SD2011, What if the girl's pimp was a female (Madam)?I think I just found my Halloween costume. Love it!
Would that change your perspective?
Originally Posted by brownsugarbaby
I don't think salvation? was mentioned. I said (for me) that I think if a providers boyfriend/husband/whatever knows she's a provider, takes her money, and has no intention of being able to support her life in such a way that she doesn't need to be a provider then he really doesn't give a shit about her. He's essentially a pimp in sheep's clothing. Some gals fall for that type of guy BS "you're my gal, but go work a few hours and make some money" stuff, some don't.I'm a provider and this exactly how I feel. Reason why I won't get into a relationship till I'm done with this step in my life
Like I said, to each their own...that's just how I would feel/think if I were in a "real" long term life relationship with a provider. I would want to give her a life where being a provider wasn't necessary anymore. That's all. Originally Posted by SD2011
Personally, I would have a hard time respecting a guy who is ok with other guys laying even one finger on me. Call me old fashion. I also could not have a personal love interest and continue being intimate with other men. For me, the two do not mix at all. Originally Posted by thathottnurseI agree 100%
If my SO wanted to be a teacher, I'd support her.Are you serious?
If she wanted to be a doctor, I'd support her.
If she wanted to work at the Salvation Army, I'd support her.
If she wanted to be a Provider, I'd support her.
If she wanted to be a politician or lawyer...hmmmmm.
Seriously...if she's happy doing what she wants that's what matters. Originally Posted by Prolongus
Are you serious?I agree...it totally makes no sense when you're in love with someone to say that it's fine, go out...do it, bring home the bacon.
I really can't fathom a man feeling 100% dignified in having his wife's groceries available to everyone and anyone unless the husband is a whore himself. Just my .02. (But I may be getting a little OT here).
I can see him having 50% approval, maybe 70%...
But 100% satisfaction knowing that your wife's groceries aren't yours? Damn, you are one good cuckhold!
Prolongs, do you want to get married baby? Lol Originally Posted by brownsugarbaby
I agree...it totally makes no sense when you're in love with someone to say that it's fine, go out...do it, bring home the bacon.Amen! I can't imagine any decent guy being ok with his SO being a provider. Its a lady's decision if that is the kind of risk she is willing to take but if I were her man I'd be goddamned if I'm okay with accepting a risk she chooses to partake in. NO SIR. That's where the line would be strong and long. If she chose to be a d**g dealer would that be ok too?? Both can make u a lot of money fast but you can also land your a$$ in the pokey or worse with one bad move. Its a very risky lifestyle and any man that is okay with his SO doing it needs to go see a doctor and get his balls reattached right after he retains a lawyer to sue the sh*t out of the retard who conditioned him to think that way! Good grief!
If I took on a provider for a LTR and more, there would be zero reason for her to still be a provider...and I certainly wouldn't want that.
Strange as hell dudes here... I really don't believe it. Originally Posted by SD2011
I agree...it totally makes no sense when you're in love with someone to say that it's fine, go out...do it, bring home the bacon.Amen. I have had my eye on someone and I'm slowly but surely moving out and under the radar. A hooker never retires after all. She still puts on the red light but that's only for one special person .
If I took on a provider for a LTR and more, there would be zero reason for her to still be a provider...and I certainly wouldn't want that.
Strange as hell dudes here... I really don't believe it. Originally Posted by SD2011
Amen. I have had my eye on someone and I'm slowly but surely moving out and under the radar. A hooker never retires after all. She still puts on the red light but that's only for one special person .It's a nice sentiment. I can only imagine the potential fear/pressure of changing into a dedicated "relationship" for a provider and for me, I certainly wouldn't or couldn't hold the past profession against her. I guess that would be the challenge for both (shifting to a non-hobby life).
It's just weird when a guy comes up to you and asks "So, you live nice! What do you do for a living?".
The "stripper", "waitress", and "college student" have been long overplayed. (But I actually am a college student though - hah!). Originally Posted by brownsugarbaby
It's a nice sentiment. I can only imagine the potential fear/pressure of changing into a dedicated "relationship" for a provider and for me, I certainly wouldn't or couldn't hold the past profession against her. I guess that would be the challenge for both (shifting to a non-hobby life).Yeah, I have hurt a man in my past by hiding what I did. Once he found out about it, I was expecting him to reach out in rage and anger and even put his hands on me. Instead, he stood still, got quiet, stopped breathing, and began to cry his soul out.
You guys give a lot more of yourself than just a "session".
Thanks from one (sometimes dumb) hobbyist. I appreciate you all. Originally Posted by SD2011