Would you date an escort or client ?

If you could ,would you date (as in off the clock ) someone you met in this business?
if you did start a relationship would you quit or want the other to? Originally Posted by Sweet N Little

No ....... NO ......................... and NO. Did I say NO?

NO.

NOT NO, BUT HELL NO. ARE YOU FOR REAL?

DEVIN

I could it would be up to her if she wished to quit. Now the bigger question is would she want me to quit the hobby

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I would not date a client, if I were looking for something serious and desired a monogamous relationship.

If I were in a monogamous relationship, I would not be against moving toward a more open relationship, if we both desired.


Casual dating? Yeah, I would date a single client. As long as there was an understanding as to what we both expected.

You never know what you can be ready for tomorrow. Even if I say no today, it does not mean that I will not change my mind in the near future. Earlier, I said I would never use any dating site. And today I am actively interaction on such a platform https://www.asiandating.link/top-way...ook-up-in-asia. So I would not rush to say a definite no to your question.

Dunno if I have responded to this thread . . .its long-ish.

I'd date an escort in the real world if I didn't know she was a (working) escort.

If we were dating and she let slip that she had been an escort in the past it would give me pause, but probably not affect us going forward.

I would not knowingly date an actively working escort. How many ways can that go wrong?

You never know what you can be ready for tomorrow. Even if I say no today, it does not mean that I will not change my mind in the near future. Earlier, I said I would never use any dating site. And today I am actively interaction on such a platform https://www.asiandating.link/top-way...ook-up-in-asia. So I would not rush to say a definite no to your question. Originally Posted by mdooos

You bumped a 10 year old thread to spam? S.A.D...

On Topic: Fuck No.

I dated a working escort. Neither of us was monogamous. We did some swinging with other escorts, and clients. Eventually we lived together, and she stopped working, and went back to school. After graduation, she got a regular job.

It was a really nice relationship, but eventually she fell for someone her own age (I'm 20 years older), and we spilt up.

Never regretted it!

I don't think that sex workers are any less crazy that women who are not sex workers. I think that all women are crazy, but don't take that as an insult, what if you are only a 2 or 3 on a scale from 1 to 100 craziness? I wouldn't be offended if some woman said all men are pigs, because I think there's a difference between a mild pig and a grievous pig. I can definitely tolerate women for a couple of hours in the bedroom. I can definitely manage one for a few hours out on the town for dinner. Would I want to live with one? No, doesn't matter if she's a sex worker or not. I'm fine with non committed dating; I don't care what you do for work whether it's sex work or an office job. Just wouldn't want to share living quarters, bank accounts, or anything else that could cause a serious problem for me as a result of a spontaneous decision made by an emotional though process which is lacking rationale. Any amount of crazy is too risky for me, which is why I tend to enjoy my women on a come and go basis Temporary is less problematic.

Short Answer: Been there, done that, wouldn’t do it again, don’t recommend it.

Long Answer: Dated a stripper/escort for four months. I thought it’d be fun but problems occurred right away. She was fine with me hobbying until I fucked one of her enemies (I didn’t know they were enemies lol). Then she got quickly jealous and didn’t want me to fuck anyone else. The real dealbreaker was her nonstop lying. This lifestyle requires lots of lying to maintain the fantasy and that spilled over into the relationship. She lied constantly about things she had no reason to lie about. I think it just became a part of her and that’s why I had to break it off.

There is a thread out there somewhere with a hilarious essay on dating a stripper and wehy it won't work.

I've dated providers twice and would do it again in the right situation. The first time it was a provider I had seen a couple of times. During those visits, we discovered a chemistry and interests that led to lots of communications outside of hobby-related discussions and then, eventually, to us dating for more than a year. The relation ended because she needed to move far away to care for her father. We tried the long distance thing, but it just didn't work.

The second time, I became friends with her before knowing she was a provider. After telling me the truth about what she did to earn most of her money, she began to confide in me about her provider business dealings and often sought advice about some of the life challenges her lifestyle presented. That led to a very strong friendship and then dating. That was probably my best relationship ever. Aside from working as a provider, she was in grad school. When she graduated, she was offered an incredible opportunity to work overseas. I encouraged her to take it and that was the end of that relationship, although we got together from time to time for a few years when our paths crossed.

I think the key to making it work was good communication, trust, and never judging each other. There are many swingers who live long, happy lives together because they master those components of their relationship well enough to afford the ability to fulfill their sexual desires in tandem. A relationship between a provider and a civie (hobbiest or not) is much the same. Going into such a relationship, you have to accept each other's activities without reservation or judgement. The relationship cannot be centered around sex. Although that is a phenomenal component, there are other aspects of the relationship that are equally as good and improtant. Many men want a woman with a very high sex drive, but aren't able to handle it if satisfying that sex drive requires more than just them.

While anything is possible, making such an arrangement work is likely the exception rather than the norm. In my case, I wish I would have quit my job and moved to Europe with my provider girlfriend. She was an amazing person and I'm confident it would have worked out much better than my marriage did.

I have and would again.

Does she have a boat? Send a pic of the boat.