Has things got this desperate?

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One thing about this thread that gets me, guys tell you why they deal with women with low rates, and some ladies here want to debate over it, there is no debate, sometime you really should take what guys say at face value and leave it at that.

Some guys just want to get their dick sucked for 15 minutes and gone, they're not trying to pop for a hotel room, or want to spend a lot of time, they don't want conversation, don't want a fancy anything,, you just need to be clean. that's why the low end girls will never go away, they serve that niche, their reason why is theirs alone, if it's not for you then don't do it, if it makes you feel better to talk shit about them then maybe you're the one with the problem.

Did you see the Wolf of wall street where DiCaprio playing Jordin Belfort say they fucked all escorts from the high end to the low end, they didn't give a fuck, they use whatever filled their needs were at the moment, that's how guys do ladies. ( he did say low end mean you may be more of a possibility you need to get a shot afterwards)

And Ladies all these guys saying they will only do a escort of a certain level, let a fine, banging body, well built young 21 y.o. lady new to the game offer to suck them off for $50-$100, they do it. they'll just won't tell you, got to keep up that image you know, more to stroke your ego than anything else.
One thing about this thread that gets me, guys tell you why they deal with women with low rates, and some ladies here want to debate over it, there is no debate, sometime you really should take what guys say at face value and leave it at that.

Some guys just want to get their dick sucked for 15 minutes and gone, they're not trying to pop for a hotel room, or want to spend a lot of time, they don't want conversation, don't want a fancy anything,, you just need to be clean. that's why the low end girls will never go away, they serve that niche, their reason why is theirs alone, if it's not for you then don't do it, if it makes you feel better to talk shit about them then maybe you're the one with the problem.

Did you see the Wolf of wall street where DiCaprio playing Jordin Belfort say they fucked all escorts from the high end to the low end, they didn't give a fuck, they use whatever filled their needs were at the moment, that's how guys do ladies. ( he did say low end mean you may be more of a possibility you need to get a shot afterwards)

And Ladies all these guys saying they will only do a escort of a certain level, let a fine, banging body, well built young 21 y.o. lady new to the game offer to suck them off for $50-$100, they do it. they'll just won't tell you, got to keep up that image you know, more to stroke your ego than anything else. Originally Posted by dreamvacationdates
I personally see no debate over it, as it is what it is. Selling ass is selling ass whether you suck a dick for 50 bucks or a benz like Tila Tequila suggests. What get's me about this thread is the hammering into our heads of why gents see ladies at lower rates - we get it. Its no secret. But I feel it necessary to tell BOTH sides, and why gents who see ladies at normal to high rates see the girls they do. Hell, I wouldn't believe it for a second if a lady charging $$$ wouldn't see a guy when rents due at $$.
I could be wrong, but

dreamvacationdates's Avatar
I personally see no debate over it, as it is what it is. Selling ass is selling ass whether you suck a dick for 50 bucks or a benz like Tila Tequila suggests. What get's me about this thread is the hammering into our heads of why gents see ladies at lower rates - we get it. Its no secret. But I feel it necessary to tell BOTH sides, and why gents who see ladies at normal to high rates see the girls they do. Hell, I wouldn't believe it for a second if a lady charging $$$ wouldn't see a guy when rents due at $$.
I could be wrong, but

Originally Posted by Eva Damita
The only reason it keeps getting hammered into your heads is because you're not listening the first time it was told to you, that selective listening is a mother.
The only reason it keeps getting hammered into your heads is because you're not listening the first time it was told to you, that selective listening is a mother. Originally Posted by dreamvacationdates
Nope - it's quite crystal to me, especially when read . I def don't have selective reading.
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Nope - it's quite crystal to me, especially when read . I def don't have selective reading. Originally Posted by Eva Damita
More like selected comprehension.
Sure, have the final word. All I'm saying is I see and acknowledge both reasonings, why is that difficult for you to swallow? No need to be rude or facetious dude with back and forth bantering of you telling me what I do or don't comprehend LOL. Its not that serious ... here, last words on You, go ahead and let your nuts drop : _______________
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Sure, have the final word. All I'm saying is I see and acknowledge both reasonings, why is that difficult for you to swallow? No need to be rude or facetious dude with back and forth bantering of you telling me what I do or don't comprehend LOL. Its not that serious ... here, last words on You, go ahead and let your nuts drop : _______________ Originally Posted by Eva Damita
In case you didn't know, the internets is serious business.

(joking obviously)
In case you didn't know, the internets is serious business.

(joking obviously) Originally Posted by zx10
Hehe!
Miss Destiny, I certainly wasn't "judging"... we're all selling ass.

