cbj vs bbbj

ThatManFromTexas's Avatar
I hate it when a provider says "...but I won't do that..." more times than a Meat Loaf song.....

I'd be happy if the providers just listed what they don't do...
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I would like to add to the upcoming meeting agenda "Redefining GFE" I intend to define physical and psychological expectations of a GFE provider. I intend to introduce a motion to add snowballing to the definition of a physical GFE.

This meeting and motion has in actuality passed, quorum was met since I am the only member of this board and I will be sending out minutes by Sunday afternoon. Thank you... this meeting is adjourned there are refreshments graciously provided by Charms Blow Pops, help yourself. Originally Posted by RebeccaRothko
Proposed new term: A-level GFE - includes BBBJ with the lady enjoying it and into the guy enjoying it (or at least faking it very well), CIM extra credit, She should say something like "This is the best thing since Subway."
Amaya....most guys here won't go back and read your "old" reviews. They have already learned enough in this thread. Good luck with your movies.
LOL Im sorry TBone you're honestly the only one who feels some type of way about anything that I've posted... And, I'm not too sure you can speak for every man that comes on the board.

As for old reviews my last review was a month ago and he was the last guy I've seen
Young lady.....I know I don't speak for every guy on this board and it's true I have used the words "most of us" and "we". That's probably something I shouldn't do.
From now on I will refrain from doing that.

I just sometimes get tired of threads started by providers for the sole purpose of getting attention. I see them as ads. Sometimes I see them in the Welcome forum but most of the time they are here in CoEd. It's very possible that most guys here like reading all the dribble that comes from these threads. It's also very possible that
I am the only one here that believes these threads are mostly used for getting attention.

Amaya....You have my aplolgy if you feel I have offended you. You have every right to say what you want on this board. Just remember that others have the same right. I have a bad habit of saying what I think. I will do my best to stay away from the Co-ed section of this board.
I have learned that this is not necessarily a hobbiest board an I will just leave it at that.
ratboy jam's Avatar
Young lady.....I know I don't speak for every guy on this board and it's true I have used the words "most of us" and "we". That's probably something I shouldn't do.
From now on I will refrain from doing that.

I just sometimes get tired of threads started by providers for the sole purpose of getting attention. I see them as ads. Sometimes I see them in the Welcome forum but most of the time they are here in CoEd. It's very possible that most guys here like reading all the dribble that comes from these threads. It's also very possible that
I am the only one here that believes these threads are mostly used for getting attention.

Amaya....You have my aplolgy if you feel I have offended you. You have every right to say what you want on this board. Just remember that others have the same right. I have a bad habit of saying what I think. I will do my best to stay away from the Co-ed section of this board.
I have learned that this is not necessarily a hobbiest board an I will just leave it at that. Originally Posted by tbone2u
You may insert my "I's into the ones tbone so eloquently explained/opined.
CivilBarrister's Avatar
You may insert my "I's into the ones tbone so eloquently explained/opined. Originally Posted by ratboy jam
TBone2u may not speak for ALL the guys on the Board, but IMHO he certainly has the voice of experience and reason and speaks for a LOT of the guys....most of the time more eloquently than most.
I don't have a problem with you voicing your views... But if you get pissed that providers start threads then please notice I didn't start this thread all did i was reply as you did! So why take out your frustrations on "women seeking attention" rant on me?

The only thread I started since my 3 wk hiatus from coming on the boards was to celebrate being offered a contract. Which I was excited about. But seeing that I haven't seen new clients in over a month, I don't see how me replying to post is "advertising"
Trey's Avatar
  • Trey
  • 06-28-2010, 10:04 AM
Have I missed something, or is there a trend more toward CBJ than BBBJ? Many men (including me) say that this is a deal breaker for them.

I would like to hear the pros and cons from the ladies and the gents.

If this has been discussed here before, just tell me where.

I understand this is a personal preference thing and I respect that. Originally Posted by caseytx
this was the OP and the topic. We kinda branched out into the gfe meaning bbbj, or meaning pretend girl friend. I think its a done thread now prob needs to be closed.
blowpop's Avatar
Back to the topic. While there's no checklist or official definition of GFE, if you're a hobbyist who's been around, you know it when you see it.

And one thing is certain: Just because a provider advertises GFE doesn't mean she actually delivers it.

The essence of GFE is the feeling that the provider is in the session because she wants to be, not just because she's paid to be there. It's the feeling that she is your girlfriend for the duration of the session. The client feels desired and accepted as he is.

In civilian life, I've had about a hundred different women who I dated long enough to consider a girlfriend. One wasn't interested in going down on me. But that's one more than ever went down on me with a condom on.

If a woman slips a condom on me before she gives head, she may be many things, but the word "girlfriend" doesn't enter into any part of it. The rest of her session may be fantastic, but the illusion that is a key part of GFE is lost.

It would be like going to a fine restaurant, and finding plastic dinnerware. The rest of the meal may be fantastic, but the experience would be diminished, and you won't forget the plastic fork.
That's about as good a definition of GFE that I have heard BP, thank you