Consideration for the betrayed wife

The husband losing his job is how he had the time and energy. The wife was absolutely available to him sexually, but he stopped pursuing her because he wanted the "high" of the fantasy. I have spoken with him on several occasions, and he says if the providers had not been so readily available, he would not have done it. And my friend DID leave him, but he is the one who has begged for reconciliation. She has agreed to work it out.
Look, we all have to live in this world, all are responsible for the next generation and the life we are leaving them after we are gone. Do providers not care what they are doing to families?
I guess the answer is no, so I am wasting my breath. They are living the high life, getting money and flattery. I think that one day they will find that all they have are their two empty hands and a bitter aftertaste. I hope they will see that the cost of selling themselves was too high for us all.
But I am done. No use throwing my pearls to pigs. Go on and break up more homes. I hope you find joy in that, because no one else does. Originally Posted by Loonygirl

You see people quite full of themselves everyday!...let me be more considerate! You're probably just lashing out feeling desperate to help someone but can't find the right way! Let me help you! You are right about "you're friends" K. Good!

Now, you are clumping too many things into one miniature tea cup! You fucked up at assuming all marriages are equal or for the same reason! That we all share the same moral equality or that we should! You are no where near equipped to judge moral quality or validity.
Just trying to help out there! So, pays attention. You're mind is trying to relate and comprehend some of this little part of the world, but its lacking, its OK. It happens to everyone! Instead of just asking for help! You are just lashing out. Stop that!.. Read all the helpful post and be thankful! You aren't going to accept everything today or tomorrow. Just be greatfull at least! Otherwise the only loser here will be you!! Have a nice day.


P.S. go get therapy. I go get laid, seems to relax my therapist and me.

I disagree on the latter statement's! The easier to relieve the itch! The more time to truelly contemplate! But whatever.

Wow, there's a like button, I know! Where's the "this is retard button" Just for you! Again wow and thanks, simple! Bitter,nah, never you. Never show you're lacking somethin. Wow

There is something you don't see often enough ... a retard arguing with itself.

Just wondered if any providers considered NOT having sex with married gentlemen? My best friend found out her hubby cheated with an escort, and it totally ruined her life. She is a beautiful, loving woman whose husband got addicted to porn and took it to the next level, and she doesn't deserve the pain and devastation this has brought on her and her children. It was totally wrong for said hubby to betray her this way, but I wondered if providers ever think about the damage they do to others with their sexual dalliances with married men. It is really sad that women care so little about the hearts of others as to help break them. Originally Posted by Loonygirl

A hobby encounter is divorced from real life. We should take care that family and friends not find out.

OR...if you mean "family" as in a wife and kids, you can just not hobby when you're married...

I just read this post. All I can say is WOW! Seems to me that Loonygirl is way too upset over this friends misfortune. Caring about a friend is normal, but this is obviously not normal. First, it takes 2 to make a relationship, and 2 to break it. A person who is truly happy in a marriage is NOT going to cheat. Loony may think that her friend was completely available for the husbands sexual pleasure, but if he had to turn to porn, and even escorts, I'm willing to bet that she wasn't. Just spreading your legs and sucking dick does not constitute a complete availability. It's very possible that this husband recognized his joy of watching porn, and the activities that are indulged in. He quite possibly mentioned this to his wife and was given the cold shoulder along with looks of disgust. That rejection is possibly what pushed him to finally contact an escort who had enough heart to allow this guy the ability to experiment with no judgment. And something tells me that the escort he found was very accessible. I believe that escort was the wife's close friend... none other than Loony herself. The change of heart she had was probably due to guilt. And what better way to get rid of your own guilt than to turn the tables and place the blame on everyone else. I may be wrong, but I highly doubt it. She is clearly transferring the hatred of her own self on to innocent people who have absolutely no involvement in that unfortunately love triangle.

Living where you do, you're hardly an impartial judge of this topic...

The only truly impartial people are the ones who have no idea what the topic is all about. And for them, ignorance doesn't make them any more worth listening to.

