Dinner / Drinks with Providers

Sometimes average guys just want to be seen with hot women and have no intention of booking at all. Ladies check to see if they have reviews prior to making that decision.

Sofia,
or even if they do have them, they still don't get through your process, i tried several times, and my handle hasn't changed since the ol ASP* days.
I like others here visited the nicer things especially the ladies of escapes, and knew a lot of them on personal basis. I always thought your ladies had the look and class of the ladies I have seen previously but it seemed somehow you never got my info after 5 or 6 tries, so i just looked elsewhere.
I don't care whether to be seen with a pretty woman on my arm, i have always had that.
When I have time from my busy schedule, it is easy for me to have what I want without the hobby, but when a large client comes along and working 70 to 90 hours you still have needs. this is where the board comes in handy, i just wish so bad a i could get a lady in my office at night after 6 as I am the only one here!!!!!LOL

I'm agree with bbkid. I've had lunch several times with different providers without expectations or strings. No pressure, no games, just meal, convo, and part ways. Depends on the provider, IMHO. Originally Posted by rocHard

That wouldn't happen with Isis, since the only free time she has has to be paid for. I understand her wanting to be compensated for her time, especially now that the new twins have kept her out of work a while. As she stated so eloquently, "I need money," It seems now, of all times, getting a nice dinner and drinks, plus cash with a potential client who's company she'd most likely enjoy, she'd rather stay home with her dogs, laundry and her principal and get nothing.

What I find utterly ridiculous is the fact Isis believes if she does this once, or if other women are willing to do it, then every guy will want and expect it. Who would know other than she and him? A second thing is her need to hide behind a second handle to be herself and her provider persona is completely fake. I know being nice and sweet to clients and potentials helps business. But you've got to be one hell of an actress to pull off being happy and positive when you aren't, unless you're getting paid.

One of the things I appreciate about many providers here is they are themselves in their posts, no sugar coating. Brooke W, Dallas, BBS, GP and Max come to mind.

I remember a provider I wanted to see, yet didn't, because she wanted a 90 minute mandatory session with the first part being a paid 30 minute meet and greet prior to BCD in a social setting, drinks, coffee, etc., for first time clients. During this time she would decide whether or not she would actually go BCD. She was basically seeing if there was any chemistry, but not simply sexual. If she liked you she would have you follow her to her nearby incall and have a full hour. If not, you paid to meet her and get rejected. I don't remember the meet and greet rate, although I believe it was nominal. I was sure I wouldn't be rejected, after our numerous communications, but if I was going to pay for 90 minutes I would rather it be BCD time.

Just because something doesn't affect me doesn't mean I shouldn't care. Oh, but i guess I'm just a jaded, cold person to care so much for other strangers! Ha Ha Ha

From your posts in this thread, the only person you care about is you. You didn't want other women doing it cause of your misguided belief that if one woman does it then all guys are going to want free time, or it'll cause rates to drop. Who you care about you state below.


Oh and by the way, how am I going to pay my bills if I'm going on free dates? I get paid, exactly, thanks to the client who pays me. I need money. Thats my point.

You turn that irresistible, sugar coated fake charm on during that dinner and make him believe he can't leave without seeing you BCD.


No reviews? No images? No personality? Right. And Eccie is the only escorting communication service on the entire world wide web! Sweet cheeks, I'm here incognito so I don't have to sugar coat nuttin baby. But rest assured, if I was here for advertising purposes, my opinions would be oh so positive and happy. So far, I haven't needed Eccie yet to gain buisiness. That might change, it might not. If it does, my attitude will become more sugar coated because it would have to be. Incognito Isis would be gone, and my escort persona would take over. I love Eccie, I really do. It's addicting. But for now, I come here to unload my load. Sorta like what a guy does first thing in the morning when he takes a shower.

You aren't helping yourself.


Because I just had breast augmentation surgery so I'm not seeing clients as regularly right now. I saw a few and it was a mistake. Too soon. I'm just not feeling 100%. So I come here cuz it's fun. But I know you love me and your praying for my full recovery!!! Originally Posted by incognito isis

I hope you heal well and fast and take that dinner with a nominal fee. You could use the money and a free meal at a nice restaurant.

