they got to play with it. Originally Posted by Randall Creed

ok cool babe

ok cool babe Originally Posted by DallasRain

As far as the subject goes, what does board presence mean as far as references go? Guys have been on this board since its existence. Does he REALLY need to bring up the last 2-3 ladies he's been with, particularly if he writes reviews??

Is it hard to 'find out' about a guy or what kind of guy he is by digging through a few of his posts?? Or if there are any alerts or complaints against him (Powder Room)?? Is that really such a tall task that you've got to talk to somebody he banged 2-3 months ago, who may or may not remember him?



I'm just saying.

Well for me .. If the gent is a trusted reputable dawg here then it is cool with me..no need for "excessive prying"

Whenever I contact a provider to request an appointment, I contact her ahead of time to get my screening out of the way. I've been told "I can screen you from your reviews", and "Don't worry about screening". I've had providers flat out IGNORE my request to get screening taken care of, and only address my appointment request.

So, statistically speaking, from my point of view, none of you providers care about my references.

It does not stop me from asking when I contact you for an appointment.