Well, I'll be damned!!
He called you a WHAT! And it's probably one of those that love to hoot and holler about it being her choice and shit when they come back on this board. You see, as long as they have the upper hand and get favorable treatment, the rest of the world doesn't mean shit to them. They throw away what many others would eat, because they're allowed the privilege of doing so.
Well, sorry you had to go through that, even though you're ummm, well, you know. This is me speaking, but, given you what you know now, I'd be little careful about what bridges you set on fire. You might need that MF'er sooner than you think, and it could be hard to get back across without it.
Funny how the worst of what the black guys have to offer fucks it up for all of us, yet the worst of what they have to offer doesn't do a scratch of damage for them.
Originally Posted by Rambro Creed
I don't burn bridges. Just because I refuse to fuck you for 30 minutes while you throw money at me doesn't mean shit. If you're that upset because I don't sleep with black men, then it becomes a YOU problem.
I'm terribly sorry, I can assure you that's not how most men in Dallas would treat you. That's embarrassing being a male here and have people saying that kind of stuff...just wrong. You're a very pretty, obviously smart, LADY.
Originally Posted by EasyLover214
Oh I LOVE Dallas. I mainly come down here to book modeling jobs with glamour photographers but provide service while I'm here. Sort of like doubling my money. I only had one guy in my life call me that, I actually laughed at him more than getting upset. I thought it was funny that he was that stupid.
MaryBeth, I'm sorry that this happened to you. I can't imagine how painful that might be. But if I might ask, why would you let the color of a person's skin dictate either who you date or who you see in the hobby? Because, yes, as I see it, you are certainly implying the inferiority of, or at least a showing prejudice against, black customers. At least I can understand white racism and prejudice (yes, they mean different things) being borne out of ignorance (though in most instances I think it's malicious). But you have forgotten more about bigotry than most of us white folks will ever know because of your life experiences. That is just baffling beyond belief to me.
Originally Posted by TexTushHog
PM me and I'll tell you the reasoning behind my decision. I'm not putting my life's story on the board.
I'm speechless but I'm not surprised, either. I go for morning walks and occasionally some idiot will yell the "N" word at me out the window as he is driving by. I hope you come back to the family now.
Originally Posted by Bert Jones
I've been in the family. My entire family (besides a few that's married in) are considered black. I'm not going to sleep with any of them, though.
I fail to see the point you were trying to make...So you've been, at the very least verbally abused by at least one white client, probably more..and you didn't ban anyone who happened to share that persons race?
I'm guessing the reason for your refusal to see black clients has to do with some previous transgression a black client/person made in the past. Yet in that case you felt the need to ban anyone who happened to share his ethnicity and didn't grant any black client thereafter the same clemency you obvious grant to your white clients.You asked are you racist...probably not, not completely anyway ... but if you aren't pimped or being coerced or manipulated in some way, your post makes you sound and look incredibly ignorant and yes, slightly prejudice against your own race. I would venture to say it's probably the former, not the latter.
Originally Posted by tywill
Maybe I am ignorant, or maybe you're just crying about not being able to pay anyone for sex.
I told someone else to PM for further explanation, but honestly I'm just going to let you continue to whine and bitch about it. Call me ignorant, racist, prejudice. I get more hate from the so-called "black family" than I do from any other race. You know all those stereotypes you here about black people that piss you off? Yeah, most of that crap is real yet us black folk want to blame everyone else for our problems.
You want shit to change, then go make a change. Crying to me or any other provider that refuses to see you will only make things worse for you.