NHR....You must have a whole lot of free time on your hands for you have complained enough in this thread to last you a month of Sundays....If a woman chances her mind or does not show she could have plenty of reasons such as with family or personal life scenario's....At times be a man and do not have a chip on your shoulders if this happens to you.....
Myself I do not let things get to me at all, women always change their minds or things come up at the last moment....Have a tough skin and just brush it off rather then beat a dead horse into the ground....
- TexasCowboy
- 12-02-2013, 06:24 PM
- NearHauteRed
- 12-02-2013, 06:49 PM
NHR....You must have a whole lot of free time on your hands for you have complained enough in this thread to last you a month of Sundays....If a woman chances her mind or does not show she could have plenty of reasons such as with family or personal life scenario's....At times be a man and do not have a chip on your shoulders if this happens to you.....Yes, and that is what providers are hoping for, instead of holding them accountable for their actions, you just not let it get to you while they take your money, waste your time and you just brush it off instead of letting others know to not waste their time or even worse, have that provider waste their time, then when not if it happens to someone else with the same provider, then they post it, tell that OP that they did the same to you in the past but you have tough skin and let it slide.
Myself I do not let things get to me at all, women always change their minds or things come up at the last moment....Have a tough skin and just brush it off rather then beat a dead horse into the ground.... Originally Posted by TexasCowboy
As I said, multiple times now, and I will say it again, all I tried to do was inform others what happened to me with the providers mentioned. The reason behind it you ask, well, if she changes her mind and has these personal reasons, so be it, we all have them......Then do not have me drive all the way across town and not even answer your phone after I arrive, then text me when I am almost back home that she had a regular client come give her a call last minute and she decided to see him and not give a courtesy cancellation call or text. If you do not understand that, then I do not know how much simpler I could explain it.
The bitching you perceive are the other people in this thread telling me I am FOS and cannot be telling the truth and calling me names, while I personally could care less, I was just trying to inform the other members what happened to me with said providers and to watch out when you schedule with them, I now know that it was foolish of me to try to inform others, even though I have actually seen some guys put the same scenario in the Alerts thread and every one feels sorry for them that they got treated that way, I tell the same story, I get ran under a bus. I am not complaining about the providers, that was done in post #1, what I do not get is the lack of others to say, "I appreciate the info, thanks for posting" who have been the same boat and do not want to be in that boat by avoiding providers who do that kind of stuff and the only way they will know is by posting a thread like this.
- Luke Skywalker
- 12-02-2013, 06:56 PM
To the OP.... This is not how you solve problems with women, principally providers. Complaining in public is not good. It doesn't matter if you say the truth or not. You dealing with the problem in public is bad. Here is why:
1-Guys will think you're a whiner, you go on their "weak" list. They'll pick on you.
2-Girls will think you're a asshole. you go on their DNS list.
Now, You may be not a whiner nor an asshole. That becomes the perception. That's the reality of life, not just ECCIE. That's the nature of human beings.
We all have had experiences like yours. We learned from it, and did not get into complaining in public (I know, you say you're not bitching you're INFORMING, but it doesn't matter, it is how the perception will be).
I'm just trying to give you advice. Don't get defensive, don't answer me. Just THINK about what I'm trying to say.
Happy Hobbying.
Luke
PS: Please use paragraphs. the ENTER key is your friend. Use it often. Your posts are painful to read. You appear to try to make a point. Then please make your point easy to read. LS
1-Guys will think you're a whiner, you go on their "weak" list. They'll pick on you.
2-Girls will think you're a asshole. you go on their DNS list.
Now, You may be not a whiner nor an asshole. That becomes the perception. That's the reality of life, not just ECCIE. That's the nature of human beings.
We all have had experiences like yours. We learned from it, and did not get into complaining in public (I know, you say you're not bitching you're INFORMING, but it doesn't matter, it is how the perception will be).
I'm just trying to give you advice. Don't get defensive, don't answer me. Just THINK about what I'm trying to say.
Happy Hobbying.
Luke
PS: Please use paragraphs. the ENTER key is your friend. Use it often. Your posts are painful to read. You appear to try to make a point. Then please make your point easy to read. LS
- melannie_star
- 12-02-2013, 07:43 PM
OK.. OK...the pic at the bottom was just a joke.. this post has been going on for a week and we have not gotten anywhere..lol.I thought it would lighten things up a bit for a good laugh.
NHR I totally get where you are coming from..sort of.Although I just think you have a different way of approaching things that may come off as being,well, you know.
Now, if we go way way back to the beginning of this thread, you will see where our good buddy Zebra had listed my name as someone he was unable to get in contact with that weekend as well. His response was honest,truthful, and respectable. We both understood things happen. Already Kissed, made up and moved on. So it just tickles me to death as to why we have not been able to get to the root of your problem yet.
This is in no way an attack on you.I know if you wanted all the drama and stress in getting layed you would not be here..lol. That was funny
I am just saying I would love to do you like there is no tomorrow. I may or may not be your type but all in all, if what you are wanting is a good provider to treat you right and do you good, you have to start somewhere.
