Does she need lube because shes not enthused?

I've been told on good authority that excessive douching
can lead to a drier cooch. Seems logical.

I've been told by reputable authority that
excessive douching can lead to vaginal dryness.
Seems logical.

At 48 I need lube sometimes. I do not get why men think it would be an insult to use lube. I want to enjoy myself also and a latex condom is not the most easily gliding thing.

Responses are making sense....especially in regard to dryness and volume......