I think you hit the nail on the head. For most providers, it is just a job. They might enjoy the sex a little but not enough to consider it entertainment for themselves. If it were, you might get more takers. It is much more reasonable to go to the DR for an adult vacation. You could enjoy the beach and the food and you might have your choice of providers if you were so inclined. That is much cheaper than your proposal and just as described here, the ladies are working. Now the lady from Arkansas came close to what you really want. She asked $500 more. However, don't expect her to just rip her clothes off because you ask. For that price you might get two shots on goal and the entertainment she went for, might cost you much much more.
Originally Posted by heinz5710
You know, it chaps my ass when guys talk like this. You sound like the kind of guy that has a good time with a lady then asks her for her real name.
The highlighted areas show the flaw in your thinking.
* While this IS a job, it's not JUST a job because we expect to get paid for spending time with a guy that's not our SO, who should be the only one that expects that kind of privilege with a woman.
UNDERSTAND WHY YOU PAY COMPANIONS! You pay us to be in intimate situations and not being your SO. For not being your first choice. Your SO benefits (that may be emotionally and/or financially) from your commitment to her. You pay because we don't have that level of security.
* Just like YOU want to feel that someone genuinely enjoys your company, we need you to respect that this is our job. What you show with this frame of mind is that you value your money over her comfort. If you don't have it to give, I understand. Go on vacation by yourself or with a civvie. There's nothing wrong with being good friends and sharing great experiences within the confines of our business relationship. But not if you don't respect it.
* Make a woman comfortable, and have a good time. There's nothing like a happy woman that gets what she asks for. You should expect a no holds barred experience. No wondering how many times she's going to sleep with you, wondering if she's got ads up while she's in town, or if she's meeting some other guy when she says she needs 'me time' and jumps in a taxi.
* Shortchange a companion because you pay for the flight and food, and get shortchanged on the experience. A REAL Companion doesn't want any reason to mutter 'cheap mutherfuccer' under her breath and give you a side eye when you get too handsy in the middle of the night on day three.
* While you may be a great person, understand that nothing obligates us to show you that we like you by giving you a freebie. For some of us, meeting you should be appreciation enough.
Respect your companions. Don't cheat yourself. Raise your expectations.