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Originally Posted by Sweet Heather
Sweetheart, I don't know if you're just plain stupid or if you don't understand the basics of argumentation and fallacies (note: not related to phallic). I'll give you the benefit of the doubt and assume the latter. COF is not dangerous. It is nothing like barebacking a girl. In any way, shape or form. See sweetie, what you've done here is you've engaged in the hooker version of a Godwin. Now, since you clearly don't know anything about rational argumentation, I'll break it down for you. A Godwin is when, in the course of a debate or argument, one person calls another a Nazi. The idea is that once a normal, rational person has been compared to the most vile ideology in human existence, there is no room for calm, rational discourse. An example:
Person A: I don't support affirmative action.
Person B: OMFG!!! You hate black people!!! You nazi!!1!
Godwin.
Now, see, what you've done here is the sexual equivalent. You have now compared COF, a relatively normal sexual activity, with one of the most dangerous activities a provider can engage in, BBFS. Here's a summary of the relevant posts:
Provider A: I discovered I am no longer offended by COF and find that it can actually be enjoyable.
Provider B: OMFG!!! You allow COF?!?! What's next, BBFS?!?! Stupid whore!!1!
See how you've pretty much shut down the possibility of rational discussion?
If you are having such a great time, why don't you 'mind your own beeswax?'Because I am a member of this "community" THE SAME AS YOU and my opinions are just as valid as yours. Don't get on your high horse lady.You might fall off.
Originally Posted by Sweet Heather
Opinions aren't valid just because they exist, sweetie. If that were the case, then Nazis, Klansmen, misogynists, etc. would all have perfectly valid opinions, and I think we can agree that isn't really the case (and no, this isn't a Godwin, just tossing out a few opinions that are generally viewed as invalid). This is not a support group, this is not kindergarten, we do not exist to validate your fucking feelings. If you can't back them up or explain them rationally, they are not valid. Grow the fuck up.
I think you've pretty much run this little crusade of yours into the ground. Why dont you go back to being "Sweet" and just let it go...What I do and when I do it...*I* decide.
Originally Posted by Sweet Heather
Ironic, because that seems to be exactly the opposite of the sentiment you've been espousing, trying to tell all these other nice ladies how to run their businesses, what services they should offer, how they should price, what they should call it, etc.
Now, sweetness, light, please kindly shut the fuck up and crawl back under the rock you came from.