Oh you negative Nellies need to cut it out.
Has anyone ever fallen for a woman? We (providers) are not any different than civvie women except for the fact that we are more open minded. You mean to tell me that a civvie lady won't hurt you? They are any less problematic than providers? Really? Then why is the hobby even here if civvie women are so wonderful? Give me a break.
Bad shit can happen in ANY relationship, hobby or otherwise. Do what you would do with any other woman. Be cautious. There are good people and bad people in every walk of life.
Originally Posted by Dannie
I agree with what Dannie is expressing. Providers, Clients... there are good, and not so good.
I've fallen for a provider. Funny thing was that she was the first to utter those 3 little words. When she did, I knew I was headed that direction, but not quite ready yet. She understood. About a month later I uttered them to her, and we had a discussion. She stopped taking my money, and the relationship moved from client / provider to boyfriend / girlfriend.
We dated for several months. The relationship didn't work out, but that doesn't seem much different than the majority of "normal" relationships. I still think the world of her, and will always love her.