Over Nighters, whats your thoughts.

1 of 2 dealbreakers to overnights with me is if the clients snores, lol. Then, yes I will definitely need about at 3-4 hrs of time out (while he's sleeping) so I can actually get some rest and be ready for the next day!

Other than that, I'm all for overnights with the right client. Time out isn't really necessary for as I wouldn't want to be stuck to an overnight obligation with someone that I need a timeout from.

I always get a good chuckle from overnight requests from first time clients...silly Originally Posted by jazmine_rose

if yer client snores, wear ear plugs.

Most hotels won't let you check in until 3pm and rarely are some at noon without being charged for an extra day.

It really just takes some people skills to get an early check-in. I don't think I've EVER had to wait until 3 to get a room, and I've certainly never had to pay for an extra day.

Overniter should be reserved for those with a special connection. Never play at home

It really just takes some people skills to get an early check-in. I don't think I've EVER had to wait until 3 to get a room, and I've certainly never had to pay for an extra day. Originally Posted by Missy Mariposa

I have never had a problem either.. except on a few occassions that there was a HUGE event the day before that left hotel booked solid. Being polite, professional, and flashing (a smile) will get you far....

I always get a good chuckle from overnight requests from first time clients...silly Originally Posted by jazmine_rose

Ok what if this were to occur. Sorta like an overnight tryout.

I book you for 1 hour well in advance. Its late night like 10pm or so. When you arrive I have your 1 hour donation on the nightstand next to another stack of money that is your website overnight rate. I tell you I look forward to our time together tonight (the 1 hour) and I tell you if its good and intriguing I may want to extend my time.

1. Since we haven't met before (but are about too lol) would you tell me at that time you can't take that money this time because my overnight rate is reserved for return sessions? Other than the snoring preference, what clues are gonna key you in that I'm overnight "worthy" for the next meet?

2. Also let's say I book a 1 hour session(same scenario above), but this time I let you know in advance that if the session goes good I would possibly like to extend. However.....after spending an hour with you, although services were ok, I decided I didn't want to extend and wasn't to forthcoming with the reason why......would this upset you in any degree?

Do you think most ladies would go for this option if I told them I wanted a little half hour "sampler" or up to 2 hours (at her advertised rate) to see if she fit my physical criteria. Do you think ladies might be quitely offended if after the sampler I declined the overnight?

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. You spend for a 12 hr or so rate, but paying for one additional lunch (I'm assuming you'd eat one anyway) is a deal breaker?? Ouch.

. Originally Posted by Old-T

Ouch indeed. Let me explain

1.Paying for the additional lunch isn't the issue......so much as the amount of time each dining arrangement would take and shave off of my booked time. Theres travel preparation, conversation, digestion of said food, and taking a break to relieve the "Itis" that occurs after people eat a large meal. Estimating roughly 2.5 hours (twice, since we are doing lunch and dinner) of time would be required to accommodate for just one of those dining experiences. This adds no value to it for me. I consider a dinner date gratuity, not an expectation.

Not everyone I see BCD I will want to be seen with in public for my own reasons of discretion and preference. So seeing a lady at noon or earlier for an overnight won't yield me any extra value rate wise because a large portion of the time (5 hours, more if you want to go out to a movie or a club) used is non-BCD. So I may look at her offered rate differently. Those stipulations will probably place her in a whole different financial bracket for me.

For instance. If I saw two ladies with similar offered features and one lady has an overnight rate of 1400 (with no required dinner date) and one has an overnight rate of 1000 yet she require a night on the town and uninterrupted sleep........Ill take the 1400 lady easily. Sure Id pay more $$$,but my session is more manuverable to my taste and the rate I'm paying seems more of a value "physically" time wise than the lady with the restrictions and significantly lower rate. The lady with the lower rate is actually charging me more for her time and there's less of it due to splurging on dinner, daytime dates, and her prearranged uninterrupted sleep. Boo

I book late times just to avoid this dinner date scenario. 9pm or later.....which will allow her plenty time throughout the day to eat her dinner in piece before showing up for our appointment. Id have her favorite drinks and eateries at my outcall if she needs or gets the munchies, and I still maintain my discretion, and get more value for the time I'm paying for.

if yer client snores, wear ear plugs. Originally Posted by dilbert firestorm

Funny you should mention that. I've actually provided ear plugs because I know I snore.

