Married Hobbyists and Providers

No dude (at least not any heterosexual one) would think that having your SO have sex with a lady was somehow a bad thing. Originally Posted by jbravo_123

Whatever you say, Bro:

http://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?t=748096&highlight=

NC/NS: Liliana Vess

So I had scheduled to have an overnight with her last night. We see each other fairly regularly and it's a pretty normal weekly thing we do.

However, when the time she normally comes by rolls around... no one shows up! I send some texts and calls, but they go unanswered.

I know she sometimes posts here on ECCIE, so I log in and do some snooping and find this thread:

http://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?t=747745

Looks like she forgot about our regularly scheduled overnight. Later on in the evening, she even has the gall to show up at my door at around 2:00 AM! Luckily, she didn't wake the neighbors up. Anyways, she promised to make it "worth my while" to let her in and I know, I listened to the little head instead of the big head.

Well, as we get into bed, she just rolls over and says good night, saying that she has an early day tomorrow! WTF!

Luckily, I hadn't given the donation yet and she at least understood in the morning.

However, given the lack of consideration and no BCD, I figured I'd put this out there even though she did show up at the end.

Watch out for this one, guys.
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Rofl.

No dude (at least not any heterosexual one) would think that having your SO have sex with a lady was somehow a bad thing. Originally Posted by jbravo_123

Until you wake up one morning to find out that she left you for .... Another woman.

Married :UTR/Off-The-Grid.
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Is this some kind od survey?

Until you wake up one morning to find out that she left you for .... Another woman. Originally Posted by StinkyFingers

If she leaves me for someone else, it doesn't matter if it's for a man or a woman.

Having the other person leave is something that can happen in any relationship. Keeping your SO caged up at home isn't going to change that.

Men Of Steel don't need cages! Kaboom! Bam! Pow! May The Force be with you Zod. Have fun.

Men Of Steel don't need cages! Kaboom! Bam! Pow!. Originally Posted by StinkyFingers

Thou, O king, sawest, and behold a great image. This great image, whose brightness was excellent, stood before thee; and the form thereof was terrible.
This image's head was of fine gold, his breast and his arms of silver, his belly and his thighs of brass,
His legs of iron, his feet part of iron and part of clay....
And whereas thou sawest the feet and toes, part of potters' clay, and part of iron, the kingdom shall be divided; but there shall be in it of the strength of the iron, forasmuch as thou sawest the iron mixed with miry clay.
And as the toes of the feet were part of iron, and part of clay, so the kingdom shall be partly strong, and partly broken.
And whereas thou sawest iron mixed with miry clay, they shall mingle themselves with the seed of men: but they shall not cleave one to another, even as iron is not mixed with clay.

Only time will tell.

He need only ask himself one question: Why is it that his wife suggested to him that they start hobbying together?

Men Of Steel don't need cages! Kaboom! Bam! Pow! May The Force be with you Zod. Have fun. Originally Posted by StinkyFingers

No problem, I'm having a great time!

Only time will tell. Originally Posted by Don T. Lukbak

As is always the case with things, yes.

He need only ask himself one question: Why is it that his wife suggested to him that they start hobbying together? Originally Posted by StinkyFingers

Because it was something we both were interested in?

We need some wifey taint posted in order to answer your question.

Yes, I already pretty much have the mindset you describe. I am really not walking around with a ton of guilt. Sex was good when we were dating, but just slowly went away, and became less and less after the kids came. Its clear that neither one of us have any sexual attraction to each other. Its just I need a sexual relationship with a women once in a while. Just regret it has never been with my wife. It would not solve anything to tell her about my occasional hobbying. It is what it is! But to me, it is not really cheating on her since she is not interested in sex anyway. "Even the bible says a man and women in marriage should not withhold there bodies from each other " ??