Ladies: Has an angry wife ever called you?

No need to be sorry. For some guys (not me) it's a deal breaker. Originally Posted by charlestudor2005

It's been that way for 2-3 years now and I can't complain

I've got a similar story from last weekend. I have a hobby buddy who I text and sometimes email my exploits. This last MLK day he and I went to the s/c and ended up at one of the spas in town. Both had a good time. Well his GF got a hold of some of the texts and got mad at him. Stupid me texted him some more a couple of weeks later. He is a teacher and its easier to not interrupt him. And if I assumed he would read and delete before going home.

Fast forward to last weekend and the phone is next to my side of the bed and the SO is on the other. I've been up for couple hours and go into the room to get my cell phone. Lo and behold, this GF had sent me over a dozen texts with stuff like: "I can't believe you guys see those nasty ^$#=s". I try to respond and get her rational to no avail. I then thru a little googling found out how to go online and block numbers to your cell. I have Verizon that will block up to 10 numbers for a period as long as a couple months. The calls quickly stopped.

Yes, I made a mistake in texting a guy with a suspicious GF. Funny thing is my friend and his GF have had three ways with BP (Backpage) girls (I tried to explain to this chick that were I find providers is several steps above BP). The topper is my friend still whats to do a three way with his girl and has been for some time. Of course, I'm like no fucking way with that bitch that almost outted me. I'm still pissed. Lesson learned.

Sorry ladies to hijack this thread. I just wanted to mention the ease of blocking numbers which I assume most carriers will do.

It's been that way for 2-3 years now and I can't complain Originally Posted by ZarahAdams

I can complain when I don't get good service. While I generally don't do reviews anymore, bad service might tempt me to do so.

I can complain when I don't get good service. While I generally don't do reviews anymore, bad service might tempt me to do so. Originally Posted by charlestudor2005

You are a hobbyist. Of course you can.
I'm highly reviewed on TER and other sites,
I wouldn't know about "bad service" .

I've got a similar story from last weekend. I have a hobby buddy who I text and sometimes email my exploits. This last MLK day he and I went to the s/c and ended up at one of the spas in town. Both had a good time. Well his GF got a hold of some of the texts and got mad at him. Stupid me texted him some more a couple of weeks later. He is a teacher and its easier to not interrupt him. And if I assumed he would read and delete before going home.

Fast forward to last weekend and the phone is next to my side of the bed and the SO is on the other. I've been up for couple hours and go into the room to get my cell phone. Lo and behold, this GF had sent me over a dozen texts with stuff like: "I can't believe you guys see those nasty ^$#=s". I try to respond and get her rational to no avail. I then thru a little googling found out how to go online and block numbers to your cell. I have Verizon that will block up to 10 numbers for a period as long as a couple months. The calls quickly stopped.

Yes, I made a mistake in texting a guy with a suspicious GF. Funny thing is my friend and his GF have had three ways with BP (Backpage) girls (I tried to explain to this chick that were I find providers is several steps above BP). The topper is my friend still whats to do a three way with his girl and has been for some time. Of course, I'm like no fucking way with that bitch that almost outted me. I'm still pissed. Lesson learned.

Sorry ladies to hijack this thread. I just wanted to mention the ease of blocking numbers which I assume most carriers will do. Originally Posted by Yowzer

For Android and Iphone, Mr Number works great .

You are a hobbyist. Of course you can.
I'm highly reviewed on TER and other sites,
I wouldn't know about "bad service" . Originally Posted by ZarahAdams

IMHO, there are many levels of sub-par service. Even though I'm a perfectionist and the least little thing puts my teeth on edge, I'm fairly forgiving and it takes a lot for me to categorize something as "bad service."

Some things put me in a bad mood: tardiness to the date; bad attitude; not into it; and a host of other "mood killers." IMHO, those things do not rise to the level of "bad service."

However, NCNS me, cheat me on time (effectively raises the lady's rate without my agreement), withhold activities (not arguably YMMV activities), and other limited conduct falls into "bad service."

In short, I expect a lady to have a good attitude, be into the session, entertain me for the time allotted. That's a great session. OK sessions are those that contain "mood killers" as set out above.

Bad service: anything that costs me time and money beyond what I had planned.

Nope.
Never had an angry wife call. But have had a wife contact me and ask me to teach her how to be like me. (honest to god).
She told her husband to go hobby because she didn't want to tend to his needs. And then she read letters her wrote me. (after only 1 date).
She didn't realize what he was in *need of* since she's refused him for so long and she wanted me to teach her how to be like me so she be the woman her husband desired.

