No Justice In The Hobby/Provider Stand Point

And what's a 'homegirl'? Originally Posted by samantha thom

I'm trying not to post mean or sarcastic things and you throw me this slow pitch softball?!?!

It's a very white girl's explanation of her friends. Note she used "homegirls" and "pimp" in the same sentence - in an effort to explain she's not pimped.

People may laugh about the cat but it's a big deal to me - starts there and ends where if it gets uglier? Rule Number 1 - TOTAL discretion is a MUST. She was not under the threat of physical violence so you don't talk about ANY personal stuff publicly.

I know stuff about ladies and they know much about me and I would NEVER, even in a joking manner (which by the way the cat was not mentioned by her in a joking but I took it in more of a "I've got this and more") say ANY personal information. I was giving her the benefit of any doubt until then - she totally lost me after I read that. People have families, careers, etc - that's not a joking matter to me.

Did I mention before posts like this are never a good idea?

I'm trying not to post mean or sarcastic things and you throw me this slow pitch softball?!?!

It's a very white girl's explanation of her friends. Note she used "homegirls" and "pimp" in the same sentence - in an effort to explain she's not pimped.

People may laugh about the cat but it's a big deal to me - starts there and ends where if it gets uglier? Rule Number 1 - TOTAL discretion is a MUST. She was not under the threat of physical violence so you don't talk about ANY personal stuff publicly.

I know stuff about ladies and they know much about me and I would NEVER, even in a joking manner (which by the way the cat was not mentioned by her in a joking but I took it in more of a "I've got this and more") say ANY personal information. I was giving her the benefit of any doubt until then - she totally lost me after I read that. People have families, careers, etc - that's not a joking matter to me.

Did I mention before posts like this are never a good idea?
Originally Posted by EasyLover214

Your posts are always interesting, but I'm not quite understanding what you're saying here, Hun...when Sam asked "what's a homegirl"...I didn't take my brain pill this evening lol. Honestly, I didn't think anyone still or would use that term unless around people in a certain - how you say, environment, not when referring to your business. I could say it's her age, but my GF BSB is only 21...very professional.

Happy New Year!

Outing the cat was uncool...

I think this thread has spurred her into action -- there has been improvements on the Boobs end - see aforementioned review if you doubt.
http://eccie.net/showthread.php?t=947767

Your posts are always interesting, but I'm not quite understanding what you're saying here, Hun...when Sam asked "what's a homegirl"...I didn't take my brain pill this evening lol. Honestly, I didn't think anyone still or would use that term unless around people in a certain - how you say, environment, not when referring to your business. I could say it's her age, but my GF BSB is only 21...very professional.

Happy New Year! Originally Posted by Eva Damita

I'm saying for a very white girl to use the term home girls when referencing she's not pimped sounds very suspicious.

BSB is very mature for her age - these two are not even in the same ballpark.

I'm saying for a very white girl to use the term home girls when referencing she's not pimped sounds very suspicious.

BSB is very mature for her age - these two are not even in the same ballpark.
Originally Posted by EasyLover214

Very well said....And to drum up more business: http://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?t=912908&highli ght
Just cool that she can make a dude cum faster than one of, "our homegirls." Big shock, I thought she would be last in the competition..Good for her to happen to finish first in the blow job competition..This shit's too funny to me.

You guys keep believing what you want about this kid with a driver......And I hope you believe the posted threAd as well from her.....Some dumb ass should marry her or one of her "homegirls." LOL

Interesting how it plays itself out...

I'm saying for a very white girl to use the term home girls when referencing she's not pimped sounds very suspicious.

BSB is very mature for her age - these two are not even in the same ballpark.
Originally Posted by EasyLover214

Ahhh I see, and I totally agree. It's a bit bizarre for someone even her age to be using that term (sooo 1990's)...friend, girlfriend, driver, anything but "homegirl" - and on a hobby board?? LOL. She seems to use the term a lot.
The signs are there...but I won't say much more - what's understood doesn't have to be spoken (typed).

Thanks for clarification, Babe!

Very well said....And to drum up more business: http://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?t=912908&highli ght
Just cool that she can make a dude cum faster than one of, "our homegirls." Big shock, I thought she would be last in the competition..Good for her to happen to finish first in the blow job competition..This shit's too funny to me.

You guys keep believing what you want about this kid with a driver......And I hope you believe the posted threAd as well from her.....Some dumb ass should marry her or one of her "homegirls." LOL Originally Posted by Lucas McCain

Seriously. "Homegirl" is some mystical slang term? I hear younger girls of all races use that term. Some of you really need to leave the nursing home every once in a while. When you know women in their 20's you don't have to pay to be around you, you'd know it's a pretty common term of endearment.

I haven't met any of my college educated white female friends that use such a term nor infact when I think about it, none of my college educated female friends of any race.
I will add though, I don't think such a term taken alone is enough evidence to label someone as pimped nor is having a female driver although in this day and age anything could happen so why worry about what someone does or how they handle their affairs if it doesn't affect you... Why even care.

+1

I think it's worth pointing out that many providers come from a lower socioeconomic status where this term is in common usage.

I suspect that college or even completion of high school is not a common trait with providers.

I haven't met any of my college educated white female friends that use such a term nor infact when I think about it, none of my college educated female friends of any race.
I will add though, I don't think such a term taken alone is enough evidence to label someone as pimped nor is having a female driver although in this day and age anything could happen so why worry about what someone does or how they handle their affairs if it doesn't affect you... Why even care. Originally Posted by macbeth1000

+1

I think it's worth pointing out that many providers come from a lower socioeconomic status where this term is in common usage.

I suspect that college or even completion of high school is not a common trait with providers. Originally Posted by Rehke

It has nothing to do with socioeconomic status. The term "homegirl" is not common usage.

It has nothing to do with socioeconomic status. The term "homegirl" is not common usage. Originally Posted by Thatdude

Interestingly, a google of the term might give weight to another viewpoint as regards commonality.

Of course, I might also point out that you are probably rather narrowly defining "common".

In my experience it is common and becoming more common as the term percolates up from the ghettos. But yes, not nearly as common in the college educated crowd.

Whether common or not, homeboy, is crass, and unprofessional. Save the slang and jive talk when you're around your potna's and peeps...not to the professionals that pay your lights, rent, car note etc.

This isnt high school to where you want to imitate the "hip" black kids to fit in - Jesus take the wheel !

Id love to sit and type Ebonics all day ... but A) I'm an adult and B) Im a professional in my profession...'nuff said homey. This is a review board - not a street credit board.

Seriously. "Homegirl" is some mystical slang term? I hear younger girls of all races use that term. Some of you really need to leave the nursing home every once in a while. When you know women in their 20's you don't have to pay to be around you, you'd know it's a pretty common term of endearment. Originally Posted by Roger.Smith

You do know where you are don't you?