He told me why he likes $40-50 rates, I Simply stated why some guys choose not to go through bunches of ladies because for them, it's a hassle to have sexual contact with a bunch to seek a diamond in the rough. No rate bashing was done, nor judgement where I proclaim clearly HDH are better than SW. It's called preference. The fact you took my observation as "judgemental" is a bit alarming.

And there are plenty women with kids who don't escort as there are countless escorts without children...ijs Originally Posted by Eva Damita

I don't do 50 $ dates.Was trying to point out that there are some good finds on BP its not all crack hoes.A lot of girls try escorting for the first time and post there.lots of them try it for a short time and end up not liking it.Or they get back on there feet and stop doing it.In both cases some have gone UTR and will see a few guys that they liked.I know several girls like this.They are not jaded like some of the ''seasoned pros''

Its all about the thrill of the chase not about being a cheap ass.Remember Hugh Grant the actor.He was worth millions But he got caught with a SW in a back alley.Why?? not because he was cheap he wanted the extra rush of doing something dirty dangerous.
When I first started to hobby, I tried a few discounts. Who hasn't bought a $10 pair of shoes? Most people only buy the ONE pair though. Unless they really have no choice and really NEED shoes and have ONLY $10.

I found that, if the price is the same as a street girl, the service and risks will be as well.

I'd like there to be SOME mutual attraction, so I tend to go w/ in my age and weight classes (though, I do indulge some fantasy time sometimes...)

I'd like there to be some chemistry. Some FUN!

But that is just me and I can afford it.

It sounds like you think you are in competition with those girls. It also sounds like you offer a lot more than they do.

You are likely not chemically challenged. Nor mental. And you are likely clean and pleasant. And run your business right.

How do I know? You have clients willing to pay your rates. And I'm glad for you! You deserve every $$ you can get. And more!

I just feel bad for the lady who finds herself needing to offer $25 to get a call. I can't imagine anything good comes of that for either party.

As suggested before - they need to look at what is keeping their price down - and fix it. Or find another way to put food on the table.
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The problem is too many girls are ready to jump into the business and start charging high rates and give crappy service. 200-300 an hour and don't want to do nothing for the money. I've met plenty if girls with a good solid 100-150 rate and they were awesome. I've met some who charge 300 and was total losers. But the ones I've seen with the cheaper rates I saw multiply times in a week and the rates fell to 60-80. They ended up getting 4 to 5 regulars and stayed with them and were happier.

I got one that does me for 60 no time limit I love it. I only stay maybe 30 tops but it's a great arrangement for me and her. She doesn't have to advertise anymore or worry about LE
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I hate this threAD, it's HAVE not has things.
When I first started to hobby, I tried a few discounts. Who hasn't bought a $10 pair of shoes? Most people only buy the ONE pair though. Unless they really have no choice and really NEED shoes and have ONLY $10.

I found that, if the price is the same as a street girl, the service and risks will be as well.

I'd like there to be SOME mutual attraction, so I tend to go w/ in my age and weight classes (though, I do indulge some fantasy time sometimes...)

I'd like there to be some chemistry. Some FUN!

But that is just me and I can afford it.

It sounds like you think you are in competition with those girls. It also sounds like you offer a lot more than they do.

You are likely not chemically challenged. Nor mental. And you are likely clean and pleasant. And run your business right.

How do I know? You have clients willing to pay your rates. And I'm glad for you! You deserve every $$ you can get. And more!

I just feel bad for the lady who finds herself needing to offer $25 to get a call. I can't imagine anything good comes of that for either party.

As suggested before - they need to look at what is keeping their price down - and fix it. Or find another way to put food on the table. Originally Posted by gregster
There is no competition in this business unless within the same target Market. I don't desire to attract the same clientele as some and vice versa. I believe as mentioned before.
I hate this threAD, it's HAVE not has things. Originally Posted by notanewbie
Has things got this desperate?

Yes they has.
dreamvacationdates's Avatar
Sure, have the final word. All I'm saying is I see and acknowledge both reasonings, why is that difficult for you to swallow? No need to be rude or facetious dude with back and forth bantering of you telling me what I do or don't comprehend LOL. Its not that serious ... here, last words on You, go ahead and let your nuts drop : _______________ Originally Posted by Eva Damita
You know this thread wasn't about both side of the coin, there was no need to acknowledge both sides since only one side was being questioned, talkng about why guys see higher rate ladies doesn't bring anything into the conversation on why guys see lower rate ladies. in fact your writings seemed to be more presuasive on why it would be better to see a higher rate lady.
The guys replying to this thread are not going into why they see both type of ladies, only why they are seeing the lower rate ones.
Yes you did acknowledge both, but your bias is obviously showing,
I know you are a higher rate lady due to your professionalism, beauty and skill set so your bias is natural and understandable.