Ok what if this were to occur. Sorta like an overnight tryout.

I book you for 1 hour well in advance. Its late night like 10pm or so. When you arrive I have your 1 hour donation on the nightstand next to another stack of money that is your website overnight rate. I tell you I look forward to our time together tonight (the 1 hour) and I tell you if its good and intriguing I may want to extend my time.

1. Since we haven't met before (but are about too lol) would you tell me at that time you can't take that money this time because my overnight rate is reserved for return sessions? Other than the snoring preference, what clues are gonna key you in that I'm overnight "worthy" for the next meet?

2. Also let's say I book a 1 hour session(same scenario above), but this time I let you know in advance that if the session goes good I would possibly like to extend. However.....after spending an hour with you, although services were ok, I decided I didn't want to extend and wasn't to forthcoming with the reason why......would this upset you in any degree?

Do you think most ladies would go for this option if I told them I wanted a little half hour "sampler" or up to 2 hours (at her advertised rate) to see if she fit my physical criteria. Do you think ladies might be quitely offended if after the sampler I declined the overnight?

I personally would not be offended. While I've done overnights with people I haven't seen before (with no sampler) with great success, I think if the CLIENT is unsure a sampler should be an option.

I actually recently had a 6 hour visit where the client asked (in advance) if I could bring my "overnight things" just in case. It ended up being an overnight. I think if you're unsure about the whole night, a short visit for chemistry reasons would be a great idea.

That being said, I drive a bloody hour to Nashville so I wouldn't personally want to do a half hour. Probably 1.5 or 2 hours would be more in line. That way, even if you didn't want to spend the whole night with me we could have a fun roll in the hay before I drove home. And hell, maybe that would win you over

Just don't molest me all night long, or I'll have to put a land mine between the two of us That's all I ask. I need my beauty sleep.

I understand that it's usually best to have seen or meet up with someone first to see if you click for overnights. But on the flip side, I have had some pretty good time with some ladies on overnights that I have never met or really talked to. Hell one of em thought and called me an asshole for a while, but still decided to see me.

Just don't molest me all night long, or I'll have to put a land mine between the two of us That's all I ask. I need my beauty sleep. Originally Posted by alluringava

Awwwww.....I like sleeping with a titty in my hand when cuddling. Your taking away some of the best parts lol.

One thing I do notice though. Rarely if ever on any of the overnights I had did the lady wake me up to some head, fondling or anything. Just once out of several I think. Maybe they were exhausted, or just hoping to goodness I'm sleep. Lol

I've personally never had an overnight before, but I have to agree with several people about knowing the other person before scheduling that much time together. You never know what kind of chemistry you will have together until you have a little play time first. My ideal overnight would be with a previous client that I click with, dinner date, maybe go somewhere, lots of "in" play time, sleep, breakfast, and more playing!!

Free Dinner-
Fuckfest after fuckfest after fuckfest-
Taking my sweet ass time to enjoy hours of spectacular cunnilingus-
Cuddling-
Lots and Lots of extreme spooning-
Erection poking your back in the morning-
Naked Breakfast (endless bacon???)-
Another Orgasm? Heck, why not?-

There are hardly any downsides to Overnights when the right two people get together. I agree with everyone it's better to get to know the person before spending the whole evening with them rather than just picking someone you have yet to meet.

Damn Skylar you sound demanding. You want cunnilingus, cuddling, and spooning ... plus an orgasm? I don't thinck many here can supply any of those.

I like sleeping with a titty in my hand when cuddling

That's my favourite part of sleeping with a woman too. And of being slept with. I am single, so I sleep alone and sometimes that can be quite nice!

I think most of us honestly are just tired by the end of the session and want to sleep :P It's not a you thing, or even a "client" or "guy" thing. You fuck, you come, you're exhausted, you don't wanna wake up and go down on someone

"you don't wanna wake up and go down on someone "

Now that is one of the best things about an overnight, getting a good morning BBBJ