Clearly...you and reality rarely meet.

If you believe hobbiest pay you for your time...
Just advertise yourself as a provider who does nothing...
Oh yeah...don't forget to let us know how your clients just line up to pay you.

Get a clue...hobbiest pay you for only one reason...
Otherwise...we would be just as happy sitting with our first mother-in-law in a black truck facing west in the hot Texas sun.

You talk as though you are the epitome of snooty.
Surely you can blame it on your childhood..or something.

Hard to believe you are that unhinged...you must have wicked skillz...cuz in Texas...we don't suffer fools at all, let alone gladly.

Hope you get better.
Wishing you all the best.

How about my regular fee for my time???

LADIES, DON'T DO IT. YOU ARE WORTH YOUR FULL RATES FOR YOUR TIME. DO NOT ACCEPT A DINNER AS COMPENSATION UNLESS, OF COURSE YOU KNOW THE MAN OR HAVE OTHER REASONS TO DO SO.

**Every time an escort accepts a free date, they start expecting it from all of us** Originally Posted by incognito isis

Clearly...you and reality rarely meet.

If you believe hobbiest pay you for your time...
Just advertise yourself as a provider who does nothing...
Oh yeah...don't forget to let us know how your clients just line up to pay you.

Get a clue...hobbiest pay you for only one reason...
Otherwise...we would be just as happy sitting with our first mother-in-law in a black truck facing west in the hot Texas sun.

You talk as though you are the epitome of snooty.
Surely you can blame it on your childhood..or something.

Hard to believe you are that unhinged...you must have wicked skillz...cuz in Texas...we don't suffer fools at all, let alone gladly.

Hope you get better.
Wishing you all the best. Originally Posted by rhino9

No, actually I am paid for my time whether you like it or not. I have many encounters a month that are clock free. Believe it or not, people like connecting with one another if even for the briefest of time.

**Every time an escort accepts a free date, they start expecting it from all of us** Originally Posted by incognito isis

That is as about the stupidest remark you've made in this thread (and you've made a bunch of 'em) (that's Texas talk, btw).
As stated before, some ladies are willing to have lunch with us just for the company and a free lunch. And some ladies understand what it may take for her to become a regular friend.

Oh I am so right, Isis just in time for this thread, a Buddy of mine called me last night to invite me on an all inclusive trip with her to the Dominican Repurblic in Nov for 4 days.
GUESS WHAT?????? She is paying for everything!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!WO W, I guess something does go for being a gentlemen and a good guy.....Yoy know what the kicker is, I haven't seen her in 4 years, but this is a family gathering and wedding and I am to participate and be with her the whole time, she even asked what to wear whenever we go out anywhere, of course my tastes are the same, so I WILL BE ENJOYING THE NOVEMBER SUN WHILE YOU FREEZE TO DEATH IN PHILLY, NOT COSTING ME A DIME, AND GETTING EVERYTHING ALL DAY LONG FOR FREE, "I AM A HOBBYIST"!
But I can eat a $ussy better than any woman or know exactly how many licks it takes to get to the center of a "Tootsie PoP"!!! LOL just playing with the last part, but caring to please, getting to know, to pay big dividends.
I WILL PAT MYSELF ON THE BACK!!!! SHE will coming to Houston in 2 weeks just to remind me what I have been missing for two days, again on her!!!!!!

PT Barnum has been credited with the quote "Never underestimate the stupidity of the American public"

If you are paid for "your time" and provide nothing of value, such actions are considered an unethical business practice.

You are correct "Believe it or not, people like connecting with other people for a reason"
That reason is theirs....and being deceived is usually not one of those reasons.

No, actually I am paid for my time whether you like it or not. I have many encounters a month that are clock free. Believe it or not, people like connecting with one another if even for the briefest of time. Originally Posted by OliviaHoward

Oh, Olivia, if you were Incognito, we don't really care if you have encounters where people pay for nothin....
Guys on here often proudly post that they pay 3-5 times the going rate for pussy...We just feel sorry for them.

But you may rest assured many of us will never even consider seeing you for this attitude.

Maybe this has not been clear enough...

YOU ARE REDUCING YOUR MARKETING POOL WITH THESE STUPID POSTS..
Still wishing you the best.
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