I've avoided this thread but since it seems to keep going, I'll comment.
Who gives a fuck why ANYONE hobbies?
I don't need a reason, all I need is cash.
I don't want to date gals who are less than half my age, but I certainly DO enjoy having great sex with them. I try to date women within about 5-10 years of my age but there is nothing like a good young tight body to play with now and then.
but seriously, who really care why anyone is in this hobby. Should we ask the escorts why they are selling sex for cash? Do you really think you'll get honest answers from 90% of the ones who are on here posting? What about the ones in the rest of the hobby like strippers and those not on SHMBs? What sample group are you looking for in the first place?
I will bite. I do not hobby when I am in a relationship. So I reverse the question. Why hobby in a relationship and if so, why stay in that relationship. Life is too short to be miserable and not love the person you are with.
I'll only add this as I haven't noticed this particular point yet:
I have more $ than time now. Which was the exact opposite when I was in my 20's and 30's. Plus, I'm attracted to the yung-uns, and no matter how much I work out or take care of myself I am still OLD now and can't hang with their life schedule. If I want a MILF, that is easier to do FOC, but again I refer to the original lack of time statetment.
I don't know or worry about why any of you do it... I am just glad you do! How else would I meet such a wide variety of men that I learn so much from? Sure beats sitting at a bar.
Well, I am a pretty attractive guy, but I'm in the Military and I don't have time for the drama that civvies bring, so..........yeah. I'll p4p, for now. lol
I haven't read through everything, but here's my 2 cents:
I ONLY hobby when unattached. As a result, I find myself hobbying at the end of a relationship (a marriage, this time) and it allows me to fulfill my physical wants (if not needs) while I heal up a bit emotionally. Aside from that, it's just a blast to get to know several wonderful ladies on a casual but extremely intimate basis. I don't, however, get into cost analysis, which I imagine, but don't know, has been discussed at some length elsewhere in this thread.