Help save my marriage please

Pyramider,

Not disagreeing on that concept - to wonder; what I saw was just some air clawing peasant type woman saying things at his eulogy given by her, and she obviously still had memories, feelings, and crying which I felt were pretty real, don't know the whole story... I think she used to joke a lot at him. But I don't know specifics..He used to say things at her too, but in a playful way - both. Could of been how they were together and were fine with it with teasing.

I was wondering if he left her and she was hurt, or maybe because they are so publicized that to guard against what the other might say, she kept saying things to look like the 'ok one?' in case she looked worse...kind of like when with some people that breakup, they can say things about the other because neither wants to look like the one who got dumped...instead of, 'we just don't match'. I never thought it fair to say the other was "a no good something or other". Like did Bobby Brown really do anything bad? And were people just trying to blame Whitney's death on him, just for an outlet? Back to Cher, since they still had to associate with each other in the business, and their daughter, they may have gotten better towards each other after time...I think if it were a really, true, bad relationship all together, there'd been a greater split with less feelings. Originally Posted by Joyce

She split with him. And the comments I am referring to were not playful teasing putdowns. They were full on putdowns. Her eulogy i chalked up to her acting.

I wonder if there is a Sonny and Cher movie. I mean like 'Was Cher Mean?' Maybe this will start something....

We're called jimmy hats, have you ever seen us?
Most guys wear us round rolled up on your penis
If you're real smart, you will always use us
Put me in your wallet, 'fore some dummy screws us
And goin bare back, without the bare facts
'll have creepy crawlers crawlin on your nutsac!
So get the J-I-M-M-Y to the hats
It's me and two brothers in a pack
"Run out and get your jimmy hats.."

Or this might happen to you!

We're called jimmy hats, have you ever seen us?
Most guys wear us round rolled up on your penis
If you're real smart, you will always use us
Put me in your wallet, 'fore some dummy screws us
And goin bare back, without the bare facts
'll have creepy crawlers crawlin on your nutsac!
So get the J-I-M-M-Y to the hats
It's me and two brothers in a pack
"Run out and get your jimmy hats.."

Or this might happen to you! Originally Posted by dreamvacationdates

OMG! Effin' hilarious! I just peed my pants!

Nowhere mentioned until now: STD's are usually reported to the authorities so they can do contact tracing and get everyone treated who needs to be. So the pussy is almost certainly already out of the bag. Have you not heard from the public health authorities about this?

I dont want to read back thru this, has he told her yet? If so what happened?

OMG! Effin' hilarious! I just peed my pants! Originally Posted by KelsiStylez

All props to Ice Cube (giving up the nappy dugout) http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7ag4pBKYWeQ you have to go in to 3:45
Warning this lyric can be very offensive to some people if you start from the beginning.

I dont want to read back thru this, has he told her yet? If so what happened? Originally Posted by thisguy23

I don't thinck so!

This threAd sure has everyone talking. Several people have PM'D me asking what I'd do. First of all I NEVER cheated while I was married! NEVER! But if I did....

The minute you find out you have an STD you magically get a very hurt back. The hurt lower back that stops you from having sex and doing most anything. Head to the doctor and demand the doctor do blood work. Get the results and go home and ask your wife to confess. Go with her to the doctor so she gets treated. Start acting suspicious and even a little jealous. If she works show up at her work unexpectedly. Remember it has to be her because it sure as hell wasn’t you. Within a month your back will get better. The STD will be gone! You saved your marriage and you walk the straight and narrow.

If she confesses.... you have a whole new set of problems!

If she doesn't, you tell her you love her and you forgive her and promise never to bring it up again. But you still need to be indifferent for about six months.

Or you can get a good attorney. Cut the check. Loose the house and start posting like a SOB. Before you know it, you'll have 150-160 reviews under your belt!

obviously a YMMV situation.

Knowing your SO is key, if she truly is paranoid, then the drunk thing can cause lifelong suspicion. If she doesn't enjoy sex, then the provider explanation causes other reactions, including, don't touch me, get it elsewhere. Most of all, you must decide what your long term goal is, and the medical provider's advice is good. One clear story could simply be that you are a carrier, not prone to the symptoms yourself, but have been a carrier since before marriage. Perhaps safest route.

Setting aside the pathetically hypocritical moralizing on an escort board...

Just tell her you got drunk at the tittie bar and before you realized what was happening a stripper was slobbin on your knob ................... its a true story , just not yours LOL Originally Posted by LaStang

This. Or even better, "Oh, shit...I was at a titty bar aweek/month/year/whatever ago with some of the guys from work and one of the strippers came over to talk to me and put her hand on my leg then before I even know what was going on she ran it up under my shorts and grabbed my dick, asking if I wanted a a lap dance. First thing I could think of was 'how fucking gross it was, and many other dicks had she grabbed that night already?' and I pulled her hand away and told her to get lost. I can't fucking believe that bitch must have given me something from someone else's dirty fucking dick."

obviously a YMMV situation.

Knowing your SO is key, if she truly is paranoid, then the drunk thing can cause lifelong suspicion. If she doesn't enjoy sex, then the provider explanation causes other reactions, including, don't touch me, get it elsewhere. Most of all, you must decide what your long term goal is, and the medical provider's advice is good. One clear story could simply be that you are a carrier, not prone to the symptoms yourself, but have been a carrier since before marriage. Perhaps safest route. Originally Posted by ncrtt1

Yes if you want to go the lying route, go this way and protect her.