Would you ever date a provider / client ?

From the voice of experience - a relationship, outside of a short-term business transaction, with a provider is a BAD BAD BAD BAD BAD BAD idea.


For any of you considering it - let go of the "knight in shining armor" syndrome and look at the 'relationship' for what it is - sex, NOT love.



And that's all I got to say about that.

How bad could it be......

From the voice of experience - a relationship, outside of a short-term business transaction, with a provider is a BAD BAD BAD BAD BAD BAD idea.


For any of you considering it - let go of the "knight in shining armor" syndrome and look at the 'relationship' for what it is - sex, NOT love.



And that's all I got to say about that. Originally Posted by redwing_centerfield

To be fair, isn't that what we gents are all doing with them right now - but for a price?

I’ve had two serious, committed relationships with men I met as clients. One lasted about 1.5 years. The other is a few years in and going strong.

Neither relationship stopped me from working. And I stopped taking money from them when we crossed from client to boyfriend.

I’m polyamorous & bisexual. I also have a girlfriend in this industry

I would be careful about that because some of these providers carry extra baggage that will be dealt everyday.

I’ve had two serious, committed relationships with men I met as clients. One lasted about 1.5 years. The other is a few years in and going strong.

Neither relationship stopped me from working. And I stopped taking money from them when we crossed from client to boyfriend.

I’m polyamorous & bisexual. I also have a girlfriend in this industry Originally Posted by bustybabygirl

Ever have a client fuck you better than your current boyfriend( or any of your past boyfriends)?

What did you think when that happend?
Did you tell your boyfriend?

A spammer bumped the same thread in the National forum, 10 year old thread with some interesting view points

I’ll point out something 12inchclock, the majority of providers don’t even feel what’s going on during sex, their dopamine levels are already 3x the level of sexual orgasm, your question is very elementary and aimed at a very small percentage of the women in the business.

Unbelievably weird and naive, can't believe I'm reading this.

A spammer bumped the same thread in the National forum, 10 year old thread with some interesting view points

I’ll point out something 12inchclock, the majority of providers don’t even feel what’s going on during sex, their dopamine levels are already 3x the level of sexual orgasm, your question is very elementary and aimed at a very small percentage of the women in the business. Originally Posted by bf0082

I disagree, but i understand you are attempting to date a hooker and my question could be difficult to fathom in your position. Having clients outfuck you is like a boyfriends worst nightmare. Although its very common.
It leaves you as nothing more than potentially a friend for emotional support with occasional non-transactional sexual activities.
Also if their dopamine levels are accelerated past sexual standards, is that due to use of substances that cant be mentioned, or due to having too much sex?

Also if their dopamine levels are accelerated past sexual standards, is that due to use of substances that cant be mentioned, or due to having too much sex? Originally Posted by 12InchClock

Little bit of column A and a little bit of column B

the fact that you put so much self-value based on sexual performance is concerning in itself.

a boyfriend isn't just a boyfriend because he "fucks well". there is more to being in a relationship than fucking each other. just because you have good sexual chemistry with a client does not mean you would be able to date them. if someone has a good session, i expect a boyfriend would be thankful his girlfriend had a good day at work and would support her making her own money.

if someone has a good session, i expect a boyfriend would be thankful his girlfriend had a good day at work and would support her making her own money. Originally Posted by valkyra

#codependent

the fact that you put so much self-value based on sexual performance is concerning in itself.

a boyfriend isn't just a boyfriend because he "fucks well". there is more to being in a relationship than fucking each other. just because you have good sexual chemistry with a client does not mean you would be able to date them. if someone has a good session, i expect a boyfriend would be thankful his girlfriend had a good day at work and would support her making her own money. Originally Posted by valkyra

You do remember what us guys are paying for, right? Lol

the fact that you put so much self-value based on sexual performance is concerning in itself. Originally Posted by valkyra

I understand sexual performance isnt as important to some. The fact that you find it concerning that i value sexual performance is surprising. I thought you of all women would know men generally want to perform well, and satisfy women to the fullest extent, as im sure you experienced guys requesting daty in an attempt to please you. Some may use supplements to last longer, as it can take longer for most women to achieve climax. Im not ashamed to admit that Im a sex addict and in my last relationship, sex was 50-75% percent of the relationship. The boyfriend shit was the other 25-50%. Sex is very important. How do you think you got here?

if someone has a good session, i expect a boyfriend would be thankful his girlfriend had a good day at work and would support her making her own money. Originally Posted by valkyra

One of Simpiest most Cuckified statements i ever heard.
For me, i prefer to be able to supply enough funds so that my gf doesnt have to have thousands of other dicks in her pussy besides mine. But nothing against those who think otherwise.

Too bad Mountain Goat isn't still around to chime in...