Posts like these are why I like Switter . . . such a friendlier place. Reading this post was so disheartening . Her body, her choice. Your wallet, your choice. A provider is not at all entitled to give any bare service just because she is in "the business". Her business is of her own making & I fully understand why she chooses to remain safe. The comments on black women . . . I feel for her even more. Being an ebony provider in the South it is a bit daunting at times. Many view us as "ghetto, loud, etc" before meeting at all solely based on complexion. I have had a few instances where I tell the potential client my donations & they feel as though I am asking for entirely too much being that I am , "just a black girl". We are so much more than that & I thank the clientele that I have who believe so as well. To be honest I have met other races who are far more "ghetto" than I EVER could be Lol... Originally Posted by LoveXO.Tara+1... Well Said
I’m currently running a discount for Eccie members who Prebook , in hopes of getting reviews here.how'd you know he has a bar leaking penis if you didn't see him? age? weight?
I had a guy in the Gainesville, FL area message me a few months ago saying how he’d love to see me but I don’t offer BBBJs which is “integral” to his “experience.” I explained to him , the irrelency of his message. As there’s no point in telling me the reason why you won’t see me. I could care less. I even explained why I don’t offer this service and he thanked me for giving him an understanding and apologized.
Fast forward to a few minutes ago. He decided to message me AGAIN and remind me of our previous messages. Claiming I’m so beautiful and sweet . THEN, verbatim...
“I have never asked for a discount from a provider because I never want to insult her. Being that a CBJ doesn’t do anything for me and a bbbj is an integral part of my play. Would you be willing to further discount your rates and I would write a review? I hope I didn’t insult you but with CBJ, I’d be having half of the fun.”
Not only are you asking me again to do a service I wholeheartedly will never offer. You decide to offer me LESS money on top of the discount I’m already offering.
Gentleman please... There’s so many ladies in this industry. Why try and push the envelope to see someone who doesn’t offer what you like? If we don’t offer something or even explain why we’re uncomfortable with offering it, don’t try and buy our discomfort! This was a level of disrespect that I can’t even grasp the reasoning. This is not OK any level, at all. It’s disgusting, selfish and rude.
Is it possible to block this guy? I “ignored user” but is that the only option? I wish to have no further contact wth this guy. I am truly disgusted.
No amount of money will ever make me jeopardize my comfort , safety or health. Placing bare leaking penis in my mouth is not something I’m interested in doing for any amount of money. Originally Posted by sashabenjamin