I didn't encourage his letters of affections. I only saw him once. I can't help that I'm the woman I am and that I adore men my way. However, I'm no therapist and the two of them needed to seek counseling to bring their relationship to where they need it to be.
Otherwise, her *literally* pushing her husband to hobby and get is needs met by other women, would only continue to her hurt her as a woman.


Had he of closed out his browser/cleared out his cache'. She never would of contacted me.
If one hobbies, they're responsible for any consequences that come about because of their lack of securing their hobby accounts.

I was just discussing this with a gentleman about why my number is restricted when I call clients back.


Some time ago, apparently a man's wife found my number on his cell ( and another girl's number) and started calling and calling and calling. I mean at least 40 times. I answered the phone and tried to be polite about it, but she called me all the foulest names in the book and it was like, lady, why don't you go yell at your husband?!

She would not stop bothering me and finally I said, " You know, I can see why your husband wanted to see escorts. If you would just shut up and suck his dick more often, that might be the solution to his infidelity. "

She stopped calling. Originally Posted by alluringava

But have had a wife contact me and ask me to teach her how to be like me. (honest to god). Originally Posted by Wicked Milf

You mean you didn't offer to teach her at your regular rate? And then notch it up and do them at a couples rate?

If she were truly interested, that's an opportunity.

I think your response was in no way more mature than the wife`s reaction. What you did was cruel and very very coldhearted. Sorry to say...There is much more to it...
And we - the professionals - need to be more sympathetic to ourselves, the sociological function our profession has (which is to support marriages ) and the needs we entertain.

Granted, if your clients were not married no one of us would make a lot of money. So - this fact alone should make us a little more respectful or wise in how to treat such agendas.

Nina Sastri Originally Posted by ninasastri

In it's entirity, this is an incredibily mature, caring, and classy response to what must be a nightmare scenario for all involved. Nina has set the bar for professional behavior in this response!

In it's entirity, this is an incredibily mature, caring, and classy response to what must be a nightmare scenario for all involved. Nina has set the bar for professional behavior in this response! Originally Posted by Bigh1955

Yup. That's nina!

I had a soon to be ex-wife send me an email (I rarely use the phone) detailing my clients domestic violence charges against her. She then proceeded to ask me in the email what my thoughts were about the charges.
I never returned the email, just ignored it. I have not heard from that client since then. I assume she was not for sure who I was, maybe she thought I was his new girlfriend or something. It was just weird. I would never contact him to ask him about it either because she obviously had access to his email in order to get my address. Nothing is ever discussed in our emails that would disclose anything other than a meeting time. That or she found his P411 account.
Either way it was just weird

This has happened to me before. Some woman said she found my number on her husband's cell phone bill. I told her I had no CLUE who her husband was and unless he was a gay female I had most certainly NOT been calling him. About a month ago some chick went to my website and emailed me asking me why her husband has my email address in his phone. I simply replied " i think this question would be better addressed to your husband.".

In it's entirity, this is an incredibily mature, caring, and classy response to what must be a nightmare scenario for all involved. Nina has set the bar for professional behavior in this response! Originally Posted by Bigh1955

Thank you, except once again, the cruel and irresponsible part of my post I want to take back, because I have been unfair and insulting to Ava`s situation, which I did not consider carefully enough.

In general, though, I do see that providers are there to save marriages and help maintain them. This part of the post I still stick to, as a general point of discussion.

She was not seeking advice about hobbying. She wanted me to teach her to be a passionate lover. To teach her how to be like me (her words).
Because since she told her husband to go hobby and she then read the letters of affection he sent me after our (one & only date), expressing how I made him feel as a man, how what he enjoyed, he's missed for a long time in his relationship. so on and so forth...
She read (his words) and it hit home that her husband was missing out on a lot because she simply refused intimacy, cuddling, sex etc.

I think deep down it hurt her to read his words in the emails to me, about how he finally got/enjoyed what's been missing in his life (passion) more than anything.


It's not my place to counsel wives/GF on their relationship. They make a conscience choice to withhold, intimacy, sex, passion from their spouse. And if they push their spouse to hobby and then get hurt in the end. Well, they only themselves to blame.
Looking to the *woman in the hobby* for advice, simply is not something I agree with nor would encourage.
Nor would I *play* with a couple that's so disconnected from each other.

You mean you didn't offer to teach her at your regular rate? And then notch it up and do them at a couples rate?

If she were truly interested, that's an opportunity. Originally Posted by charlestudor2005

I find that intrestimg wicked milf.. that she wanted you to teach her your ways to woo..sometimes I think it is not the sex so much as attraction of somthing wicked.