Is ECCIE the new backpage?!

Makayla of Missouri's Avatar
Kori! How have you been?? Yes, I agree you are a true professional in every sense of the word... and a tall drink of water!!

I know a lot of people, but don't associate with many of them because of the shadyness of the whole situation. I guess it's just getting harder to find true, quality providers in Springfield.

Glad to hear from ya, Kori. It's been a long time!
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+1.
MrHappy4u's Avatar
. . . My thought: how do we as providers react when we know bp riffraff are trying to infiltrate our wonderful little community here? I can't even recall the number of providers who have asked me for help. We all know the gentlemen can (should they choose to do so) do a lot of research and find the perfect experience for himself, but we as providers here have vowed, more or less, to help other providers stay safe and to provide/receive references. Am I therefore obligated to help a questionable provider? It seems several of the ladies I extend the olive branch to end up on here with no one the wiser as to their personal antics. I have yet to meet IN PERSON save 1 provider who doesn't have management or use hard dope (usually both at the same time)... Where do I draw the line and not feel bad for doing so? . . . Originally Posted by Makayla of Missouri
. . . But i completely agree. I used to give info & help but after doing so and learning who the people actually are... I quit because I didn't want people to think I could be classified in the same category as them. Which is not a good look.
. . . . Now, I just prefer to keep to myself. Less drama & worries that way Originally Posted by SweetKori

To be a true community, we do have to help each other, clients and providers alike. If you offer the "olive branch", as you say and reach out and try to help, in my opinion, that's the right thing to do. Don't give up and that goes for providers and hobbyiest, alike.

Do you get rewarded sometimes with a kick in the butt? Yep. That just confirms what I learned when I was young and idealistic, thinking I could help everyone. In order to help someone, they first must want the help.
Makayla of Missouri's Avatar
To be a true community, we do have to help each other, clients and providers alike. If you offer the "olive branch", as you say and reach out and try to help, in my opinion, that's the right thing to do. Don't give up and that goes for providers and hobbyiest, alike.

Do you get rewarded sometimes with a kick in the butt? Yep. That just confirms what I learned when I was young and idealistic, thinking I could help everyone. In order to help someone, they first must want the help. Originally Posted by MrHappy4u

Yes, they must want the help, but once I show them how to maximize eccie, p411, ter, whatever... it seems I'm thrown to the side and they can be downright rude and mean once they get what they want from me. I'm a bit disillusioned because I have yet to meet another provider who asked for help and became a real ally in all this. I swear, everyone I helped get started took off and ruined what I gave them, as well as burning their bridge behind them. I don't want to give a reference for rude and mean providers.

One provider I helped become established won't answer my calls and has a big 'to-do' about many recent ncns by her. Now my name is associated with that. Another started doing dope. Another shacked up w a pimp and started using dope, and has negative reviews. They are ALL on eccie! This goes on and on for me. Where do I draw the line? I can't waste my time anymore and I won't know who is for real and who is just using me until its all said and done.

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Kori! How have you been?? Yes, I agree you are a true professional in every sense of the word... and a tall drink of water!!

I know a lot of people, but don't associate with many of them because of the shadyness of the whole situation. I guess it's just getting harder to find true, quality providers in Springfield.

Glad to hear from ya, Kori. It's been a long time! Originally Posted by Makayla of Missouri
Oh, I've been good! Just keepin' busy with life!
It has been a long time! That's why I had to speak up and give you a friendly reminder that I'M here...! lol


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