Yes...Ask jfred for tips. Apparently what the providers are posting, means nada. He knows what we like LOL
Originally Posted by TheOriginalDannie
I do believe that I know what women like. I know you weren't impressed but that wasn't a great day for me, and there was all that driving..
In fact I'm right with you on your analysis. Like my friend and fellow coffee-lover, Dannie, (who I know is just spoofing with me) I know the difference between sexually induced vaginal secretions and urine.
[2 hours pass...tick, tock...]
The nice lady who just left arrived here with food and cigarettes and left with wobbly knees. If you asked her how many times she came I'm certain she wouldn't know. These are just words to you but I'm the guy who watched her have all those orgasms -- I played her like a vintage Les Paul.
The clit is marvelous. As far as I know the only
single-purpose sex organ to be found. But if all I'd done was manipulate her clit, no matter how adroit my technique, she'd have been pretty pissed.
Especially after the funky things she did for me
Look, if you only have 60 minutes, or are getting naked with a gal you've just let into your hotel room, by all means be gentle (as Dannie described) and focus on her clitoris if you want her to have a chance of orgasm. That's all you have time for.
Despite the nature of this forum there is a wide range of sexual understanding here -- some guys are reading this thread and just learning that women have "little penises."
I'm advocating something more holistic, recognizing that what we all consider the primary sex organs (you know them) are input channels, among quite a few. For a woman (or man) who is readily orgasmic the right inputs on one or two channels will usually do the trick (with a minimum of candles). And, really, anyone can do it with a little observant practice.
A much finer, fuller sexual experience, I believe (and some dynamite orgasms) awaits those who give attention to the entire sexual apparatus, which culminates in the brain, where orgasms occur.
Dannie and I aren't really in disagreement, we just took different approaches to the same question. Gentlemen, please be smart enough (if her satisfaction is important to yours) to listen closely to what the lady says about her body (including body language and clues such as groans, sighs, laughter or yelps of pain). And choose well -- some gals won't really cum with you in a million years and are poor actors. Pick women who are doing this because, among other reasons, they like sex.
I think that's it.