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And you don't think they would need proof of a job? I can certainly start calling around and trying. But someone else asked if he would co sign and I don't think he wants to. He's very protective of his credit rating and wouldn't want to risk it. Although I was in an apartment when he met me, and I was always a month or two ahead on the rent. And he convinced me to leave it and move in with him. But I'm a big girl, it was ultimately my decision. But I just really want my own apartment again! And many of them check your tax returns and credit history now. I have nada in the way of financial records.
And by the way, I appreciate the kind and supportive words about our breakup, and really 14-15 months is longer than many relationships I've had before. The hobby and my profession had nothing to do with why it didn't work. I really was relatively inexperienced, (still am I guess), because I had only been working a year, and I always worked alone, I never had anyone to show me the ropes or tell me easier ways of screening or doing anything. I just kind of figured the job out by trial and error and gut instinct. And reading lots of ECCIE and learning from the smart ladies here.
As for the poster who said when he got feelings for a provider he thought about how many clients she did that week and then read her raunchy reviews; I've always stayed a little UTR and kept pretty much a low profile on this site, I'm not much for posting; (except right now I guess!); and extremely low volume. I would see an average of 3 clients a week, and before he met me, he would see that many providers a week sometimes. Not always, but I never judged him and he never judged me. And he thought the reviews were sexy. One of our favorite things to do was to go to a SC and get a private dance from a girl in the VIP room. We were thinking of going to the LIDO in Dallas before we broke up. We had also planned to visit a provider together, but we never got around to it. So we were actually pretty compatible. I told him from the beginning he could never throw my profession up to me, even when we were arguing, and he never did.
But anyway, he still doesn't want to sign the lease! Originally Posted by GingerKatt
You don't need it if you secure your lease with three months rent +deposit. It protects them from eviction time and damage costs. I got into a highrise downtown with that. Trust me. Its enough.