Having said that, I significantly disagree Summerlyn's hypothesis.

Gotta love someone who thinks that claiming to be married to a gal who has fake boobs, fake eyelashes and fake blonde hair thinks he is living the clean and honest life...

Thanks! I'm getting a lot of bromance here lately...I'll add you to my mailing list.

Loonygirl I have wondered this too. How you married guys risk to much for just some pussy?? ..

If your marriage sucks divorce her!! and fuk any and everything you want!!

issue is 80% of guys here are married so if you choose to do this, you have to encompass all because us Single Guys cannot keep your busy enough.,. Originally Posted by RALPHEY BOY

Human relationships are just more complicated than that.

A lot of these gents truly care for their wives and are content with every aspect of their marriage except for the lack of physical intimacy. Maybe the wife has some kind of medical condition that prevents her from being sexual. Some women just lose their sex drive as a result of menopause. Maybe she has been fighting "sex is bad" attitudes that were ingrained in childhood for years and just can't come to terms with it. None of these things means that the marriage "sucks"... it does mean that there is a specific lack in an otherwise good marriage. And that's where we come in, to provide that physical intimacy without the risk of an attachment that really could threaten the marriage.

Bingo.

A lot of these gents truly care for their wives and are content with every aspect of their marriage except for the lack of physical intimacy. Originally Posted by Bijou Neko

So that makes it okay for them to go fuck whores behind their wives back?

Stop trying to be altruistic...you're not saving the world's marriages like some plus size hooker superhero...you're a service provider, like my cable repairman...nothing more.

There shouldn't be any marriages to save...if these hypocritical pussies would get off their scared asses and tell their wives 1. That they have a problem with their marriages and need to see some changes or they'll leave, 2. Tell their wives they're cheating and see if they're okay with it, or 3. Get a divorce because their marriage is unsatisfying...

You're nothing more than someone they pay to fuck...you're delusions of grandeur are hilarious...but the statement "A lot of these gents truly care for their wives" is the biggest load of horseshit I've seen on this board in years...thy care nothing of the sort, or they'd be honest with their wives, and themselves, before they even decide to come see you...

So that makes it okay for them to go fuck whores behind their wives back?

Stop trying to be altruistic...you're not saving the world's marriages like some plus size hooker superhero...you're a service provider, like my cable repairman...nothing more.

There shouldn't be any marriages to save...if these hypocritical pussies would get off their scared asses and tell their wives 1. That they have a problem with their marriages and need to see some changes or they'll leave, 2. Tell their wives they're cheating and see if they're okay with it, or 3. Get a divorce because their marriage is unsatisfying...

You're nothing more than someone they pay to fuck...you're delusions of grandeur are hilarious...but the statement "A lot of these gents truly care for their wives" is the biggest load of horseshit I've seen on this board in years...thy care nothing of the sort, or they'd be honest with their wives, and themselves, before they even decide to come see you... Originally Posted by Wakeup

Don't presume to speak for me, because you know nothing about me or nothing about my life.

Contrary to your view, I truly love my wife. Yes, it's an imperfect world: I want something my wife won't provide. I'm not going to give my otherwise perfect and beautiful wife an ultimatum about doing my will under the threat of leaving. I'm also not going to crush my wife and break her will by telling her I'm cheating on her. I don't think that makes me a "pussy": I think that makes you an asshole that doesn't care about anyone beyond what they're doing for you.

And despite your rather uncalled-for ad hominem attack on Bijou above, some of us agree with her. I know when I cum in a providers mouth or ass there will be one less itch I'll be trying to beg my wife to scratch, which naturally she wont do and will just get mad, uncomfortable, and even ashamed.

Further, how dare you tell me that I don't care about my wife? I'm way fucking beyond offended. Where I come from, if someone talks about your motives or family like that, you erase them.

I find your view sad and your attitude intolerable. I'm blocking you because my blood pressure can't take reading another post from you. Ever.