Providers who "hate" behind the scenes

I am secure and very confident so I have never seen the need to be catty. Being one of the few that prefers to build real bonds of friendships I understand what this thread is all about. It goes far beyond the hobby into the civvie life. We all have had friends who swore they would give us clothes off their back just to get what they want from you only to turn around and stab you in the back. This is why I have a lot of associates and very few friends. Life is too short not to have a lot of fun Originally Posted by JasmineCummings

I agree, Jasmine. The only difference in the hobby and civie worlds are the exchange of money for...time. But when you said you were secure and confident, you forgot to mention sexy...

Men do have a brotherhood amongst themselves however that women never will. Most women are simply catty, backstabbing, and just jealous in every day life, not even just because of being providers. Men can duke it out and have a fistfight over something, and then shake hands and remain friends. But women...they could never do that. And the fraternity that exists among men in that sense to me is enviable. It's why men always made better friends ( for me anyways) than women. Originally Posted by alluringava

Yes, we can. But most don't. That's the stuff that old westerns are made of. It's always been my experience that women are more emotionally intelligent with regards to relationships than gents. To say that "women could never do that" is erroneous. Forgiveness is no respecter of gender.

So... What you're saying is that I am one of the SEXIEST Providers you know (well, not YET exactly), right...?

Originally Posted by Lovelyelle_01

You took my penis out of my pan.... I mean you took the words right out of my mouth! LOL

Wasn't it Forest Gump that said... "Sexy is as Sexy Does!"

Yes, we can. But most don't. That's the stuff that old westerns are made of. It's always been my experience that women are more emotionally intelligent with regards to relationships than gents. To say that "women could never do that" is erroneous. Forgiveness is no respecter of gender. Originally Posted by JDNorthface

In my experience, I have never encountered true sisterhood amongst women. Not at college, not at the gym, and certainly not in the provider world. I've seen men bond over things women never would. And as I said, men at least have the guts to duke it out, but women are far better at backstabbing. Trust me, I have the arrow wounds to prove it. It's one of the reasons to me why the women's movement is so fractured. Even amongst feminists, there's no real sisterhood.

I agree, Jasmine. The only difference in the hobby and civie worlds are the exchange of money for...time. But when you said you were secure and confident, you forgot to mention sexy...

Originally Posted by Lovelyelle_01

I have very few friends in the provider world and very few friends in the civvie world. And I say that when you die, if you can count on one hand the number of true friends you've had in your lifetime, you're a lucky person.

Shutup Ed. LOL You're right now suck my tit. Originally Posted by ZarahAdams

Very mature....that oughta do it........

You took my penis out of my pan.... I mean you took the words right out of my mouth! LOL

Wasn't it Forest Gump that said... "Sexy is as Sexy Does!" Originally Posted by Still Looking

I thought that was "Horny is as Horny Does"... But I could be wrong, lol...

:hug love: Looking forward to seeing you soon ..

That is why I Love you jasmine! You are one lady in this business I can say that about with confidence!!!! Originally Posted by ZarahAdams

Thank you very much for the compliment and yes you are right its one difference but many similarities between the hobby & civvies life....

I agree, Jasmine. The only difference in the hobby and civie worlds are the exchange of money for...time. But when you said you were secure and confident, you forgot to mention sexy...

Originally Posted by Lovelyelle_01

You definitely got that right.

I MUST disagree with this. I don't have a lot of real friends. But, the ones that I DO have, we don't ALWAYS see eye to eye. We have a lot in common and generally share the same values. But, we are different people from different backgrounds who, at times, have different views. We don't agree on everything, and depending on what the subject is we are discussing, sometimes things can get pretty heated. Who says two woman friends can't have a heated discussion/debate/argument and actually GET OVER IT??? At the end of the day, we love, respect, and cherish one another as what we are, TRUE FRIENDS. We understand that we won't always be on the same page. We understand that we are friends above everything else. In my experience, the only women who can't have other women as REAL FRIENDS are the ones who are catty themselves, whether it be in your face catty or behind your back catty.

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Quality beats quantity every time. Real friends are hard to come by....

I have very few friends in the provider world and very few friends in the civvie world. And I say that when you die, if you can count on one hand the number of true friends you've had in your lifetime, you're a lucky person. Originally Posted by alluringava

I thought that was "Horny is as Horny Does"... But I could be wrong, lol...

Originally Posted by Lovelyelle_01

I think that was Pee Wee Herman LOL

I think that was Pee Wee Herman LOL Originally Posted by Still Looking

Straight men cant be friends. EVER!!! Originally Posted by TamsenCrown

Not true. I've been just friends with some very attractive women
before. But some of them really wondered why I wasn't trying
to get in their pants, and started to think something might be
wrong with them, or that I was secretly gay. Talk about a
catch 22. The fact that I never talked about sports didn't help.

I worked at a place several years ago where there was a lot
of competition that went on, and the gossip and backstabbing
that took place was very equal amongst both the males and
females, but we were all together under an equal dynamic.

I have found that a lot of Providers who have been around for awhile claim to be settled in the business with no worries and a regular flow of clientele. My question is, if they are so "SETTLED" and content with their business, why do some (not ALL) feel the need to use distasteful tactics to block other Providers? One example of this is blatantly encouraging other Providers NOT TO provide someone with reference information. Gentlemen, if you knew a lady operated in this way, would it influence your decision to spend time with her?

Originally Posted by Lovelyelle_01

Simply stated, when YOU log onto any hobby board, YOU are a BUSINESS competing against another BUSINESS....

sixx

Simply stated, when YOU log onto any hobby board, YOU are a BUSINESS competing against another BUSINESS....

sixx Originally Posted by sixxbach

When are those top ten tryouts? LOL!

Originally Posted by Lovelyelle_01

I like how you do business! "Sigh" Heavy breathing, panting....

I am always forthcoming and prompt in giving references. But once I was late in replying because a client used an old email address. I would not be quick to judge anyone.

Ann
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