let's test the new rules out

My god the mods. are jumpy. Jeesh . Pointing people over only speculation! Suppressing speech and content. Deleting posts and entire threads! Even after they the mods. claim they don't do that!

It was moved to the recycle bin.

ztonk Originally Posted by ztonk

So the Owners have decided to purge the board of any/all(?) threads created in the past that are offense to some set of people?

I thought politics was left to the Political Forum.

It is truly an end to what ECCIE once seemed to stand for.

So the Owners have decided to purge the board of any/all(?) threads created in the past that are offense to some set of people? Originally Posted by Whispers

If they get bumped, yes.

I thought they were supposed to never be deleted.

And how does someone go about getting it deleted? Pm you or the admin and complain till it's removed? Originally Posted by Kickrocks

No complaint or RTM necessary. If a thread that is in violation of the guidelines appears, it will be addressed and there will be consequences.

This should be a clear indication how seriously the site admins are taking cases of unnecessary rudeness, insulting remarks, and harassment of others.

ztonk

We live in really uncertain times, where shit we’d previously deemed strange doesn’t raise an eyebrow.

It seems to me there has been a steady rise in “weird shit” especially as it pertains to crimes/controversies involving Sex, cyber bullying and racial/ethnic hatred in this country.

After the recent dark period, maybe ownership is simply covering its ass.

Don’t really blame them.

Covering their ass would be to freeze all old threads so they could not be bumped or quoted

Yes, there has been a rise in "weird shit" and those same people that scream about it are the same people who squawk when someone tells them that they are in the wrong. These are the same people that think they are entitled and that their opinions are always right. What they fail to understand is everyone has different opinions and express them differently. These people are very self righteous about their opinions and have no tolerance for other opinions. Yet, they scream the loudest on intolerance when it suits their needs. This is not kindergarten - I don't need to be told to be nice to others - I already am nice to others.
Damn it.

We live in really uncertain times, where shit we’d previously deemed strange doesn’t raise an eyebrow.

It seems to me there has been a steady rise in “weird shit” especially as it pertains to crimes/controversies involving Sex, cyber bullying and racial/ethnic hatred in this country.

After the recent dark period, maybe ownership is simply covering its ass.

Don’t really blame them. Originally Posted by Yssup Rider

Yes, there has been a rise in "weird shit" and those same people that scream about it are the same people who squawk when someone tells them that they are in the wrong. These are the same people that think they are entitled and that their opinions are always right. What they fail to understand is everyone has different opinions and express them differently. These people are very self righteous about their opinions and have no tolerance for other opinions. Yet, they scream the loudest on intolerance when it suits their needs. This is not kindergarten - I don't need to be told to be nice to others - I already am nice to others.
Damn it. Originally Posted by Austin Ellen

You're my new Hero !!! Now this is an example of a reputable lady member .

You're my new Hero !!! Now this is an example of a reputable lady member . Originally Posted by winn dixie

I've been an admirer for some time now. She's one smart cookie.

You may express your own opposing opinion in any discussion thread. That has not changed. What has changed is that you can't be unnecessarily rude or insulting when doing so.

Expressing an opinion that you prefer to fuck women under 38 is fine. But comparing fucking an older woman to fucking a corpse was unnecessarily rude...

ztonk Originally Posted by ztonk

Is this insulting? Average looking..one a porno the other 2 meh..i'll stick to the spinners and 21 years old

Is this insulting? Average looking..one a porno the other 2 meh..i'll stick to the spinners and 21 years old Originally Posted by JalapenoPopper

It's getting to the point where if a member writes a "No review" that is considered rude and insulting!! Just pay attention and you'll see !! By the new definitions and the ways the mods. are implementing the rules a "No review" is considered a personal and unnecessary attack !

..... Just pay attention and you'll see !! By the new definitions and the ways the mods are implementing the rules a "No review" is considered a personal and unnecessary attack ! Originally Posted by winn dixie

Back in the day of a corrupt ASPD many a NO review was made to disappear to appease one of he local prostitutes.

