What happened to respecting the ladies?
Originally Posted by Naomi4u
In order for one to gain respect, they must give respect also.
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I've been watching this thread and I knew it would turn ugly soon.
Both sides of this world hobbyists and providers have talked down to each other, not all of you, but some. Your case might be taken into consideration better if you talked to each other instead of talking down.
Each lady puts her panties on the same way everyone else does, doesn't make you better than anyone else. Use that when speaking of your sessions. The lady who books sessions at a 2 or 3 hour min. isn't any better than someone like myself who offers hour or more sessions.
As for rates, let people charge and pay what they will. If you're a guy and not paying it, what do you care if you don't plan on seeing her? As for the ladies, why care what another lady charges? Rates are what they are. Ladies can choose to adjust, lower, raise..etc. I myself keep my rates in the middle unless they want something more such as domme sessions, etc.
Don't knock each other because you offer something the other doesn't. I don't care if London or Irish offer 10 hour sessions, I need to tend to my own backyard before tending to someone else's.
Guys, if a lady offers the type of session you can't offer, don't knock her for it. Let her learn by her mistakes or success. Each lady needs to figure out what niche she has in this world, she'll fail or succeed.
Advertise on sites that work for you, that bring you business. But, don't knock site as a whole and all the guys because its not bringing you any business. Maybe its the way you market yourself on this site or the lack there of. Just remember, not every gent who views this website is a member, there are lurkers. Also, if you don't care about this site...then stop trying to argue, be sarcastic or push your views on anyone else. The attitude portrayed by some is ugly and makes you ugly.
Before any of you come at me with the "she's kissin ass" line, think again. I always speak my mind, but I also tell the truth on what I see.