Does a tip or gift do anything for the client?

^ yay! does that mean I have to share you though?

I've gotten a providers favorite perfume for her birthday and reaped the benefits of the lady being appreciative during BCD activities. Also, have given Gift Cards to various places. The most tip I've done is $$ and that was just the other night.

Let me start by saying I believe in tipping and tip most every except when I get really awful service.

When it comes to visits with ladies, my rationale regarding tips is a little different. Most ladies say "tips are welcome, but not necessary." I take them at their word.

Due to my schedule, I tend to see ladies one time and one time only. It's not that I wouldn't want to see them again, it's just the opportunity isn't there. I might go into a session with a little cash stored away for a tip in case it is an extraordinary session.

But generally, I go for a gift. I have rarely gone to a session w/o a gift. And the lady gets the gift regardless of performance.

But tips are based on performance IMHO. And from reading this Board, both escorts and hobbyists tend to agree that it takes one or two sessions to establish a good rhythm (pun not really intended, but recognized), or excellent performance.

And most say it takes two to tango. And, it takes a couple of sessions to develop that.

So, although I might have a tip tucked away, I probably won't reach for it until a 2nd or 3rd session.

IMHO, ladies who know they'll be seeing me only once has very little motivation to give outstanding performance. Now, some ladies say they give their best no matter what. And, for some ladies, I would agree with that sentiment. However, I think even they would agree that it is hard to click on the first date.

I have a funny question....

I know that most providers list their preferred gifts that they like on their showcases and websites..... How many of you ladies have received the same gift twice in one day or week even lol. If so do you ever think to yourself "what happened to being original" lol.

That was my late night attempt of smart ass humor. If I refer to you as Mr. Bunny, don't take me seriously.

I hoping you would see the humor in my statement....

It's been my experience that I don't have a clue when the hour is up.... Originally Posted by Eccie Addict

A gentleman in Nashville got me a VS egift card for my birthday and i saw it in my inbox and thought it was spam until he emailed me asking me about it. He knew it was odd for me not to call or email a thank you and I am glad he did. Was the most unexpected thing. He made my birthday:mf_lusts low:

CharlesStudor, I tip my hat to you.

My opinion is, that until you're dead, you never know that you're only going to see me once (though that does bring "once in a lifetime" to mind) so I act accordingly

Besides, hobbyists talk-- that's mainly why I'm here, that and to learn from the fine ladies and hobbyists here so I don't do something utterly inane or newbie and land myself in trouble.

I do wholeheartedly agree with things getting better with each meet-up, though I've had several awesome first-offs. It's not so much the sex that improves (though that can help); it's the connection that makes it easier to read each other and move more fluidly.

I think its an extremely nice gesture and is always appreciated and makes me feel special that they put in extra effort to do something for me' Originally Posted by Sweet N Little

Agreed on this!

I get gifts and tips about 3 out of 5 dates and yes I truly appreciate them, but would rather they give cash gifts to charity. Originally Posted by London Rayne

Sometimes for me that is always, and I mean always appreciated. But I like the surprise gifts too, the ones where you know the gentleman took the time to find out what I like!

Does a carton of Marlboros count as a "tip"? I have done that, recently even.

A man that was extremely clean and respectful would get a lot more from me than a man that gave me extra cash and didn't grasp the concept of cleanliness. At the end of the day, I appreciated any man that made my job a little easier.

I never expect tips, I only expect promptness & good hygiene. But however I have received great great tips. My girlies call me the tip queen, and ask what it is I do? I treat all my gents very well, I am Always Prompt and Ready. I always have my setting set before you arrive. I only see 1 possibly 2 a day if that. I truly believe quality over quantity.

I do enjoy what I do, I have always been a nurturer by nature. So it comes very natural to me. I have been tipped double and even triple my session. And believe me I was absolutely shocked and very thrilled at the same time. And yes when they return I do something even more special, if its extra time or nice wine & chocolate covered strawberries as a special thanks.

But if a guy doesn't tip, I don't give him any less treatment, because it might have took him some time to save to see me and that's special to.

But if a guy doesn't tip, I don't give him any less treatment, because it might have took him some time to save to see me and that's special to. Originally Posted by Sami

This speaks volumes......

A man that was extremely clean and respectful would get a lot more from me than a man that gave me extra cash .... Originally Posted by Naomi4u

I've got the flowers, chocolate and wine in the shower with me right now!!

I've got the flowers, chocolate and wine in the shower with me right now!! Originally Posted by Ed Highlight

Well damn. That would get you an extra sloppy bbbj.

A man that was extremely clean and respectful would get a lot more from me than a man that gave me extra cash and didn't grasp the concept of cleanliness. At the end of the day, I appreciated any man that made my job a little easier. Originally Posted by Naomi4u

agreed. There's so many ways to make our job easier-- being on time but not being early, being clean, flossing and brushing your teeth, being easy-going and willing to have a good time, willing to guide me to what they like if I'm asking them as I'm going along...

There's been times when dancing in the club where I would make a LOT of money but the guys were brusque, or just hard to handle, and there would be nights where I would barely scrape a few hundred and I'd go home in high spirits because I'd shared a lot of laughs, and I could tell I'd really made a difference to one or two gentlemen who were having an awful day before running into me.

Luckily I haven't run into anybody who hasn't been a complete doll, but Sami is right quality over quantity, even if quality doesn't necessarily translate to tips.