It appears we could be headed in that direction. It may behoove men to avoid any prostitute without 3-5 YES reviews in the most recent 3 months.

Let someone else assume that risk

Pointing fingers is a popular pastime for many in today’s “society.”

Unfortunately, being civil to one another is not.

It’s symptomatic of a frustrated public living in frustrating times. .

I think everybody becomes someone else when they share on ECCIE or any whooker board. I get it...lot of repressed feeling coming out when people sign in.

But that doesn’t mean your “character” has to be spiteful. That’s how I’m reading this.

People choose to be part of this community. They can likewise choose to be part of another one.

Yes, there has been a rise in "weird shit" and those same people that scream about it are the same people who squawk when someone tells them that they are in the wrong. These are the same people that think they are entitled and that their opinions are always right. What they fail to understand is everyone has different opinions and express them differently. These people are very self righteous about their opinions and have no tolerance for other opinions. Yet, they scream the loudest on intolerance when it suits their needs. This is not kindergarten - I don't need to be told to be nice to others - I already am nice to others.
Damn it. Originally Posted by Austin Ellen

Ellen, I agree with you in part.

There are actually three things involved: Objective information, opinions, and how they are expressed.

Objective info SHOULD be the simplest of the three, but sadly even objective facts seem to be blurred. They shouldn't be: A lady was on time or not. Her photos are accurate or not. A guy respected stated boundaries or not. If someone states things that are not true in that regard, that is wrong and should not be quietly accepted.

Opinions are more difficult, but even there a person should be able to state an opinion in a way that includes some back-up. Not "Her place was disgusting", which is a subjective opinion, but mostly useless and invites endless open-ended interpretations. I don't think it is asking too much to expect "Her place was littered with used McDonald's wrappers and smelled of stale smoke." That tells me something useful, and also allows her to respond. Responding to "Her place was disgusting" is near impossible to reply to without some guys instantly claiming that she should keep her mouth shut if she can't be specific in her rebuttal. Similarly with "He was rude and disrespectful"--minimal useful info and hard if not impossible to defend against.

But I think the major emphasis of the "changes" are dealing with the third area, HOW one expresses their opinion. Yes, I understand "everyone expresses themselves differently", but some of those "different" ways are needlessly insulting and derogatory. I am sorry, but even negative, unpleasant points can be made without adding a five pound bag of gratuitous insults. And yes, there is subjectivity there. So be it--there is subjectivity in most everything.

If the admin/owners/mods want things more like "She looked older than her touched up photos, and had more crows feet than I expected. Her breasts sagged a bit and her breath smelled strongly of cigarettes." instead of "What a disgusting fat pig! Too many trips through the all-you-can eat buffet have turned her into a caricature of herself. I am sure there are bodies in the morgue for a month that look better than she does." I have a hard time seeing where that makes the site less informative. Regardless of what some seem to believe.

Maybe it is the Texas school system, I don't know, but you seem to be a bit dyslexic today.



Please, what did I say that you disagree with? It is difficult to tell.[/I][/COLOR] Originally Posted by Old-T

Ellen, I agree with you in part.

There are actually three things involved: Objective information, opinions, and how they are expressed.


But I think the major emphasis of the "changes" are dealing with the third area, HOW one expresses their opinion. Yes, I understand "everyone expresses themselves differently", but some of those "different" ways are needlessly insulting and derogatory. I am sorry, but even negative, unpleasant points can be made without adding a five pound bag of gratuitous insults. And yes, there is subjectivity there. So be it--there is subjectivity in most everything.


Originally Posted by Old-T

And right here Old-T is where you display your typical & usual hypocrisy. Classic Old-T to a fucking T!!!!

You seriously need to learn how to heed your own advice before you come on here with your usual "holier than thou" Bull Shit!
So it's ok for you to display YOUR opinions in a derogatory manner, but it's not ok for others to do the same???
That is exactly the behavior you have just displayed old man.
Practice what you preach Old Man, cause if you don't I will continue to expose you for you truly are, you wanna keep this going? Then let's go!

Nothin like a good freaky Milf! Also less bullshit to deal with and more professional than younger providers at least in my exp so far