Boyfriend and The Business. Can you have both ?

I once had a boyfriend that wanted me to stop providing once things got serious. Needless to say, the relationship didn't last very long.

I once had a boyfriend that wanted me to stop providing once things got serious. Needless to say, the relationship didn't last very long. Originally Posted by MochaNautte

Didn't you feel that he loved you, though?

So I have been reading everyone's story, and listening to what they have experienced when trying to have both a personable enduring, and loving relationship with someone , and trying to be a provider, run a business, and build relationships within that parameter. There is no right or wrong answer really.. At least that's what I am starting to come to the conclusion of. I think that it all just depends on the person, and what they are wiling to sacrifice for their partner, and how well they are able to adjust to the lifestyle of their partner. I find myself being able to provide for the business but my persona life , and my partner are put on the back burner. Then he starts feeling that he is not adequate enough, unwanted, insecure, and lonely. This is actually very common even in most normal lives with a more traditional type job. People even in their normal , social excepting type working jobs are also this way. It just seems to be less noticed in that aspect than when your a provider.. Eventually, the business of your business life , gets mixed in and personal becomes business and business becomes personal. I'm not sure that our two hearts can handle it much more but we are giving it our last , hardest run ever. So far its been a pretty hard road , and we still both love each other very much.. I think that at the end of all of this we will one day be sitting on our porch together waiting for the rain to pour down .. old and grey as the night starts to fade away. :-) :-) :-) Thanks for everyone's great responses towards my question about having both, business or the boyfriend thread. I posted that thread nearly two weeks ago or more and I am still getting replies on that.. take care everyone .. rock on! Mia..Love
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