I don't judge people one way or another about abortion.
Originally Posted by Lucas McCain
For obvious reasons, now. But based on your posts you do actually judge people. Quite a bit actually.
I still don't regret.... I'm hardly proud of it.... I did what was in our selfish interest...
Originally Posted by Lucas McCain
And there it is. The naked self interest. No wonder you're so ready to judge others. Atoning for the fact that you trespassed one natures most fundamental laws, you don't kill your own progeny.
It just solidifies my belief that lefties like you are fundamentally emotionally-broken people. And of the worse sort... you cannot even acknowledge your own wounds.
to terminate the pregnancies because we were so young and incapable of making a more mature decision.
Originally Posted by Lucas McCain
So multiple times with multiple women. You apparently never learned a lesson from the first one either. Or how to use a condom. You were immature. But you executed a baby rather than face the consequences of your choices. I don't use the word coward lightly. But it indeed comes to mind.
A big part of me regrets those decisions,
Originally Posted by Lucas McCain
That's called your soul. Listen to it.
but the logical part says, "suck it up, you have enough kids
Originally Posted by Lucas McCain
Humans excel at rationalizing anything... even consuming another persons flesh... of course you rationalize it. To do otherwise would make the guilt to difficult to deal with.
now and at least they were planned, and you were married, and they were made out of love and not because of young and dumb lust."
Originally Posted by Lucas McCain
Does it matter the circumstance life is created? Life is life regardless of how one feels in the morning.
Again, nothing at all to be proud of but yes, I obviously believe abortion should be legal. I had absolutely no business trying to raise a boy to be a man or a girl to be a woman at that young age when I wasn't even fully raised myself at the time.
Originally Posted by Lucas McCain
So you didn't feel mature enough to put your childs life ahead of your own, but you felt mature enough to end that same life? Interesting... I would think deciding to execute a baby would require more maturity than being a decent father.
I'll always have doubts until the day I die
Originally Posted by Lucas McCain
As you should. Your soul doesn't rest just because you think you can rationalize murdering your children.
questioning myself about those life altering decisions about whether I really did make the right choices regardless of the reasons I did so.
Originally Posted by Lucas McCain
You didn't make the right choice. Your doubts betray that you know that as well. But it's very difficult to come to terms with it, I imagine. What a horrible feeling it must be.
That's just life and I signed up for that stigma, so I'll deal with it like I have done so for many years.
Originally Posted by Lucas McCain
That's a hard burden to bear. I'm truly sorry that you have to carry it. How much better would it have been had you made a choice based on love rather than fear of a difficult life. In case you missed it life is difficult for most folks... that's not a justification for murder.
That's my story about abortion. Sorry for the long read because I know I am one of the 1st to bitch about people being too long winded with their post. My bad
Originally Posted by Lucas McCain
Thanks for sharing... I hope writing it made it easier.