I love the challenge. Who knows, we might just hit it off.
NHR I totally get where you are coming from..sort of.Although I just think you have a different way of approaching things that may come off as being,well, you know.
Now, if we go way way back to the beginning of this thread, you will see where our good buddy Zebra had listed my name as someone he was unable to get in contact with that weekend as well. His response was honest,truthful, and respectable. We both understood things happen. Already Kissed, made up and moved on. So it just tickles me to death as to why we have not been able to get to the root of your problem yet.
This is in no way an attack on you.I know if you wanted all the drama and stress in getting layed you would not be here..lol. That was funny
I am just saying I would love to do you like there is no tomorrow. I may or may not be your type but all in all, if what you are wanting is a good provider to treat you right and do you good, you have to start somewhere.
I love the challenge. Who knows, we might just hit it off.
- Guest092216
- 12-02-2013, 07:59 PM
I nominate Melanie_Star star as Provider Of The Year. After reading that, all I want for Christmas is a cock so I can have the sublime pleasure of fcuking her too!!
- NearHauteRed
- 12-02-2013, 08:06 PM
OK.. OK...the pic at the bottom was just a joke.. this post has been going on for a week and we have not gotten anywhere..lol.I thought it would lighten things up a bit for a good laugh.You are right, but when zebra listed your name, you responded to him in the thread, the providers I am talking about in post #1, never responded, you know why? I have the proof that I got screwed over and they cannot make up the personal excuse(s) and I even told them I was going to go on Eccie and let the members know. As far as your friend zebra goes, he is one of many that told me I was FOS when he has not clue what is or is not about this thread. I am sure since you posted that, you have had multiple members send you a PM telling you not to see me so then you might not be up for that challenge after all! Appreciate the thought tho.
NHR I totally get where you are coming from..sort of.Although I just think you have a different way of approaching things that may come off as being,well, you know.
Now, if we go way way back to the beginning of this thread, you will see where our good buddy Zebra had listed my name as someone he was unable to get in contact with that weekend as well. His response was honest,truthful, and respectable. We both understood things happen. Already Kissed, made up and moved on. So it just tickles me to death as to why we have not been able to get to the root of your problem yet.
This is in no way an attack on you.I know if you wanted all the drama and stress in getting layed you would not be here..lol. That was funny
I am just saying I would love to do you like there is no tomorrow. I may or may not be your type but all in all, if what you are wanting is a good provider to treat you right and do you good, you have to start somewhere.
- Guest092216
- 12-02-2013, 08:11 PM
You are right, but when zebra listed your name, you responded to him in the thread, the providers I am talking about in post #1, never responded, you know why? I have the proof that I got screwed over and they cannot make up the personal excuse(s) and I even told them I was going to go on Eccie and let the members know. As far as your friend zebra goes, he is one of many that told me I was FOS when he has not clue what is or is not about this thread. I am sure since you posted that, you have had multiple members send you a PM telling you not to see me so then you might not be up for that challenge after all! Originally Posted by NearHauteRed
(i actually took you off ignore with high hopes here)
- DarthDVader
- 12-02-2013, 08:14 PM
- NearHauteRed
- 12-02-2013, 08:20 PM
Did I ever tell you I appreciated your one line apology for calling me out SEVERAL times since day 1 that I have signed up and then you rake me over the coals a few threads down from said apology? what else would you like me to prove to you so I can be back in your good graces, at least for a few minutes before you dump on me again? talk about
(i actually took you off ignore with high hopes here) Originally Posted by thathottnurse
- Guest070818-1
- 12-02-2013, 08:30 PM
Thathotnurse and NearHauteRed, Y'all sure is talking like y'all married or something. This little argument back and forth is cute. ❤️
- Guest092216
- 12-02-2013, 08:40 PM
You're cute BSB. Very very cute! 
And your new avatar made me literally Lol. Nice
Edit: if we were married I'd be the man and he'd be the SO with all the constant bitching and whining. Then I'd be on here looking for strange...so expect a pm...same with you Melanie.
And your new avatar made me literally Lol. Nice
Edit: if we were married I'd be the man and he'd be the SO with all the constant bitching and whining. Then I'd be on here looking for strange...so expect a pm...same with you Melanie.
- Luke Skywalker
- 12-02-2013, 08:44 PM
- Tara Evans
- 12-02-2013, 08:49 PM
Luke your a funny man.
- Guest070818-1
- 12-02-2013, 08:54 PM
You're cute BSB. Very very cute!THN, I promise I'll reply back instantaneously once you click the "Send" Button. I don't want a NCNS or a thread where I may end up being sole the culprit for a failed weekend.
And your new avatar made me literally Lol. Nice
Edit: if we were married I'd be the man and he'd be the SO with all the constant bitching and whining. Then I'd be on here looking for strange...so expect a pm...same with you Melanie.
BSB.... what can I add to your post but ...Had to interject a little bit of humor in here.Originally Posted by lukeskywalker7667
Shit has been getting serious as of late.
- Luke Skywalker
- 12-02-2013, 08:55 PM